Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
friends. The friend's cat had just died, and she wanted to bury her
in a park, but she had nobody to go with her. She didn't want to do
it alone. So she asked our mutual friend if she knew anyone who might
be willing to go with her, and my name came up. The friend-of-my-friend
is an acquaintance of mine, so we're not total strangers. Anyway, I
agreed to do it.
So today, we set out for a very pretty park in Berkeley, bringing a
small fold-up garden spade for a shovel (because we couldn't exactly
march into the park holding a regular-size shovel - talk about being
really obvious about what we were doing!). We trudged through about a
half-mile of extremely mushy, squishy mud to get to the spot she had
selected.
It was well worth it. The site was on a small hill in a clearing in
the woods. She chose a spot under some eucalyptus trees and started
digging. Because of the size of the shovel, it took about a half hour
or so to dig a hole big enough for the box holding Mocha. The recent
rains had softened the ground, which helped. Still, it wasn't a very
deep hole. But we placed the box in the hole, and then Mocha's human
did a small Pagan ritual to say goodbye, as we covered it with the
dirt. All in all, it was a very sweet farewell.
Mocha was a part Siamese tortie, a small cat with a big personality.
I probably met her once, because I have been to this woman's house
once, several years ago, although I don't remember because she had
several cats. Mocha's human showed me a photo of her today. She was
13 years old, and had chronic irritable bowel syndrome, which finally
got the best of her.
I was honored to be part of her ceremony. I thought I would let you
all know of her passing, so that some of you might wish her an easy
journey, and perhaps ask your departed RB pets to keep a lookout for
newbie Mocha.
Thanks,
Joyce
Karen - 19 Mar 2006 16:16 GMT
> Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
> a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
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> Thanks,
> Joyce
Purrs for Mocha. I'm sure all our RB pets will be on hand.
Marina - 19 Mar 2006 16:23 GMT
> I was honored to be part of her ceremony. I thought I would let you
> all know of her passing, so that some of you might wish her an easy
> journey, and perhaps ask your departed RB pets to keep a lookout for
> newbie Mocha.
Purrs for Mocha's hoomin.

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Christine Burel - 19 Mar 2006 17:11 GMT
Purrs for Mocha's human to help comfort her and also to accompany Mocha to
the RB.
Christine
> Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
> a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
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> Thanks,
> Joyce
Irulan - 19 Mar 2006 17:47 GMT
We will include Mocha in our candlelighting ceremony tonight.
Lily & her mama

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Irulan
from the stars we come
to the stars we return
from now until the end of time
> Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
> a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
[quoted text clipped - 35 lines]
> Thanks,
> Joyce
Lucy's Mom - 19 Mar 2006 18:59 GMT
>Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
>a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
[quoted text clipped - 35 lines]
>Thanks,
>Joyce
I've lit a candle for Mocha's journey and said a prayer for her
hoomin...
--Kim
glsummer@neptunelink.com - 19 Mar 2006 20:05 GMT
>Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
>a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
[quoted text clipped - 35 lines]
>Thanks,
>Joyce
Please pass on my condolences. It sounds like it was a lovely way to
say goodbye to Mocha. May her journey to The Bridge be gentle and
swift and joyous when she arrives. I'm sure my many babies there will
be happy to greet her.
Ginger-lyn
Home Pages:
http://www.moonsummer.com
http://www.angelfire.com/folk/glsummer (homepage & cats)
http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~summer/index.htm (genealogy)
http://www.movieanimals.bravehost.com/ (The Violence Against
Animals in Movies Website)
polonca12000 - 19 Mar 2006 23:30 GMT
> Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
> a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
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> is an acquaintance of mine, so we're not total strangers. Anyway, I
> agreed to do it.
<snip>
> I was honored to be part of her ceremony. I thought I would let you
> all know of her passing, so that some of you might wish her an easy
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Thanks,
> Joyce
Lots of purrs,
Polonca and Soncek
mlbriggs - 20 Mar 2006 00:03 GMT
On Sun, 19 Mar 2006 07:53:25 +0000, jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt wrote:
> Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
> a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
[quoted text clipped - 35 lines]
> Thanks,
> Joyce
"...Rise up slowly, Angel. It's hard to let you go..."
Singh - 21 Mar 2006 21:30 GMT
What a beautiful way to go. Having those you love surrounding you, and
those who love both two-leg and cat enough to bless you along the passage
to the summerlands. I too would have been honored to be part of such a
sweet ceremony. It sounds like Mocha was quite a cat, with a personality
that made such a deep impression you even after solong a time.
Please tell your friend that I'm sorry she lost her dear Mocha, and that
she'll await her cherishing two-leg on the other side someday. And I've
asked my own sweet Fritzie, who left us two years ago, and his buddy George
who soon followed him and our long-departed but loved Bozer to look out for
the little newcomer, and to welcome her.
Blessed be,
Baha
> Last night when I got home, there was a message on my voicemail from
> a friend, asking if I would be available today, to help out one of her
[quoted text clipped - 35 lines]
> Thanks,
> Joyce
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 21 Mar 2006 21:59 GMT
> Please tell your friend that I'm sorry she lost her dear Mocha, and that
> she'll await her cherishing two-leg on the other side someday. And I've
> asked my own sweet Fritzie, who left us two years ago, and his buddy George
> who soon followed him and our long-departed but loved Bozer to look out for
> the little newcomer, and to welcome her.
Thank you, Baha!
And thanks to everyone else who offered purrs and lit candles for Mocha's
passing. I will pass on all messages to my friend.
I meant to mention in my previous post that, while we were digging the
grave, I told her about the Rainbow Bridge. She had never thought of it,
and she found that a very sweet thought and image to keep in her mind.
So I have to thank this group for that, too, since here is where I first
heard of the RB myself.
Joyce