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CatNipped - 05 Jul 2006 00:05 GMT
I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here
know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some purrs
to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a temp
agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it home in
time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).

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Shirley - 05 Jul 2006 00:17 GMT
>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does
>anyone here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would
>appreciate some purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have
>an appointment with a temp agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling
>well enough and can make it home in time to get dressed and go back
>across half the city to get there).

Purrs for your test to be ok.

It's a long, long time since I had one, but what I can remember is
being given 2 drinks (one thick consistency and one thin). I can't
remeber which I was given first but for one they scanned/x-rayed me as
I swallowed it and for the second one I was x-rayed in various
positions, standing, laying flat and with my head lower than my feet.
I felt fine afterwards though going to the bathroom for a couple of
days afterwards was...hmm...shall we say 'colourful'.

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sriddles@aol.com - 05 Jul 2006 00:29 GMT
> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here
> know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some purrs
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>
> CatNipped

If it's the same one I had a few years back, they just give you some
chalky stuff (well, they tell you it's strawberry flavored, but
honestly. It's not totally nasty, but not good either)..and take
x-rays. I don't remember being sick over it at all. Hope it goes well
for you. Good luck.

Sherry
mlbriggs - 05 Jul 2006 00:35 GMT
> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here
> know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some purrs
> to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a temp
> agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it home in
> time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).
 

FYI  It is like drinking a chalky   milkshake.  Then they watch it travel
through your digestive system.  In the old days they used fluoroscope -
don't know what they do today, maybe pictures).   It all works out in the
end.  Best wishes for a good result.   MLB
Matthew - 05 Jul 2006 00:39 GMT
Cat   I am going to very blunt and crude her forgive me ;-)

you will get sweet revenge on your old man for all those accidentally
release of gas in the bed but you will have a medical excuse for "your
accidents"

If they have orange flavor take it

You should be able to go home as soon as the test is finished.
Some people feel a little sickly for a few hours afterwards.
You can eat normally straight after any barium test.
The barium may make you constipated. Therefore, to help prevent
constipation:
Have lots to drink for a day or so to flush the barium out of your gut.
Eat plenty of fruit for a day or so.
See your doctor if you haven't passed any (stools) after three or four days.
The barium will make your faeces white or pale until it has all come out of
your gut (after a day or so).
If you had an injection to relax the muscles in your stomach, it may can
cause some blurring of your vision for an hour or so. If this happens it is
best not to drive
Tell your doctor if you have insulin-dependent diabetes, so that you can
arrange for the best time for you to stop eating and for the test to be
done.

>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone
>here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some
>purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a
>temp agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it
>home in time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).
Monique Y. Mudama - 05 Jul 2006 00:50 GMT
> The barium may make you constipated. Therefore, to help prevent
> constipation:

What about an OTC stool softener, would that help?  I had to laugh
when that was prescribed as part of my pre-colonoscopy routine; the
last thing I could ever imagine needing at that point was a stool
softener!  Still not sure what that was all about.  Maybe I'll
remember to ask eventually.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 05 Jul 2006 00:48 GMT
> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does
> anyone here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would
> appreciate some purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have
> an appointment with a temp agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling
> well enough and can make it home in time to get dressed and go back
> across half the city to get there).

Purrs for both.  I don't know what that is, so I don't know if it's
reasonable to go to an interview-tpe appointment afterwards.  If
you're not feeling your best, I'd definitely ask to reschedule.

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Kreisleriana - 05 Jul 2006 01:06 GMT
>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here
>know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some purrs
>to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a temp
>agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it home in
>time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).

You swallow some gunk that makes your digestive system "light up"--
well, sort of.   They X-ray it traveling through you to make sure your
piping is all in good order.  I think people react very individually
to the barium-- I was good for nothing pretty much for the rest of the
day after I did it, but other people go right about their business.
Purring for your day to go smoothly-- no pun intended.

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jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 05 Jul 2006 08:02 GMT
> You swallow some gunk that makes your digestive system "light up"--
> well, sort of.   They X-ray it traveling through you to make sure your
> piping is all in good order.

Question: why do people get colonoscopies if you can get this instead?
This sounds a lot less invasive.

