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jmcquown - 21 Jul 2006 07:25 GMT ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about some nice thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things that *do* or *did* go right in our lives for a change? Some of you have children and may even be grateful for them LOL Okay, that was a smart-a.s remark! Sorry!
I'm very lucky I'm still alive. I don't mean that in a funny way, but when I was 14 years old I was hit by a car while walking down a suburban neighborhood street along with some friends; could very easily have been killed. I was an innocent kid at the time and the driver was elderly and probably shouldn't have still had a license. Doesn't matter, I lived to terrorize my parents another teenage day. LOL There are lots of things I shouldn't have done, but not too terribly many things I truly regret.
At any rate, I'm grateful and sending purrs out to the folks (and pets) I may have helped along the way. I try to give back, not with the goal of getting into "heaven" (whatever that may be) but to just be a good person.
Jill <--growing philosophical in her middle age :)
Joy - 21 Jul 2006 07:47 GMT > ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about some > nice [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Jill <--growing philosophical in her middle age :) I like this idea, Jill. I, too, am lucky to be alive.
When I was nine years old I developed a mastoid infection. For those who don't know, the mastoid is a cavity in the bone behind the ear. At the time, the only treatment for that was surgery to release the pus from inside the cavity. By the time my doctor realized that my ear infection was actually mastoiditis, my life was definitely in danger. The specialist my parents took me to at that time said that if nothing were done, the bone on the inside of the cavity, which is rather thin, would probably burst, sending the infection into my brain. OTOH, the swelling was so bad that the saw cutting into the bone for the surgery would probably have the same result.
However, penicillin had just been released for civilian use. This was in 1945, and it had been reserved for the military up to then. He said they'd give it to me in the hope that it would reduce the infection enough so he could operate. Instead, it cured the infection completely.
A few months ago I decided to give a speech to my Toastmasters club about the experience. As part of my research, I looked up mastoiditis in the Merck Manual, which doctors use extensively for diagnosis and treatment information. Today the preferred treatment for mastoiditis is ... penicillin!
Joy
Pat - 21 Jul 2006 07:57 GMT > When I was nine years old I developed a mastoid infection. For those who > don't know, the mastoid is a cavity in the bone behind the ear. At the [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > information. Today the preferred treatment for mastoiditis is ... > penicillin! Were you eating much ice cream at that age? I ask because every time I give in to the urge for ice cream (about twice a year), I get an earache and/or a sore throat and/or a toothache that lasts for up to a week. I can imagine what would happen if I ate ice cream as much as I really would like to!
Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jul 2006 18:23 GMT > Were you eating much ice cream at that age? I ask because every time > I give in to the urge for ice cream (about twice a year), I get an > earache and/or a sore throat and/or a toothache that lasts for up to > a week. I can imagine what would happen if I ate ice cream as much > as I really would like to! Boy. I would be in constant pain if that happened to me. (Well no, I think like you I'd learn to leave it alone, for the most part.)
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jmcquown - 21 Jul 2006 08:10 GMT >> ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about >> some nice >> thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things that *do* or *did* go >> right in >> our lives for a change?
>> At any rate, I'm grateful and sending purrs out to the folks (and >> pets) I may have helped along the way. I try to give back, not with [quoted text clipped - 29 lines] > > Joy Isn't that *fantastic*! YAY! Lord knows I've been given penicillin I don't know how many times (and thank you Dr. Andrew Fleming!) for bacterial infections. One thing people need to realize: antibiotics such as penicillin won't do a thing against viral infections. So please don't bug the heck out of your doctor if you have the flu. Antibiotics won't help!
Jill
Enfilade - 21 Jul 2006 12:17 GMT for the things that *do* or *did* go
> >> right in > >> our lives for a change? There are the teachers at school, who recognized that my trip to the health room was not flu or cramps. They took me to the hospital and I was in surgery within hours for a ruptured appendix. I had been experiencing attacks for two years at that point. If they had not said anything, I might well have not gone to the hospital at all before it was too late.
