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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 03:00 GMT
We've been trying to track down a major problem here at work since
yesterday afternoon.

My team is heavily involved, and I am this week's designated point of
contact, but the most experienced member of our team is on vacation,
and I can do little but ask "hrm, have you tried this?" and pass
questions along.

The reason I'm asking for purrs is that the stress has catapulted me
into a serious tummy trouble situation.  My abdomen feels like a very
large boulder has lodged itself right there.  It goes from
uncomfortable to painful and back again.

I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

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Sam - 13 Apr 2006 04:19 GMT
> We've been trying to track down a major problem here at work since
> yesterday afternoon.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

Oh, yuck!  BTDT.  Calming, stress-relieving, and problem-solving purrs
on the way.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 05:11 GMT
> Oh, yuck!  BTDT.  Calming, stress-relieving, and problem-solving
> purrs on the way.

Thank you!

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Victor Martinez - 13 Apr 2006 04:20 GMT
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

Lots of purrs on the way. What helps you deal with stress? Chamomile
tea?  Soothing music? Meditation?

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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 04:54 GMT
>> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.
>
> Lots of purrs on the way. What helps you deal with stress? Chamomile
> tea?  Soothing music? Meditation?

Not being at work for 13 hours straight?

I shouldn't complain. Our CTO just signed an email saying that after
30 hours straight of being awake, he is going to bed.

This is a short-term situation, just very stressful during that short
term.

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Marina - 13 Apr 2006 04:26 GMT
> We've been trying to track down a major problem here at work since
> yesterday afternoon.
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>
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

Stress-relieving purrs on the way.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 07:06 GMT
> Stress-relieving purrs on the way.

Thank you.  I eventually pled an extremely upset stomach and went
home, after 11pm.  If at all possible I need to be at work by 7am or
even earlier tomorrow.  I'm not a person who does well on little
sleep, either =/

Beh.  This sucks.  I wish we could resolve this issue.

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Christine Burel - 13 Apr 2006 04:34 GMT
I'm sorry for your tummy problems!  Hope purrs will help ease your stress
levels!  Have you tried any soothing teas like peppermint or ginger?  I can
tell you about a homeopathic remedy that I originally learned from one of
the cat rescue groups -- I used it on myself before I used on the kitties,
naturally, and I can truly say that, for me, it helps takes the edge off
without making me sleepy.  It is called "Calms Forte" by Hylands and I get
it at my local health food store.  I have given it to my cats, as needed,
too, without any ill effects.  It's along the same lines as Bach's flower
remedies, i.e., "Rescue Remedy," except it works better for me.
hth,
Christine
> We've been trying to track down a major problem here at work since
> yesterday afternoon.
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>
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.
mlbriggs - 13 Apr 2006 06:13 GMT
> We've been trying to track down a major problem here at work since
> yesterday afternoon.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

Have you tried GasX?  Stress causes gas and that creates bloat and cramps.
It might be worth a try when you feel that way,  Good luck.   MLB
Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 14:07 GMT
> Have you tried GasX?  Stress causes gas and that creates bloat and
> cramps.  It might be worth a try when you feel that way,  Good luck.
> MLB

I haven't.  Thanks for the suggestion.

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wafflycat - 13 Apr 2006 08:09 GMT
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

Calming purrs and good vibes heading your way.

helen s
Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 14:12 GMT
> Calming purrs and good vibes heading your way.

Thank you.

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Adrian A - 13 Apr 2006 09:43 GMT
> We've been trying to track down a major problem here at work since
> yesterday afternoon.
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>
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

Relaxing purrs on the way. Baggy's purring so loud at the moment it feels
like an earthquake.
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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 14:12 GMT
> Relaxing purrs on the way. Baggy's purring so loud at the moment it
> feels like an earthquake.

Aww =)

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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 14:12 GMT
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.

DH gave me some pepto bismol last night, which may have helped a bit.

My stomach is still upset, but not "one of the worst experiences of my
life" upset like it was last night.  Then again, it's usually only
upset in the afternoons, so we'll see what today brings ...

The good news is that the bug has been narrowed down, and the
knowledge from that allows us to do a better job working around it
until it's fixed.  So that suggests that this whole disaster may be
wrapped up today, although I'm sure there will be plenty of
discussions about what we can take from this experience and do better
next time.