My doctor prescribed a barium something or other (enema? or the stuff
you drink, I'm not sure), because although I had a flexible sigmoidography
a couple of months ago, that only lets the doctor see about half your
colon, whereas the barium thingie lets you see all of it. I don't know
why she chose that rather than a colonoscopy. Should I be glad of this?
Am I getting the best exam possible?

I'm not symptomatic in any way, this is just preventive.

Joyce
Monique Y. Mudama - 05 Jul 2006 08:26 GMT
> > You swallow some gunk that makes your digestive system "light
> > up"-- well, sort of.   They X-ray it traveling through you to make
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>
> I'm not symptomatic in any way, this is just preventive.

Well, you need the colonoscopy to get biopsies.  I remember reading
that various non-invasive techniques are less effective than a
colonoscopy for detecting IBD/IBS type problems, but I don't know if
that extends to other concerns as well.

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Irulan - 05 Jul 2006 01:57 GMT
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>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone
>here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some
>purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a
>temp agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it
>home in time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).
Cheryl - 05 Jul 2006 02:08 GMT
> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does
> anyone here know what that is and what I should expect?) and
> would appreciate some purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.
> Also, I have an appointment with a temp agency in the afternoon
> (if I am feeling well enough and can make it home in time to get
> dressed and go back across half the city to get there).

Purrs for both hon.

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Jo Firey - 05 Jul 2006 02:54 GMT
>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone
>here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some
>purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a
>temp agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it
>home in time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).

The stuff I had to swallow for my cat scan a few weeks ago really wasn't all
that foul, especially compared to the stuff 30 years ago.

It was two large glasses of slightly chalky flavored stuff.  As I told
another lady who was there with me, "just drink it".

No point in overthinking it.  Ya gotta do what ya gotta do.  And if you've
already had stomach surgery, I'm sure you've been through worse.

Ask ahead if the are going to do an iodine contrast that involves an IV.  If
you are a difficult stick you don't want some amateur trying to start that
on you in mid test.

Why not take an overnight case and change somewhere in town?  Surely there
is somewhere you are getting the test that you could dress and fix make-up
once you are done.  Then you might have saved enough time to have lunch or a
movie or some sort of treat which I'm thinking you deserve by now.

Jo

Jo
CatNipped - 05 Jul 2006 03:26 GMT
>>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone
>>here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate
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> It was two large glasses of slightly chalky flavored stuff.  As I told
> another lady who was there with me, "just drink it".

I had the CT scan done Friday, and since I'm alergic to IVP dyes (iodine)
they made me drink the contrast gunk (if the doctor had only alerted them to
my allergy they could have "premedicated" me the night before and then right
before the test with Benadryl so I wouldn't have had to drink the gunky
stuff).  I'm thinking the "barium swallow" may be different than that
though.

> No point in overthinking it.  Ya gotta do what ya gotta do.  And if you've
> already had stomach surgery, I'm sure you've been through worse.
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> once you are done.  Then you might have saved enough time to have lunch or
> a movie or some sort of treat which I'm thinking you deserve by now.

I might just do that, just to make the interview.  The test is scheduled for
9:00AM, which in medical-speak means actually around 10:30AM - 11:00AM, and
my "interview" is at 1:30PM - and they are across town from both my home and
each other!

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> Jo
>
> Jo
Jo Firey - 05 Jul 2006 04:27 GMT
Oops.  I forgot the purrs and hugs and well wishes.

Specific wish that doctors get exactly the right information from the tests
to provide exactly the right diagnosis and treatment.

If I live to hear one more time "when we opened you up we were really
surprise by the extent..."

They do enough tests to take you apart and put you back together like a Lego
set and are still surprised?

So extra purrs and hugs for the tests to provide the right information and
for all problems to be solved easily and properly.

Jo

>>>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone
>>>here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate
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>>
>> Jo
Monique Y. Mudama - 05 Jul 2006 08:24 GMT
> They do enough tests to take you apart and put you back together
> like a Lego set and are still surprised?

Further evidence of the amazing variety and capability of the human
body.

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Victor Martinez - 05 Jul 2006 03:40 GMT
> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here

Lots of purrs.

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badwilson - 05 Jul 2006 04:50 GMT
Many purrs!  For everything :-)
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> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does
> anyone here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would
> appreciate some purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have
> an appointment with a temp agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling
> well enough and can make it home in time to get dressed and go back
> across half the city to get there).
Takayuki - 05 Jul 2006 05:04 GMT
>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here
>know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some purrs
>to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a temp
>agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it home in
>time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).

