Hugs,

Forgive me for pointing out that your cats are not pushing to
bring obnoxious, mannerless d-pets in to demolish your
home and "bring you down", Matt. If your DW starts in
on you again, remind her that *you* were forced into
this decision by you-know-who.....and *you* "did what
you had to do" since *you* didn't start the whole thing.

Oh, cats can be rude and obnoxious, too, and they're always selfish -
but they look much cuter while doing it. :)

Joyce

Sorry did not mean not include my extended family on the usernet.  You all
have been a big help keeping an old man sane.  I am glad I don't work for
the post office I would have gone postal by now for sure :-)

Luckily I have  spare bedroom  but If I get kicked out of my own bed tonight
no one will get any sleep or peace
nut I know it won't come to that my DW loves me and has told me that I was
right.  I am making it out worse that it is with my family  just very
irritated with the situation

Now if we can get DIL to shut up  she is driving us batty.  I already told
her to go home earlier she was huff and puffy about it.  I will admit I had
to throw another log on the fire.  I told her I don't know what her problem
is she avoids her mother like the plague.  She looked at me strange and
walked out leaving my son and the others almost in tear from laughing so
hard.  I wonder if I hit a sore point

She does now  we had a long talk this morning.  She just wanted to keep the
peace and help our son out keeping the peace ( new marriage you know how it
is).    All furballs were present  sitting by me looking at her like we know
how is right here ( I know the truth I feed them and they had not had
breakfast yet )  No overnight visitors we all will met up the night before
at a restaurant and then we will met after our daily routine for Easter
Sunday at a place of my better half's choice.

I told her to pick the restaurant of her choice.  I would even rent a hall
and have it catered if she would like but the food choice would be up to her
only.  If any problems arose I would put my foot down and thrown them both
( DIL and her mother ) out on the a@@ to quick to talk about.  Every one is
going to met at http://www.meltingpot.com/Orlando/menu.html  the night
before.  They do something called the big night out for $80 a couple it is a
four course dinner that ends with chocolate s'mores ( YUM ).  We can have
some good time before we retire back home and to our hotels

She called everyone and told them told everyone to RSVP so I can arrange
hotels rooms at a bulk price.  If they did not let us know by this Sunday
they were on their own for a hotel.

I won but at a price that I know is going to haunt me in the future ( Yeah I
think )