Home | Contact Us | FAQ | Search & Site Map | Link to Us
Sign In | Join | Other 45 Sites in Network
Home
Discussion GroupsGeneral TopicsCat AnecdotesHealth and BehaviorRescue
CatKB.com
Contact UsLink To UsSearch & Site Map

Cat Forum / Cat Anecdotes / April 2006

Tip: Looking for answers? Try searching our database.

feeding stray-- who me?

Thread view: 
Enable EMail Alerts  Start New Thread
Thread rating: 
Cantate - 17 Apr 2006 06:40 GMT
Don't even think about suggesting that I would feed a stray cat.
Not unless he looks really skinny.
And is very polite.
And seems to have taken to my cats.
Not unless I remember that the person who was feeding him died three
months ago, and that's why I remember seeing him around before, looking
like he belonged somewhere.  Do you suppose my cats told him about our
place?

And don't think I'd name a stray cat either.
Unless I called him BadCat, or SandyCat, or other non-people names.

Or talk to him, while I'm putting out a bowl of food.

(Hey, wait a minute, what food?)

He really is a good-looking cat, with the same golden eyes as my Jona.
He could even be her father.

By the way, his name is Romeo, because he sings under our window.

Cantate
Adrian A - 17 Apr 2006 10:56 GMT
> Don't even think about suggesting that I would feed a stray cat.
> Not unless he looks really skinny.
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Cantate

STRICT, UNBENDING RULES FOR DEALING WITH STRAY CATS

  1.    Stray cats will not be fed.

  2.    Stray cats will not be fed anything except dry cat food.

  3.    Stray cats will not be fed anything except dry cat food moistened
with a little milk.

  4.    Stray cats will not be fed anything except dry cat food moistened
with warm milk, yummy treats and leftover fish scraps.

  5.    Stray cats will not be encouraged to make this house their
permanent residence.

  6.    Stray cats will not be petted, played with or picked up and cuddled
unnecessarily.

  7.    Stray cats that are petted, played with, picked up and cuddled will
absolutely not be given a name.

  8.    Stray cats with or without a name will not be allowed inside the
house at any time.

  9.    Stray cats will not be allowed inside the house except at certain
times.

10.    Stray cats will not be allowed inside the house except on days ending
in "y".

11.    Stray cats allowed inside will not be permitted to jump up on or
sharpen their claws on the furniture.

12.    Stray cats will not be permitted to jump up on, or sharpen claws on
the really good furniture.

13.    Stray cats will be permitted on all furniture but must sharpen claws
on new £114.99 sisal-rope cat-scratching post with three perches.

14.    Stray cats will answer the call of nature outdoors in the sand.

15.    Stray cats will answer the call of nature in the three-piece,
high-impact plastic tray filled with Fresh'n'Sweet kitty litter.

16.    Stray cats will answer the call of nature in the hooded litter pan
with a three-panel privacy screen and plenty of head room.

17.    Stray cats will sleep outside.

18.    Stray cats will sleep in the garage.

19.    Stray cats will sleep in the house.

20.    Stray cats will sleep in a cardboard box lined with an old blanket.

21.    Stray cats will sleep in the special Kitty-Komfort-Bed with
non-allergenic lambs wool pillow.

22.    Stray cats will not be allowed to sleep in our bed.

23.    Stray cats will not be allowed to sleep in our bed, except at the
foot.

24.    Stray cats will not be allowed to sleep in our bed under the covers.

25.    Stray cats will not be allowed to sleep in our bed under the covers
except at the foot.

26.    Stray cats will not play on the desk.

27.    Stray cats will not play on the desk near the computer.

28.    Stray cats are forbidden to walk on the computer keyboard on the desk
when the human is  asdfjjhhkl;ljfd.;oier'puyykmm4hbdm9lo9j
USING IT.
Signature

Adrian (Owned by Snoopy and Bagheera)
Cats leave pawprints on your heart.
http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk

bobblespin@yahoo.com - 17 Apr 2006 12:35 GMT
> Don't even think about suggesting that I would feed a stray cat.
> Not unless he looks really skinny.
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Cantate

Uh oh, you've given him a name...

(What a lucky kitty he is to have found you.)

Bobble
Monique Y. Mudama - 17 Apr 2006 15:03 GMT
> By the way, his name is Romeo, because he sings under our window.

Aww.  Is there any way you could bring him into your home?