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W. Leong - 13 Apr 2006 14:41 GMT
Purrs going your way. I went through something similar, except our bugs
didn't get fixed for weeks. Some couldn't even go home for Thanksgiving
dinner. For days I had trouble sleeping. So I certainly understand what
you are going though.

Does listening to relaxing music help?

Winnie

>> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> discussions about what we can take from this experience and do better
> next time.
Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 15:37 GMT
> Purrs going your way. I went through something similar, except our
> bugs didn't get fixed for weeks. Some couldn't even go home for
> Thanksgiving dinner. For days I had trouble sleeping. So I certainly
> understand what you are going though.

Thank you.  That sounds much worse than what's going on here.  I
didn't think I'd be able to sleep last night because of my stomach,
but I guess I was tired enough that I conked out.  When Oscar woke me
up, Eric said, "It's almost 6 o'clock already."  I groaned and told
him I didn't want to know that .... then the alarm rang.  Ugh.
(Usually the alarm is set to 7:30).

> Does listening to relaxing music help?

I'm not very good with listening to music when I really need to focus;
it distracts me.  Also our work environment is designed in part to
allow us to hear what is going on around us, which can help in keeping
in touch with the current situation.  So I try to keep my ears open.

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W. Leong - 13 Apr 2006 15:52 GMT
> Thank you.  That sounds much worse than what's going on here.  I
> didn't think I'd be able to sleep last night because of my stomach,
> but I guess I was tired enough that I conked out.  When Oscar woke me
> up, Eric said, "It's almost 6 o'clock already."  I groaned and told
> him I didn't want to know that .... then the alarm rang.  Ugh.
> (Usually the alarm is set to 7:30).

Yes it was a nightmare.  I used to work in telephony. The phone has to work
24/7 all the time, regardless. I don't miss my previous job. Well, except
maybe for the income.
But with all the stress that came with the job, it is not worth it.

> I'm not very good with listening to music when I really need to focus;
> it distracts me.  Also our work environment is designed in part to
> allow us to hear what is going on around us, which can help in keeping
> in touch with the current situation.  So I try to keep my ears open.

I don't mean listening to music at work.  But when you get home and
need to unwind and forget about work.  Relaxing music can also help
you fall asleep. But then I even dreamed about my problems at work:(

Winnie
Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 17:25 GMT
> Yes it was a nightmare.  I used to work in telephony. The phone has
> to work 24/7 all the time, regardless. I don't miss my previous job.
> Well, except maybe for the income.  But with all the stress that
> came with the job, it is not worth it.

Yeah, my current job is also a "this has to work all the time" setup,
but I'm only affected by a fraction of it.  That may be because I'm
relatively new, so when things go wrong they know I can't do much
about it.  This week was special because my team lead, who has been at
this company for years and knows everything about everything, is on
vacation out of the country.  

On the other hand, because of this excitement, I have gotten to know a
lot of my coworkers much better, and I've learned a lot about
subsystems I would normally just ask my team lead to deal with.  So
it's been very good for me.  My body just doesn't know that.

> I don't mean listening to music at work.  But when you get home and
> need to unwind and forget about work.  Relaxing music can also help
> you fall asleep. But then I even dreamed about my problems at work:(

Oh!  Not a bad idea.  I'm not a big fan of headphones in bed, though.
I'll think about that.

I tend to go for loud and energetic music, rather than relaxing.
Relaxing music bores me, unfortunately.
   
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Adrian A - 13 Apr 2006 14:53 GMT
>> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> discussions about what we can take from this experience and do better
> next time.

Still sending purrs.
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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 15:34 GMT
> Still sending purrs.

Thank you.  I've told the CTO I'm going to call my dr's office as soon
as they open up and get an appt to see someone.  I wonder if I have an
ulcer or something.

I wonder if food is related.  Because of the intensity of the effort,
the company ordered us breakfast, lunch, and dinner -- pastries for
breakfast, subs for lunch, chinese for dinner.  A lot more heavy
sugary greasy stuff than I usually eat.

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Jane - 13 Apr 2006 15:42 GMT
>I wonder if food is related.  Because of the intensity of the effort,
>the company ordered us breakfast, lunch, and dinner -- pastries for
>breakfast, subs for lunch, chinese for dinner.  A lot more heavy
>sugary greasy stuff than I usually eat.

