>>my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3 years
>>ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is getting
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> understand about loving our pets but there are times when we have to stop
> being selfish and consider what is best for the pet.

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>>>my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3 years
>>>ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is getting
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> final stages. The cat will let you know when it's time - you just have to
> be aware of it.
One cat we had die of this really never was sick. She just kind of slowed
down and became so anemic she barely moved. That was when we decided it was
the end. She had been diagnosed about three years earlier.
Jo
>>> my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3
>>> years ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is
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> The cat will let you know when it's time - you just have to
> be aware of it.
Everyone seems to ignore the fact that the vet wanted to put the cat to
sleep 3 years ago and the cat is getting worse. We don't know the age of
the cat but I seriously doubt the vet would have recommended putting the cat
to sleep just for grins.
Jill
Karen - 27 Apr 2006 00:10 GMT
>>>> my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3
>>>> years ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is
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> Jill
Lots of vets want to PTS a cat diagnosed with FeLV immediately, whether
the cat is ill or not. You have to keep that in mind when seeing that
"3 years ago" part.
CatNipped - 27 Apr 2006 00:25 GMT
>>>>> my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3
>>>>> years ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is
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> the cat is ill or not. You have to keep that in mind when seeing that "3
> years ago" part.
I always tend to err on the side of letting them live (as long as they're
eating and even somewhat enjoying their lives). I always think about me
having Fibromyalgia and being in pretty significant pain 24/7. Even living
with that is better to me than the alternative! I still enjoy my life, my
family and friends, and especially my furbabies! ;> Most cats who are
really ready to die will quit eating and start looking for somewhere to go
off to to die (in nature they move away from their clowder so draw
scavengers away from their family).

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Christina Websell - 27 Apr 2006 01:38 GMT
>>>> my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3
>>>> years ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is
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> Jill
Don't forget Helen's Francis, still alive and well long after the vet
advised putting him down (how long now, Helen? please chip in here..)
It doesn't sound good now, but maybe three years ago was different - well
obviously it must have been, otherwise he'd be gone before now.
I thought your first post was harsh, Jill. It's easy to see things in black
and white when you are removed from it. It's not your pain. Now imagine if
this was Persia.
Tweed
jmcquown - 27 Apr 2006 03:16 GMT
>>>>> my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3
>>>>> years ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is
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> Tweed
But I also said in another post, I certainly don't advocate putting a cat to
sleep simply because it's been diagnosed with a disease. Obviously we don't
know a thing about this cat, or even if there really *is* a cat, given we
have never heard of this poster before.
Jill
sriddles@aol.com - 27 Apr 2006 02:01 GMT
> >>> my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3
> >>> years ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is
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>
> Jill
A lot of vets think the only solution for FeLV is euthanasia. I think
that's partly because it *is* fatal, and partly because it is so
contagious they think every FeLV-positive cat is just going to go on
and infect other cats. I had a really good vet with Luke. She was
willing, and *encouraged* us to keep treating him as long as his
quality of life was good.
Sherry
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 27 Apr 2006 06:04 GMT
>>>>my friends cat has f.l. and doctor wanted to put him to sleep 3
>>>>years ago my friend could not do it he loves him so much now he is
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> the cat but I seriously doubt the vet would have recommended putting the cat
> to sleep just for grins.
You have more faith in vets than I! (A medical degree does
not confer godhood, although some vets - and human M.D.'s -
seem to think it does.) I can only judge from my own
experience with cats who had FLV. As I said, I had the one
put to sleep on the vet's recommendation, even though it was
simply lethargic, and did not appear to be in any pain. The
second lived for several years in what appeared to be
perfect health (which was why I regretted listening to the
vet who treated the first one.)
If the cat the OP mentioned IS in pain now, then perhaps the
time for goodbyes has come. However it seems clear that the
cat's person has had three more years with it than she would
have had, if she'd listened to the vet who wanted to
euthanize it that long ago!

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