Signature

monique, who spoils Oscar unmercifully

pictures: http://www.bounceswoosh.org/rpca

sriddles@aol.com - 17 Apr 2006 15:15 GMT
Awww, lucky Romeo. I feel so badly for the cats whose owners pass away
that end up at the shelter. Was she an outdoor cat before?
There is a cat at my friend's cul-de-sac neighborhood who mooched off
neighbors for five years after her owner died. They took her to the
vet, let her in their houses at will, but during the daytime she wanted
to stay on the porch at her old (vacant) house. Saddest thing.

Sherry
W. Leong - 17 Apr 2006 15:28 GMT
> Awww, lucky Romeo. I feel so badly for the cats whose owners pass away
> that end up at the shelter. Was she an outdoor cat before?
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Sherry

What worries me sometimes is who will take care of Rusty if something
happened to me
and I couldn't care for him or make arrangements for him.
What if he outlives me?
By now you can probably tell I am  a worrier.

Winnie
Enfilade - 17 Apr 2006 16:32 GMT
> What worries me sometimes is who will take care of Rusty if something
> happened to me
> and I couldn't care for him or make arrangements for him.
> What if he outlives me?
> By now you can probably tell I am  a worrier.

I have made arrangements for what happens to Nocturne, Smokey, Kumani
and Tyche if DP and I both pass away.  They will be adopted by my
housecat-less father, who, while he doesn't desire house pets,
considers it the last thing he could do for me, to keep those four in
affectionate comfort for the rest of their natural lives.

--Fil
sriddles@aol.com - 17 Apr 2006 17:10 GMT
> > What worries me sometimes is who will take care of Rusty if something
> > happened to me
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> --Fil

The last thing my grandmother said to my father before she went into
surgery (it was just knee surgery, but she did not survive)....was
"Take care of my cat."

She meant feeding it till she was home, but he took that to heart, and
took care of that cat the rest of its life. He doesn't even like cats,
either.

Sherry
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 17 Apr 2006 19:48 GMT
> The last thing my grandmother said to my father before she went into
> surgery (it was just knee surgery, but she did not survive)....was
> "Take care of my cat."
> She meant feeding it till she was home, but he took that to heart, and
> took care of that cat the rest of its life. He doesn't even like cats,
> either.

That's so sad. Probably she was just having pre-surgery anxiety, which
isn't uncommon, but her worst fears ended up coming true. :(  I'm glad
your dad took her request to heart, though. I think that's how it is
with a lot of people. It's too bad the cat no longer had someone who
really loved him/her, but at least it wasn't turned out to fend for
itself!

Joyce
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 17 Apr 2006 19:46 GMT
> I have made arrangements for what happens to Nocturne, Smokey, Kumani
> and Tyche if DP and I both pass away.  They will be adopted by my
> housecat-less father, who, while he doesn't desire house pets,
> considers it the last thing he could do for me, to keep those four in
> affectionate comfort for the rest of their natural lives.

You've got a nice dad!

I'm not sure where my cats would go if I suddenly died. It does worry
me. Everyone in my family is a cat-lover, but as is the case with most
cat-lovers, their houses are already filled with cats. :) Mom has 4
(in a complex that only allows two per dwelling), one sister has 4, dad
has 2. The other sister has 4 big dogs, so I'm not so sure I'd want my
cats going there. That sister is also not very reliable or responsible -
last year she dumped her two cats on my mother *as she was driving on
her way out of state to move*. That's how mom ended up with 4.

My friends are much the same, although perhaps more functional. :)
The cat-lovers among them already have their vacancies full.

Any suggestions?

Joyce
Jane - 18 Apr 2006 15:22 GMT
>I'm not sure where my cats would go if I suddenly died. It does worry
>me. Everyone in my family is a cat-lover, but as is the case with most
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
>Any suggestions?

Discuss it with your friends. My friends have discussed this among
ourselves.  Most of them know how to contact my sister in case anything
happened to me.  I've already promised to take my friend's two cats
if anything happened to her (even though Rita would HATE THEM), just
so she feels better about it.  I don't know who would be the one to
take care of Rita, but I'm confidant that she would be cared for, if
not fought over ("*I* want her!"  "No, I wanted to have her!")

I have enough friends who would take care of the Princess.

Jane
- owned and operated by Princess Rita
W. Leong - 17 Apr 2006 20:20 GMT
>> What worries me sometimes is who will take care of Rusty if something
>> happened to me
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> --Fil

I should have a talk with my Power of Attorney who
is also the executor of my will with regard to Rusty. If anything happens
to me, Rusty should go live with my mother. She does not want to take
care of another cat since her cat Scruffy disappeared years ago. But
she likes Rusty, always asking about him and gave him Christmas and
purrsday present. That would mean a 5 hour flight for Rusty to go stay
with my mother. But my only other alternative is to see if the vet will
adopt
Rusty. He seems to have a soft spot for my cat, and his cat Chico, who
doesn't like other cats, likes Rusty.