Entirely possible. Whenever we have stuff like that here, they always
order pizza.  Pizza!!  I'm a diabetic, for pete's sake. Pizza is one
of my biggest 'spike' foods. (not to mention, I don't LIKE pizza!)
Don't even get me started on 'continental' breakfasts.....grrrr...
pastry - diabetic - not a good mix.  Not if you want me conscious
and coherent through the day.

Jane
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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 16:47 GMT
>>I wonder if food is related.  Because of the intensity of the
>>effort, the company ordered us breakfast, lunch, and dinner --
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> breakfasts.....grrrr...  pastry - diabetic - not a good mix.  Not if
> you want me conscious and coherent through the day.

Yeah, it's definitely hard for a company to order anything healthy and
low GI (or is that high GI? I can never remember) in those quantities.
I do appreciate the fact that they ordered us food, and even had
vegetarian etc. options (I'm not vegetarian but it's important to me
that we have options for those who are).

And I can't blame the company for the foods I selected out of what
was offered. I went particularly nuts on the Chinese "buffet line."
Bad me!

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Howard C. Berkowitz - 14 Apr 2006 05:19 GMT
> >I wonder if food is related.  Because of the intensity of the effort,
> >the company ordered us breakfast, lunch, and dinner -- pastries for
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> pastry - diabetic - not a good mix.  Not if you want me conscious
> and coherent through the day.

Facing the same problem, I occasionally look shocked and inquire why
they can't think of a continent other than Europe. Now, I'm not sure
I'd really want the breakfast of an Antarctic penguin, but I can think
of a reasonable number of quite acceptable Asian and Latin American
ones.
W. Leong - 13 Apr 2006 15:57 GMT
> Thank you.  I've told the CTO I'm going to call my dr's office as soon
> as they open up and get an appt to see someone.  I wonder if I have an
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> breakfast, subs for lunch, chinese for dinner.  A lot more heavy
> sugary greasy stuff than I usually eat.

That can certainly have an effect on your stomach. I am  very sensitive
to stress and the type of food too.

You reminded of the weeks we had to eat dinner at work for weeks, if not
months'
to deliver a new product. Managers ordered dinner for us every
evening to help keep us working later into the nights.  By morning, the
meeting rooms
smelt like diners. Just dinner though, no breakfast or lunch.

Winnie
Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 17:15 GMT
> You reminded of the weeks we had to eat dinner at work for weeks, if
> not months' to deliver a new product. Managers ordered dinner for us
> every evening to help keep us working later into the nights.  By
> morning, the meeting rooms smelt like diners. Just dinner though, no
> breakfast or lunch.

Yeah, I do appreciate that they are keeping us fed, even if I'm not
thrilled with the particulars (today they're ordering pizza for lunch.
I have a dr's appt for my stomach around then, so I think I'll get a
sandwich from a local deli instead).

So far I have been very happy with my treatment by this company.  When
I have to work crazy hours, which hasn't been often, they provide
food.  They have other benefits, too, like you can sign up for chair
massages every few weeks, and one of the massage therapists leads a 20
minute stretching class every Tuesday.  Those 20 minutes mean the
world to me.

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Jane - 13 Apr 2006 15:13 GMT
>My stomach is still upset, but not "one of the worst experiences of my
>life" upset like it was last night.  Then again, it's usually only
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>discussions about what we can take from this experience and do better
>next time.

Does your company have endless meetings to try and figure out who
to blame for the mess?  Mine does. It's most irritating.
Your tax dollars at work.....

Jane
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Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 15:32 GMT
> Does your company have endless meetings to try and figure out who to
> blame for the mess?  Mine does. It's most irritating.  Your tax
> dollars at work.....

Fortunately not.  It's a small company.  The only meeting I'm aware of
all of yesterday was an afternoon brainstorming session.  The project
managers handle client communication so that we can focus on the
problem.

When something major is in progress, there's an instant messenger
chatroom all interested parties join, and that's how we communicate.
That and a bazillion emails.  I've read some time management advice
that suggests reserving a time to check emails.  That would be
impossible here; things move too quickly.  Instead of offices or
cubes, we have wide-open areas where we all sit, allowing us to
overhear nearby conversations and join in as necessary.  It's just a
very different work environment.  I enjoy it; I just need to somehow
learn not to internalize the stress.  Even if I don't mentally feel
stressed, my body reacts.

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Howard C. Berkowitz - 13 Apr 2006 15:41 GMT
> > I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.
>
> DH gave me some pepto bismol last night, which may have helped a bit.