There is the fact that I found a job I really like (teaching computer basics and career search techniques to people on Worker's Comp who need to look for less physical jobs due to their injuries) very quickly this summer, a job that is part time while I am in school and will hopefully go full time soon after I graduate. After 2003/04 (8 months of unemployment followed by 3 months of bad, bad job followed by 15 months of illness) it was like the good things I had owning all sent cheques at once.
And I have 4 fat, bad kitties.
--Fil
Cheryl Perkins - 21 Jul 2006 13:46 GMT I've got a job I like, a home, plenty to eat, basically good health, and good relationships with my cat, family and friends.
Not too long ago, I came out of a long period during which I had none of the above, except a good relationship with a cat, and a home I was at high risk of losing due to bad jobs and no jobs, and I haven't forgotten those times. I know how lucky I am, and I make every effort to keep my life running properly and to enjoy every minute.
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Magic Mood Jeep© - 21 Jul 2006 13:58 GMT >>> ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about >>> some nice [quoted text clipped - 44 lines] > > Jill I myself am allergic to penicillin - was given it once as a child (I was 3-4 years old) and I broke out in hives. Haven't had it since. Last antibiotic I has was in a Z-Pack (Zithromycin), and for a sinus infection. Worked so well, the *second* day I was on that stuff, I blew my nose and (eww-factor here) got a tissue full of greenish-yellow slime. A wad about the size of a golf ball. How it came out through my nostrils in one blow, without rupturing my eardrums, I'll never know! But that was the end of the sinus infection! I did have the 'sniffles' for a couple of days, but no more headache & all that. And I was at work when it happened, so the eww-factor was quintupled by my coworkers (in a cubicle environment) had to actually *listen* to me extract that slimeball from my sinus.....
Dewi - 22 Jul 2006 10:20 GMT > Isn't that *fantastic*! YAY! Lord knows I've been given penicillin I don't > know how many times (and thank you Dr. Andrew Fleming!) for bacterial [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > Jill ...and don't forget, thanks to Dr Florey and all the other researchers who developed penicillin. They always get forgotten.
Dewi.
kraut - 21 Jul 2006 14:12 GMT >... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about some nice >thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things that *do* or *did* go right in [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > >Jill <--growing philosophical in her middle age :) You got that right!!! I agree with you 1000% on this. We seem to forget all the good things the Guy up stairs has bestowed on us and forget about him. But as soon as we need help we are right there asking.
I was told once that the way to keep a blessing or get more blessing is to tell people abot the blessing that we have gotten!!
Magic Mood Jeep© - 21 Jul 2006 15:04 GMT > ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about > some nice thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things that *do* or [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Jill <--growing philosophical in her middle age :) Y'know - I started thinking about this, and you're right. After all the *stupid* things I did in my youth (I used to drive 80mph on the highway, just to see if I could! I'm sure it was probably faster than that, but the speedometer on the car I had at the time only went to 80mph.... and I stopped doing that when the tranny burned up & cost me $400 to fix lol)... all those things that *could* have ended my life, but didn't for some strange reason....
sriddles@aol.com - 21 Jul 2006 15:07 GMT > ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about some nice > thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things that *do* or *did* go right in > our lives for a change? Some of you have children and may even be grateful > for them LOL Okay, that was a smart-a.s remark! Sorry! Yes it was. Apology accepted.
> I'm very lucky I'm still alive. I don't mean that in a funny way, but when > I was 14 years old I was hit by a car while walking down a suburban [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Jill <--growing philosophical in her middle age :) I am very grateful to be alive also, for reasons I've already posted about. I call this stage of life "the bonus round." Grateful mostly to be exactly in the place (both physically and metaphorically) that I want to be at this stage of my life.