Winnie
Bill Stock - 17 Apr 2006 16:34 GMT
>> Awww, lucky Romeo. I feel so badly for the cats whose owners pass away
>> that end up at the shelter. Was she an outdoor cat before?
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> What if he outlives me?
> By now you can probably tell I am  a worrier.

We never would have guessed. :) :)

It's definitely a concern though. I think the current batch O'Kitties is
probably safe, but you never know. I've also got a boatload of fish that
require specialized care.  I don't know any local fish/cat people either.

> Winnie
MaryL - 18 Apr 2006 12:14 GMT
>> Awww, lucky Romeo. I feel so badly for the cats whose owners pass away
>> that end up at the shelter. Was she an outdoor cat before?
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> Winnie

I made arrangements with a friend who will care for Duffy and Holly if
anything were to happen to me.  She shares my belief in keeping our cats
indoors, *no* declawing, and quality food and care.  I also left a provision
in my will for money to be given to her for the care of my cats.

I felt like a burden was lifted from my shoulders once I had made these
arrangements.  However, it is *very* important to select someone you can
*trust* and someone who is strongly committed to caring for your furbabies
(not someone who sounds "lukewarm" or casual about it).

MaryL
Photos of Duffy and Holly:      >'o'<
Duffy:  http://tinyurl.com/cslwf
Holly:  http://tinyurl.com/9t68o
Duffy and Holly together:  http://tinyurl.com/8b47e
Recent pics:  http://tinyurl.com/clal7
Christina Websell - 21 Apr 2006 22:47 GMT
>>> Awww, lucky Romeo. I feel so badly for the cats whose owners pass away
>>> that end up at the shelter. Was she an outdoor cat before?
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> *trust* and someone who is strongly committed to caring for your furbabies
> (not someone who sounds "lukewarm" or casual about it).

I was facing this scenario last year. Although I do have some family they
wouldn't want my cats.  Thanks to the people on the group, Debbie will take
Boyfriend and Helen, KFC.   A friend who lives 3 miles away will do what's
necessary for the poultry.
Yes, it's a huge weight off my mind to know that if the worse happens
someone will take over the care of my animals.  It means I will be able to
die happy.

Tweed
Adrian A - 22 Apr 2006 10:12 GMT
<snip>
> Yes, it's a huge weight off my mind to know that if the worse happens
> someone will take over the care of my animals.  It means I will be
> able to die happy.

We hope that's not for a *very* long time.
Signature

Adrian (Owned by Snoopy and Bagheera)
Cats leave pawprints on your heart.
http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk

EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 17 Apr 2006 19:58 GMT
> Awww, lucky Romeo. I feel so badly for the cats whose owners pass away
> that end up at the shelter. Was she an outdoor cat before?
> There is a cat at my friend's cul-de-sac neighborhood who mooched off
> neighbors for five years after her owner died. They took her to the
> vet, let her in their houses at will, but during the daytime she wanted
> to stay on the porch at her old (vacant) house. Saddest thing.

Was it here that someone reported feeding a "stray", until
she found a note tied around its neck, asking anyone feeding
it to telephone?  When the person phoned the given number
the woman at the other end laughed and said "You're the
fifth person to call me!"  (Sometimes cats can be talented
con-artists.)

Signature

NewsGuy.Com 30Gb $9.95 Carry Forward and On Demand Bandwidth

Cantate - 18 Apr 2006 04:44 GMT
Romeo was not a house cat and shows no desire to come in.  So far I
haven't been able to pet him.  After I make friends with him, he'll
have to go to the vet for a little visit :)  So far he enjoys sitting
on the wall around my house.  Nice thing about Japan  is that often
they have a wall around the property which is just the right height for
scritching, stroking, etc. for the cat-friendly.  Also great for your
personal watchcats to sit on.  Romeo seems to be turning into a
watchcat.  Sometimes I have two sitting one on either side of the gate
and they look like those lion guardians some people have on their
gateposts!

Anyway, hi from all FIVE of Cantate's cats.   :)
 
Sign In
Join
My Latest Posts
My Monitored Threads
My Blog
My Photo Gallery
My Profile
My Homepage

Start New Thread
Enable EMail Alerts
Rate this Thread



©2008 Advenet LLC   Privacy Policy - Terms of Use
This website includes both content owned or controlled by Advenet as well as content owned or controlled by third parties.