Purrs for your barium swallow, although I've never had one so can't
help.  And purrs for the temp agency - you want to switch to contract
work?
CatNipped - 05 Jul 2006 13:16 GMT
>>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone
>>here
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> help.  And purrs for the temp agency - you want to switch to contract
> work?

Right now, I'd take *ANYTHING* that would get me out of where I am and still
let me pay my mortgage (forget the other bills, I'm desperate)!  I'm the
main breadwinner in my household and I *HAVE* to work (Ben does help desk
support, but they never give him a full 40 hour week and they pay him
beans!).

I've been asking agencies for temp-to-hire, but if I have to take contract
work, then I'd rather it be long-term contracts so I can get on my feet and
find something permanent.

All I know is I'm either going to quit this place before my blood pressure
gives me a stroke or heart attack, or he's going to fire me for refusing to
spend my own money to go take certification testing ($250 per test and I
need to pass 5 of them for certification) for software development (which I
don't do, never have done, and don't *WANT* to do) - and for which he is
unwilling to pay for my training.  He will only reimburse me for the tests
if I pass them (and there's no way I can pass an MCSD/MCAD test without some
hands-on training) - so I'd be out $250 right at a time when I can't afford
pantyhose!!!

Hugs,

CatNipped
bobblespin - 05 Jul 2006 14:06 GMT
> Right now, I'd take *ANYTHING* that would get me out of where I am and
> still let me pay my mortgage (forget the other bills, I'm desperate)!
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>
> CatNipped

I've been doing temp work, by choice, since 1990 and have never
regretted leaving my 17 year job to do it (the stress of getting
everybody's work because I did it better got to me).  I find it
wonderful to be able to leave a job if I don't like it, or staying
longer when I like it.  It may pay a little less than a permanent job,
but the freedom and lack of migraines is worth every penny.  I've been
offered jobs many times since then when they discover I'm a good worker,
but I've always turned them down, to their amazement.  This is one of
the best ways of getting a permanent job though - you get to try it out
and if they offer you the job, you already know what you're in for.  
Lots of purrs for your test and interview.

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CatNipped - 05 Jul 2006 18:46 GMT
>> Right now, I'd take *ANYTHING* that would get me out of where I am and
>> still let me pay my mortgage (forget the other bills, I'm desperate)!
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> and if they offer you the job, you already know what you're in for.
> Lots of purrs for your test and interview.

Thanks for the advice - I'm probably going to have to do that since not many
companies will just hire someone off the street anyway (they also want to
"test run" and employee before sinking tons into benefits).  The only
problem I've found with that is lack of medical insurance (or *very* high
costs for medical insurance when the temp agency itself offers it).

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Monique Y. Mudama - 05 Jul 2006 20:33 GMT
> Thanks for the advice - I'm probably going to have to do that since
> not many companies will just hire someone off the street anyway
> (they also want to "test run" and employee before sinking tons into
> benefits).  The only problem I've found with that is lack of medical
> insurance (or *very* high costs for medical insurance when the temp
> agency itself offers it).

You know, eventually I want to become a software architect rather than
"just" an engineer, and I have a strong suspicion that at a certain
point, it is much easier to find contract specialty work than to find
a full time position.  For example, I would prefer to work at a small
company (not 8 people, necessarily, but not 1000), and they don't
really need a full time software architect.

While I was looking for a job, I met with a head hunter who
specialized in that kind of contract work, and it actually sounded
pretty good.  Not something I want at the moment, but maybe in the
future, as my skills exceed something most companies would want to pay
for full time ...

Just a thought.  Maybe you've outskilled the full time market.
Contracts aren't all bad; they typically pay more to compensate for
the fact that you don't know if you'll get work after.  So if you can
discipline yourself to put away a chunk for a rainy day ...

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Enfilade - 05 Jul 2006 14:38 GMT
> All I know is I'm either going to quit this place before my blood pressure
> gives me a stroke or heart attack, or he's going to fire me for refusing to
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> hands-on training) - so I'd be out $250 right at a time when I can't afford
> pantyhose!!!

It amazes me that that is legal...you had the qualifications to get the
job, now he says you need new ones, for something you don't work in,
and you have to pay for it yourself.  It sounds to me like he is trying
to antagonize you until you quit.

IS that legal for him to do?