Sherry
Victor Martinez - 21 Jul 2006 15:27 GMT > I'm very lucky I'm still alive. I think we all are. Tom and I have been very fortunate to have found one another and to have been entrusted with raising the most wonderful group of cats there is! :)
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Takayuki - 24 Jul 2006 00:13 GMT >I think we all are. Tom and I have been very fortunate to have found one >another and to have been entrusted with raising the most wonderful group >of cats there is! :) Those are excellent things to be thankful for.
Shirley - 21 Jul 2006 23:20 GMT > ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about > some nice [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > grateful > for them LOL Okay, that was a smart-a.s remark! Sorry! I'm lucky I married a man who is allmost as daft about cats as I am.
I'm gratefull for all the happy memories my foster cats have given me.
I'm thankfull for my two grandaughters.
I'm happy my unexpected work is finished and I'll get paid straight away. This looks to be the start off a good work relationship with more work next week.
I don't regret anything, life's to short for regrets.
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Tanada - 21 Jul 2006 23:33 GMT > ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about some nice > thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things that *do* or *did* go right in > our lives for a change? Some of you have children and may even be grateful > for them LOL Okay, that was a smart-a.s remark! Sorry! If we're talking blessings...There's Rob. I was 26 when we met. I was coming off a bad relationship (I'd just discovered that he was married) and had totally sworn off men. Then I met Rob, and discovered Role Playing Games at the same time. We've been together through some pretty rough times and a lot of really wonderful ones. No matter how much longer we have together, Rob has been the biggest blessing I could receive.
Then there's the kids. I gripe about them a lot, but they are wonderful in their own way. I suspect that I gripe about them as a way of not pushing my luck. They have their faults, but when I need them, they always come through.
There's modern medicine that has made it possible to have my husband for a little while longer. Twenty years ago, they'd have tried, but he would probably have been gone by now. I can't thank the medical system in North Carolina enough for the care they've given Rob. I'm also living longer because of the advances in diabetic care. I'm grateful for that as well.
Then there is the computer age. Without it and affordable personal computers, I wouldn't be writing this today. I'm grateful that my world has gotten smaller and increased at the same time. Who'd have thought in the 60's and 70's that I'd have friends all over the world? Bless you all.
Last but not least there are the owners. We have our issues with them on occasion (Huey tried to take out my computer the other day) but I'd be lost without my little buddies who keep me company while I surf the net, read, watch tv, cross stitch, cook, and all the other things I do during the day. My biggest complaint about working is that I can't take one of my cats into the class room.
Pam S. grateful for a lot that she can't even express adequately
Dan M - 22 Jul 2006 00:19 GMT > ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how about some nice > thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things that *do* or *did* go right in > our lives for a change? Some of you have children and may even be grateful > for them LOL Okay, that was a smart-a.s remark! Sorry! Let's see:
I'm more grateful than I can express for finding Nancy and being to share my life with her;
I'm very grateful that my son Sean has grown into such an exceptional young man;
I'm thankful that my brother and my mom are still hanging in there in spite of their health challenges;
I'm grateful that Nancy and I have always been able to find a way to scratch by financially, even in our darkest moments;
I'm grateful for this job as a system administrator, even though I do have days when I question my sanity for staying here;
And of course, and I so very thankful that I'm fortunate enough to be able to share my life with such a wonderful house full of kitties!
Dan
Cheryl - 22 Jul 2006 05:06 GMT > ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how > about some nice thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Jill <--growing philosophical in her middle age :) I have a hard time finding something I'm grateful for these days. I read your post and thought "bah humbug" like the Christmas Story. I honestly feel that life is a chore. There must be something more. How can my life lead to the loss of my only child, with no grandkids like my own parents are having fun with, and they are ready for great grand children now. I even have problems with simple things like beneficiaries in the stupid life insurance policies and retirement funds if I am lucky enough to die before I need them.
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jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 22 Jul 2006 08:08 GMT > I have a hard time finding something I'm grateful for these days. I > read your post and thought "bah humbug" like the Christmas Story. I [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > policies and retirement funds if I am lucky enough to die before I > need them. When you have a deep heartache like you have, it doesn't ever really go away. Now that you have all this work stress in your life, I guess it must be hard to keep yourself from sinking into that ongoing grief.
