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Duffy's 3rd Adoption Anniversary

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MaryL - 31 Jan 2006 06:24 GMT
Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
little cat. While browsing through some files last week, I came across a
message I posted on Jan. 27, 2003 just after I had made the decision to
adopt. I am going to include the first part of that message here because it
shows what a remarkable change there has been in Duffy - and also the change
in Holly. I am really proud of her. She has been transformed from my "black
tornado" who hated all other cats to a kitty who has become a good companion
with Duffy and will often be seen in the lead in a sort of follow-the-leader
game.

The opening of that message was as follows: "Holly and I are getting a new
companion. His name is Duffy, and he is a special needs cat. I saw Duffy's
picture on Petfinder and noticed that he is blind. His picture just tugged
at my heart-strings. He had been at the shelter, adopted and kept for almost
two years, then returned. I called the shelter and asked why he had been
returned to them. It seems that Duffy (even though blind) managed to get to
the woman's pet birds and killed one. I couldn't believe it! Wouldn't you
think that anyone with any sense at all would know to keep a cat separate
from birds?? Anyway, I made arrangements to see him; and when I did I was so
afraid that he would never be adopted. He looks so scruffy and unkempt and
thin. But he seems absolutely sweet and almost desperate for attention. He
stayed in my lap and head-butted me the whole time, often lifting his little
nose up to my face. So now I have a new adoptee. My one concern is for my
cat Holly. She is an 'only child' (7-1/2 years old) and is spoiled beyond
belief. So far, she has shown real dislike for other cats. However, I have
talked to Megan at great length about this, and she has been wonderful about
helping me with information. She and I both believe that this will work out
if I am very patient and take quite a long time before introducing them."

It is hard now to even imagine Duffy as the "scruffy and unkempt and thin"
kitty I described in that message. He is now a gorgeous cat. More important,
he is a wonderful cat, and I simply cannot imagine how anyone who had him
for two years could possibly have returned him to the shelter. Here are a
few photos that show Duffy's transformation.

Duffy at the shelter - before adoption:
http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/4688654/103462732.jpg
Duffy at the desk - one year after adoption:
http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/4688654/103457221.jpg
Duffy at play - climbing the Christmas tree (2 pics):
http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/9165042/127799959.jpg
http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/9165042/127799922.jpg
"Hanging out":
http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/4688654/103462520.jpg
Follow the Leader - Holly and Duffy explore:
http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/9165042/127799745.jpg
Anniversary portrait of Duffy - photo taken last week:
http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/9165042/127799877.jpg

MaryL
sandra - 31 Jan 2006 08:58 GMT
Duffy is georgous!

sandra

> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years
> they have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active,
> loving little cat. While browsing through some files last week, I came
> across a
Marina - 31 Jan 2006 12:09 GMT
> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
> have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
> little cat.

Congratulations! You are both so lucky to have found each other. Duffy
is, indeed, a very gorgeous and special little catman. Give him an
adoption-day scritch from me!

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Victor Martinez - 31 Jan 2006 12:14 GMT
> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they

Congratulations!!! I can't believe it's been 3 years already.

> Duffy at the shelter - before adoption:
> http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/4688654/103462732.jpg
> Duffy at the desk - one year after adoption:
> http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/4688654/103457221.jpg

What a difference love makes. Congratulations again!!!

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kilikini - 31 Jan 2006 12:32 GMT
> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
> have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> with Duffy and will often be seen in the lead in a sort of follow-the-leader
> game.

What a beautiful cat!  Congratulations.

kili
SuzQ - 31 Jan 2006 12:59 GMT
Happy Adoptaversary to a beloved cat,
Suz&Spicey
Wayne Mitchell - 31 Jan 2006 14:10 GMT
>It is hard now to even imagine Duffy as the "scruffy and unkempt and thin"
>kitty I described in that message. He is now a gorgeous cat. More important,
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>Anniversary portrait of Duffy - photo taken last week:
>http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/9165042/127799877.jpg

I can understand how someone who didn't have experience with
special needs cats would be hesitant to adopt one.  But, like
you, I can't get my head around anyone returning Duffy after
having him long enough to fall for him.

Your story is truly inspirational, Mary.  I, for one, would have
much less hesitation about adopting or fostering a blind kitty
now that I've read your descriptions of how well Duffy can cope.

You're both special and deserve the love you give each other.  I
hope you see many returns of this happy anniversary.

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Wayne M.

MaryL - 31 Jan 2006 14:25 GMT
> I can understand how someone who didn't have experience with
> special needs cats would be hesitant to adopt one.  But, like
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> You're both special and deserve the love you give each other.  I
> hope you see many returns of this happy anniversary.