I have random remedies for stressed stomach; my stress usually comes
out other ways. Drinking plain hot water sometimes helps.

> My stomach is still upset, but not "one of the worst experiences of my
> life" upset like it was last night.  Then again, it's usually only
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> discussions about what we can take from this experience and do better
> next time.

If I ever get out to my new company, one of the things we are really
trying to do from the start is consciously look at lessons learned, and
build an internal knowledge base to develop both people and serve as a
tribal elder. This is probably going to be a wiki of some sort, with
parts for internal use only and others tied to the to-be-developed
website.  We're big on open source, and that reasonably extends to
knowledge sharing.
Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 17:44 GMT
> I have random remedies for stressed stomach; my stress usually comes
> out other ways. Drinking plain hot water sometimes helps.

Usually 7 UP makes a dent, but last night it wasn't enough.  I also
think my acupuncture sessions, which I started recently, have been
helping some.  I'm curious to see what the dr. says.  It's not my
usual dr., because mine has just had a baby and is working only MWF.

> If I ever get out to my new company, one of the things we are really
> trying to do from the start is consciously look at lessons learned,
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> to-be-developed website.  We're big on open source, and that
> reasonably extends to knowledge sharing.

I totally agree.

We have a company wiki.  The trick is to find people knowledgeable
enough to explain something who also have the time to explain it.

This experience has really opened my eyes to how much I use my
long-timer coworkers as a crutch.  I need to take the hit more often
to say "Please tell me how to do this" and then come back with more
questions, no matter how silly they seem, rather than just having them
do stuff when I'm not sure.

In our rapid-fire environment, it is so hard to take the time to let a
less-experienced person make a change, let alone to document how it's
done.  Everything needs to have been done yesterday.

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Howard C. Berkowitz - 14 Apr 2006 05:21 GMT
> > I have random remedies for stressed stomach; my stress usually comes
> > out other ways. Drinking plain hot water sometimes helps.
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> questions, no matter how silly they seem, rather than just having them
> do stuff when I'm not sure.

Yep. I write quickly, so I can do it, but not everyone can. What I have
done, as we are setting this up, is set up an internal email address of
"kb" (knowledge base), and copy emails in which I explain something. At
some point, one of us will rough up a script to slap them into a
minimal wiki entry.

> In our rapid-fire environment, it is so hard to take the time to let a
> less-experienced person make a change, let alone to document how it's
> done.  Everything needs to have been done yesterday.
Monique Y. Mudama - 14 Apr 2006 17:06 GMT
> Yep. I write quickly, so I can do it, but not everyone can. What I
> have done, as we are setting this up, is set up an internal email
> address of "kb" (knowledge base), and copy emails in which I explain
> something. At some point, one of us will rough up a script to slap
> them into a minimal wiki entry.

Our environment is particularly difficult.  We have one guy with 7ish
years experience who knows just about everything, one who has I think
less than two years but knows a lot, and then the rest of us have been
there a year or less -- two only a couple of months.  We've had a lot
of turnover for a variety of reasons in the last year, so we went from
a team with a lot of members who were experienced not just in what we
do but what the whole company does to almost entirely newbies.

And we're in a business where solutions are often expected in minutes,
and our team is core to that happening.

Ah well.  Today is actually a holiday (go go market holidays!) for me,
so I'm trying to come down from the "emergency mode" I was in through
last night.  Last night it was hard for me to get to sleep because in
my brain I was still worried about being needed for something.  I'm
the point of contact for the team this week, so if something comes up,
I will need to be there to resolve it, regardless of whether it's a
holiday or a weekend.

A lot of good came out of this week.  With the experienced guy on
vacation, all of us were forced to get out of our comfort zones
(especially me, as point of contact!).  The emergency situation caused
me to interact with a lot of key people in the company with whom I'd
never had an opportunity to work.  Now I know them by face and name,
and would feel much more comfortable talking to them in the future.
And if I can just remember a fraction of what I was doing this week,
I'll have made great strides in what I know how to do for the company.

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Irulan - 13 Apr 2006 14:46 GMT
oh dear, purrs and prayers going your way.
Lily & her mama

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> We've been trying to track down a major problem here at work since
> yesterday afternoon.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> I wish stress didn't affect me this way, but it does.
Monique Y. Mudama - 13 Apr 2006 15:37 GMT
> oh dear, purrs and prayers going your way.  Lily & her mama

Thank you.

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