With four cats we're at our locally-ordinanced limit, and although I'd
take on the world of unwanted cats if time, money, space, and municipal
regulations were no option, I have to be realistic. When a fellow of our
acquaintance, Richard, started bugging us to take his Sabrina off his
hands because of supposed discord between her and his girlfriend's dog
(never anything but friendly when I visited, which was often) we had to
tell him we couldn't ourselves, gave him the numbers to Tenth Chance and
Ten Lives (both no-kill shelters) and told him we'd try to see if we
couldn't find a coworker or neighbor in the market for a cat.
After three months of his pestering, a couple days ago all of a sudden
the apartment doors were wide open and Sabrina left. You have to go
through three doors to get into the place. And Richard said he found her
in a nearby abandoned place, went to get her, picked her up, and she
slashed him all over his hands and face and chest. He told me this at a
party this afternoon, where he showed up having left his sick girlfriend
alone without aide, his hands and face free of scratches and slashes,
and he proceeded to follow me around the place hinting it never would
have happened if we had just taken her, and I'd feel better if I just
bought some Avon from the nice books he brought to the party just for me
to browse through.
I want to beat him senseless.
I know some of you have dealt with ferals, or have caught a prodigal cat
with some kind of food-baited trap. First, when a cat does escape and
find a warm hidey-hole (away from the fighting and bullshit that goes on
in Richard and Dusty's place), do they tend to stay in such places a
bit? Louie and I want to get out there with one of these traps, but we
need to figure out where to get one, and how to use it. From there, if
we can find Sabrina in the area Richard described, she'd go on to one of
our shelters.
I have a very bad feeling that she didn't escape, she was put out
because the novelty of a cat wore off. Richard had taken her on a whim,
after seeing her picture on a flyer at a pet store; her two-leg had
passed, and Sabrina was being cared for by one of the nurses who had
cared for the two-leg. Then came the bickering and complaining about the
noise (what noise?) and the fighting with the dog (they ate from the
same dish) and that when the couple moved they had to get rid of the
girlfreind's guinea pigs instead of the cat. Today came the guilt, and a
shoveload of it; and on top of it, three attempts to either borrow
money, or sell me make-up because "nothing makes me feel better than a
new lipstick."
Please send a few purrs out for a little tuxie girl named Sabrina. I
should have just taken her earlier this year and to the shelter
directly. Purrs that she either find a home better than she'd had, or
that she can be trapped by us or an animal control person (we know a guy
who works for the SPCA and goes on rescues, but I'm not sure how to
organize it for a runaway cat.) And for the people she ran from, that
they learn something about responsibility and priorities.
Blessed be,
Baha
Takayuki - 26 Jun 2006 05:47 GMT
>I have a very bad feeling that she didn't escape, she was put out
>because the novelty of a cat wore off. Richard had taken her on a whim,
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>organize it for a runaway cat.) And for the people she ran from, that
>they learn something about responsibility and priorities.
You know quite a few "interesting" cat owners. I'm sure that he's a
good person in many ways, but what a terrible cat slave, and
salesperson. :) I'm trying to put myself in his shoes. "What if I
got tired of my late tuxedo girl and decided to throw her out?" I
must be doing something wrong, because this mental exercise doesn't
seem to be working!
Tuxie girls need to be loved. Tabbie and tortie and solid and other
types of furry boys and girls too. She's all alone, and she deserves
to be loved.
Singh - 26 Jun 2006 15:32 GMT
> You know quite a few "interesting" cat owners.
Let this not be a reflection! :-)
> I'm sure that he's a good person in many ways, but what a terrible cat
> slave, and
> salesperson. :)
Not an evil person; just a yutz.
> I'm trying to put myself in his shoes. "What if I
> got tired of my late tuxedo girl and decided to throw her out?" I
> must be doing something wrong, because this mental exercise doesn't
> seem to be working!
No, no, you're doing it right. Resistance is key to strength!
> Tuxie girls need to be loved. Tabbie and tortie and solid and other
> types of furry boys and girls too. She's all alone, and she deserves
> to be loved.
Truer words are rarely spoken.
Blessed be,
Baha
badwilson - 26 Jun 2006 06:40 GMT
I'm beginning to suspect that you may need to use better judgement when
it comes to choosing the types of people you hang out with.
Purrs for poor Sabrina, she deserves better hoomins. I hope she finds
them.

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> With four cats we're at our locally-ordinanced limit, and although I'd
> take on the world of unwanted cats if time, money, space, and
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> Blessed be,
> Baha
Singh - 26 Jun 2006 15:32 GMT
I don't hang out with this joker; he hangs out with a guy my husband knows,
and I'm on friendly terms with his girl friend, who also deserves better. He
comes to a monthly meeting of science fiction fans and gamers (with a
minority of sports fans, myself and Louie among that small congregation) and
this is the only time I see the guy. I won't have him come over and try not
to pick up his calls because he's a career mooch. I wouldn't have contact at
all if I didn't go visit the girlfriend ever now and again; but even that
relationship's downhill because every visit has turned into me being hit up
for something.