Anyway, I know that a barium swallow isn't as precise as a -scopy, and
though I had a barium swallow for my ulcers, the next step was putting
a camera-tube down my throat for a look around.  I probably should've
had it done, but didn't, since you're conscious for it and I have the
gag reflex from hell.  If I've thrown up just from brushing my back
teeth, could I really tolerate a tube down my throat into my tummy?

(Yes, I still brush my back teeth.  Just quickly.  And carefully.  And
with breaks between teeth.  And with a lot of water before and after I
go back there.)

I'm glad you're already gone Lori, because my barium swallow had no
flavour, was super nasty and I had to chug it.  Doing this when you
can't keep normal food down, well, the tech is really lucky is all I
can say.

Purrs for health and work.

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Katrina - 05 Jul 2006 17:24 GMT
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> Anyway, I know that a barium swallow isn't as precise as a -scopy, and
> though I had a barium swallow for my ulcers, the next step was putting
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> can't keep normal food down, well, the tech is really lucky is all I
> can say.

This is why I didn't reply to Lori's post myself...  I also have the
gag reflex from hell (complete with the same problem brushing my back
teeth). My dentist has notes in BIG letters on my chart.  The dental
techs are warned NOT to move the vacuum and water thingies around in my
mouth and to watch me carefully for any sign that I'm going to gag.
During the barium swallow, I actually spewed the chalky stuff all over
their machine...  I *warned* the techs, but they didn't believe me.  
Oh, well, once they cleaned the machine off, they covered it with
plastic to finish the test. The test itself wasn't so bad *except* for
the gagging part.  Hopefully Lori's will go smoothly.

Katrina

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CatNipped - 05 Jul 2006 18:58 GMT
>> All I know is I'm either going to quit this place before my blood
>> pressure
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>
> IS that legal for him to do?

I don't know.  He's a "small business" owner with only about 8 employees, so
he slides by a lot of federal regulations.  I don't *think* he can outright
fire me for this - but I'm going to find out by "pushing" back by just not
taking the test*.  I found out Monday that he recently bought out another
business that does web hosting and they come with their own web development
team.  He obviously doesn't need me as a web developer so I think he's
trying to either 1) push me into doing software development and selling what
I create or 2) if he can't get me to do that then he's trying to force me to
quit so he won't have to pay unemployment (did you guys know that your
former employer pays this??? - kind of an incentive for them to find reason
to outright fire someone instead of laying them off if their job becomes
redundant!!!!).

*When he was pushing me to take the certification test and I told him I
didn't know it well enough and wanted some training he said "I can't afford
to spend $3,000 to send you to class when I've already spent thousands of
dollars training you".  Well those "thousands of dollars", unless he's
counting my actual salary, are in fact only $399.95 for *ALL* the courses
they offer (http://www.staffkit.com/) for an entire year (and he didn't use
the small business deal, he bought it only for himself and then gave out his
user id and password to all his employees so we could *ALL* be "trained").

This guy is a real piece of work and right now I'm just willing to take
*ANYTHING* just to get away from there (and the 1.5 hour commute and all the
other sh*t he's slinging at me right now).

> Anyway, I know that a barium swallow isn't as precise as a -scopy, and
> though I had a barium swallow for my ulcers, the next step was putting
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>
> --Fil

Thanks, I'm going to start another thread about the testing that I just had.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Monique Y. Mudama - 05 Jul 2006 20:28 GMT
> for an entire year (and he didn't use the small business deal, he
> bought it only for himself and then gave out his user id and
> password to all his employees so we could *ALL* be "trained").

Hey, it's not illegal for you to blow the whistle, is it?

I'm pondering exactly how I would want to tell him, "Look, Mr.
Dickweed, if you don't treat me with respect and have some
consideration for my health, I'm going to mention just a few of the
shady things you've done to this training company (and I'm sure
there's more if there's that one).

If he's doing that, what's the likelihood the computers at work have
licensed copies of whatever programs the employees are using?

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Takayuki - 06 Jul 2006 02:41 GMT
>All I know is I'm either going to quit this place before my blood pressure
>gives me a stroke or heart attack, or he's going to fire me for refusing to
>spend my own money to go take certification testing

I know this may not give you practical help for your situation, but
some comfort may be found in that this is probably due to the
company's growing pains, and that your boss probably doesn't have
anything against you or the other employees personally.