You know what I think? You don't have to be grateful if you don't feel like it. The hell with it! If you're pissed off at life, be pissed off. There's nothing I hate more than telling someone about something I'm upset about, and having them say, "Don't think about that, think about everything you have to be grateful for..." Does that suggestion come with a barf bag? :)
I'm not saying it's better to be negative than positive. I'm just saying that the best thing, no matter where you're at, is to be honest.
Purrs for your stress and your heartache and grief. It will get better!
Joyce
Cheryl - 23 Jul 2006 22:22 GMT On Sat 22 Jul 2006 03:08:22a, wrote in rec.pets.cats.anecdotes (news:44c1cee6$0$34574$742ec2ed@news.sonic.net):
> You know what I think? You don't have to be grateful if you > don't feel like it. The hell with it! If you're pissed off at > life, be pissed off. There's nothing I hate more than telling > someone about something I'm upset about, and having them say, > "Don't think about that, think about everything you have to be > grateful for..." Does that suggestion come with a barf bag? :) I had a hard time admitting that. Everyone says how it gets better, but then when things compound, it set me back. I honestly didn't feel grateful when I wrote it, but writing it made me sit back and think. So it just had to come out. I don't care what people think that I never went for therapy before now, but people are urging me to now. I tend to avoid people who tell me what to do, even when they mean well. I'm running out of people. And, I reached the point where I don't even want to feel better.
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"Think occasionally of the suffering of which you spare yourself the sight." - Albert Schweitzer
Adrian A - 23 Jul 2006 23:17 GMT > On Sat 22 Jul 2006 03:08:22a, wrote in rec.pets.cats.anecdotes > (news:44c1cee6$0$34574$742ec2ed@news.sonic.net): [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > they mean well. I'm running out of people. And, I reached the point > where I don't even want to feel better. It hurts just trying to imagine how you feel, it must be so much worse actually feeling it. :-(
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Joy - 22 Jul 2006 09:01 GMT >> ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how >> about some nice thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things [quoted text clipped - 28 lines] > policies and retirement funds if I am lucky enough to die before I > need them. ((((((((((((Cheryl)))))))))))
I can't think of anything worse than losing a child.
Joy
polonca12000 - 22 Jul 2006 15:00 GMT > I have a hard time finding something I'm grateful for these days. I > read your post and thought "bah humbug" like the Christmas Story. I [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > policies and retirement funds if I am lucky enough to die before I > need them. We are thinking of you, sending lots and lots of gentle hugs and purrs, Polonca and Soncek
jmcquown - 23 Jul 2006 22:40 GMT >> ... nothing wrong with asking for purrs; they help. But how >> about some nice thoughts, purrs, prayers, etc. for the things [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > policies and retirement funds if I am lucky enough to die before I > need them. I'm certainly not trying or intending to tell you how to feel, Cheryl. I'm very sorry for your loss and did not mean in any way to diminish it or to make you feel even worse for wishing a few good thoughts rather than blue ones.
Jill
Cheryl - 23 Jul 2006 23:36 GMT > I'm certainly not trying or intending to tell you how to feel, > Cheryl. I'm very sorry for your loss and did not mean in any > way to diminish it or to make you feel even worse for wishing a > few good thoughts rather than blue ones. Jill, I know. Please don't think my post was directed toward you. I actually thought the thread was very nice. I just didn't feel it. But you know what? You helped me. I said what I felt, and I felt better.
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Takayuki - 24 Jul 2006 00:19 GMT >I have a hard time finding something I'm grateful for these days. I >read your post and thought "bah humbug" like the Christmas Story. I [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] >policies and retirement funds if I am lucky enough to die before I >need them. That's so sad, to have been left without a trace of him. Not his father, nor any siblings or children. I am still sad for you.
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