He spent weeks talking about getting rid of the cat for various reasons: she
wasn't getting along with the dog, she was yowling all the time, walking on
counters etc. I tried all kinds of suggestions that had worked for me and
Louie, and other people I know who take their cats seriously. The complaints
were ridiculous; the cat and dog got along fine, and she didn't get into
stuff the way it sounded.
I feel horrible for poor Sabrina; what a tough break. I think maybe she ran
(if she wasn't put out) because she knew she was second-class in the
household, and not much appreciated. I hope someone finds her and gives her
a more proper and loving home, if she can't be trapped and taken to a place
where she would be cared for and fostered.
Blessed be,
Baha
> I'm beginning to suspect that you may need to use better judgement when
> it comes to choosing the types of people you hang out with.
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> > Blessed be,
> > Baha
Karen - 26 Jun 2006 14:21 GMT
This is horrible :( Is there anyway you can put up notices around that
neighborhood to call you if found? Do you have a picture? Can you call the
pound and see if she has been picked up?
> With four cats we're at our locally-ordinanced limit, and although I'd
> take on the world of unwanted cats if time, money, space, and municipal
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> Blessed be,
> Baha
Singh - 26 Jun 2006 15:32 GMT
We're working with a friend who works for the SPCA rescuing animals to see how
we can go about trapping her. I don't have a picture, though Richard might;
this means I'll have to put a clothespin on my nose and go see him and his
girlfriend. If so, we'll do the flyers, and if we can pinpoint her hiding
place we'll see about getting one of those traps. Supposedly she was seen
hanging around a building close to Richard's. I don't want to talk to the guy,
but if we can get a picture and make some leaflets to post up in the
neighborhood, I'll deal with him.
Thankfully the vast majority of cat people I know have some sense in their
heads!
Blessed be,
Baha
> This is horrible :( Is there anyway you can put up notices around that
> neighborhood to call you if found? Do you have a picture? Can you call the
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> > Blessed be,
> > Baha
Enfilade - 26 Jun 2006 15:56 GMT
> We're working with a friend who works for the SPCA rescuing animals to see how
> we can go about trapping her.
Purrs for poor Sabrina.
Do NOT let this idiot make you feel guilty. You did the responsible
thing by saying you couldn't handle any more cats, and by giving him
numbers of safe places to take her. Instead, he has done something
irresponsible and now is compounding it by attempting to guilt-trip
YOU, when in fact all the blame is HIS.
However since HE won't help Sabrina, it is good of you to help her
(poor girl) and at least with Smokey, he tended to shelter in the same
places (under the trailers) because he knew they were warm,dry and
secure, rather than risking a new hidey hole which might not be warm
and/or dry and/or secure, and to come out for food in the same places
(first the mess hall garbage, then the bowl of cat food by the
ops-centre when Capt. Hancock started to put out food for him).
Good luck.
--Fil
Kreisleriana - 26 Jun 2006 17:21 GMT
>With four cats we're at our locally-ordinanced limit, and although I'd
>take on the world of unwanted cats if time, money, space, and municipal
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>Blessed be,
>Baha
Purrs for a good outcome for Sabrina, and that Richard finds some
brains and compassion.
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glsummer@neptunelink.com - 26 Jun 2006 18:24 GMT
>With four cats we're at our locally-ordinanced limit, and although I'd
>take on the world of unwanted cats if time, money, space, and municipal
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>Blessed be,
>Baha
Poor Sabrina, and #$%^ to Richard. May she find a loving true
forever home one way or another.
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Sam - 27 Jun 2006 04:44 GMT
> With four cats we're at our locally-ordinanced limit, and although I'd
> take on the world of unwanted cats if time, money, space, and municipal
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> Blessed be,
> Baha
Purrs on the way for Sabrina to find a better home.

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polonca12000 - 27 Jun 2006 22:13 GMT
> With four cats we're at our locally-ordinanced limit, and although I'd
> take on the world of unwanted cats if time, money, space, and municipal
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> Ten Lives (both no-kill shelters) and told him we'd try to see if we
> couldn't find a coworker or neighbor in the market for a cat.
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> Please send a few purrs out for a little tuxie girl named Sabrina. I
> should have just taken her earlier this year and to the shelter
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> Blessed be,
> Baha
I'm so very sorry to hear this.
Lots and lots of purrs and best wishes for you to find Sabrina and for
her to find a great onetruehome really soon,
Polonca and Soncek