When companies grow, they go through phases of a lifecycle where they
encounter several crises, like the crisis of a start-up not having
mature processes in place, or the crisis of a mature company having
too much red tape and being surpassed by nimbler rivals.  Your company
is facing a lot of changes, with new facilities, new employees, and
since you weren't there day to day, a lot of those changes probably
weren't communicated to you face to face, and it's a sudden shock.

It personally sounds to me as though your boss wants to bring you in
closer and give you more skills and responsibilities so that you'll
become a go-to person for him to delegate certain responsibilities.
It sounds like he holds you in high regard that way.  That's not to
say that you shouldn't quit anyway, since you do have the longer
commute and all, but it's less depressing when you can make a little
sense of your company's motives.
Monique Y. Mudama - 06 Jul 2006 03:05 GMT
>>All I know is I'm either going to quit this place before my blood
>>pressure gives me a stroke or heart attack, or he's going to fire me
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> commute and all, but it's less depressing when you can make a little
> sense of your company's motives.

Interesting points all.  You could have a point, Tak.  Or maybe Lori's
boss is really a jerk!  But there's that famous quote, maybe Heinlein?
about attributing actions to malice when in fact they came from
stupidity (or in this case, perhaps confusion).

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CatNipped - 06 Jul 2006 03:09 GMT
>>All I know is I'm either going to quit this place before my blood pressure
>>gives me a stroke or heart attack, or he's going to fire me for refusing
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> commute and all, but it's less depressing when you can make a little
> sense of your company's motives.

Oh, Tak, you're such a dear, sweet man!  Thank you for that vote of
confidence - I *needed* it!

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Takayuki - 06 Jul 2006 03:57 GMT
>Oh, Tak, you're such a dear, sweet man!  Thank you for that vote of
>confidence - I *needed* it!

I think you deserve it, but it's what I really think is likely.
Imagine all the confusion at your HQ!  They're trying to pull everyone
together because there's so much more to manage!  I'll bet your boss
thought that he was keeping you on reserve to be activated, like some
kind of pinch hitter.

Another area in which he's probably just confused is the certification
training thing.  Instead of comparing it to professional cert training
and seminars and things, he's probably comparing it with tuition
reimbursement plans, which usually have the employee pay up-front, and
then reimburse once they get a passing grade.  So he's currently under
the delusion that the cert plan he gave you is a *benefit*.  That's
likely why you two can't see eye-to-eye on it.

So he's confused. :)
Monique Y. Mudama - 06 Jul 2006 04:22 GMT
> Another area in which he's probably just confused is the
> certification training thing.  Instead of comparing it to
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>
> So he's confused. :)

I think I know why you didn't like the seven habits stuff.  You
already seem to be practicing a lot of it, either instinctively or
through some other learning process, so no need to go through a
burdensome process of learning it.  It would be like trying to teach
someone to breathe ...

Habits four through six are about learning to really understand the
other person's point of view and working to both find a solution that
is not a compromise, but rather better for all parties than the
original solutions proposed.  But the first step is genuinely
understanding what the other person is seeing and wants.

Since I just today finished reading the book, I'm seeing everything
through seven habits-tinted glasses.  Don't mind me, please.

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Adrian A - 05 Jul 2006 14:55 GMT
> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does
> anyone here know what that is and what I should expect?) and would
> appreciate some purrs to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have
> an appointment with a temp agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling
> well enough and can make it home in time to get dressed and go back
> across half the city to get there).

Purrs for your test, I hope it won't be as bad as you anticipate.
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glsummer@neptunelink.com - 05 Jul 2006 15:35 GMT
>I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here
>know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some purrs
>to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a temp
>agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it home in
>time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).

A bit belated, but I'm sure you came through it fine.  It's one of the
easier tests I've ever done.  The stuff tastes chalky, but that's
about it.  Hope you did well!

Ginger-lyn

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Sam - 06 Jul 2006 03:19 GMT
> I have to go tomorrow morning for my "barium swallow" test (does anyone here
> know what that is and what I should expect?) and would appreciate some purrs
> to help me cope with the ordeal.  Also, I have an appointment with a temp
> agency in the afternoon (if I am feeling well enough and can make it home in
> time to get dressed and go back across half the city to get there).

I've only done the barium thing from the other end but you've got coping
purrs on the way from here as well as good interview purrs.

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