Thank you very much!  Your statement that you would have less hesitation now
about adopting or fostering a blind kitty is one of the reasons I post so
many messages about Duffy.  He was my first special needs cat, and he truly
is an inspiration (just as you said!) and has brought me more pleasure than
I can describe.

MaryL
Enfilade - 31 Jan 2006 16:00 GMT
> > Your story is truly inspirational, Mary.  I, for one, would have
> > much less hesitation about adopting or fostering a blind kitty
> > now that I've read your descriptions of how well Duffy can cope.

I am surprised you've only had him three years...that's less than we've
had Smokey!  Like Smokey, he filled out wonderfully into a handsome boy
once he had a forever home.

I would have thought a blind cat would have struggled to adapt to a
large home and would have been sad, either not moving much or injuring
himself a lot.  So knowing Duffy has been an educational experience for
me :)

--Fil
MaryL - 01 Feb 2006 01:01 GMT
>> > Your story is truly inspirational, Mary.  I, for one, would have
>> > much less hesitation about adopting or fostering a blind kitty
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> --Fil

When I adopted Duffy, I also expected that he would have trouble adjusting
to his environment.  I expected to keep all furniture in exactly the same
position so he could learn his way around, and I started out by always
setting him down beside the same piece of furniture to help with his
orientation.  Well, he soon surprised me --much to my amazement and joy!  He
knows exactly where he is at all times, and it does not even bother him if I
move furniture.  If I move a chair, he is likely to jump onto it a couple of
minutes later.  He is really remarkable.

MaryL
Adrian - 01 Feb 2006 09:42 GMT
>>>> Your story is truly inspirational, Mary.  I, for one, would have
>>>> much less hesitation about adopting or fostering a blind kitty
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>
> MaryL

I once visted a house with a blind cat, they had kept all the furniture in
the same position for years, the cat was 23 years old. I was sitting on the
floor when the cat came in the room, he bumped into me, looked surprised for
a moment, then climbed into my lap and purred up a storm.
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CatNipped - 31 Jan 2006 14:26 GMT
Happy adoption day Duffy - boy were you a smart lad when you picked your
slave!

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> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years
> they have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active,
[quoted text clipped - 48 lines]
>
> MaryL
Kreisleriana - 31 Jan 2006 16:29 GMT
>Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
>have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
[quoted text clipped - 47 lines]
>
>MaryL

Dear Duffy!  Cute Duffy! Intrepid Duffy!  Funny Duffy! What a guy!

Happy Duffiversary!

Theresa
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Dan M - 31 Jan 2006 16:40 GMT
> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
> have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> with Duffy and will often be seen in the lead in a sort of follow-the-leader
> game.

Happy anniversary!
Lisa Katt - 31 Jan 2006 16:55 GMT
Concatulations! You were very lucky to find each other - all three of you!
Elisabet

MaryL skrev i meddelandet ...

>Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
>have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
[quoted text clipped - 47 lines]
>
>MaryL
jmcquown - 31 Jan 2006 17:26 GMT
> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy
> years they have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright,
> active, loving little cat.
(snippage of all true stuff!)

Congratulations to Duffy and to you (and Holly, of course)!  Yes, it's hard
to believe Duffy is the same cat from the shelter.  What a wonderful
transformation!  Bless you for taking him in.

Jill
Jane - 31 Jan 2006 18:27 GMT
>Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
>have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
>little cat. While browsing through some files last week, I came across a

Oh my goodness!! The difference in Duffy from the shelter to HOME just
brought tears to my eyes.  What a gorgeous lovely baby.  Thank you for
taking him home.  He'll be a joy to you forever.

Jane
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glsummer@neptunelink.com - 31 Jan 2006 20:12 GMT
>Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
>have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
[quoted text clipped - 47 lines]
>
>MaryL

Congratulations to you and Duffy on a wonderful relationship for these
past years.  May it continue many more.

Ginger-lyn

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ann791 - 31 Jan 2006 21:20 GMT
Happy adoption day. He has really filled out.
Ann

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> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years
> they have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active,
[quoted text clipped - 48 lines]
>
> MaryL
Charleen Welton - 31 Jan 2006 22:42 GMT
What a wonderful, warm, loving story.  He looks just great.  Every person
and cat benefited from Duffy coming home with you!  Wishing you many more
anniversarys.
Charleen
Mr. Pumpkin
Aggie  Marble
Victor Velcro

> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years
> they have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active,
[quoted text clipped - 48 lines]
>
> MaryL
Sam - 01 Feb 2006 04:30 GMT
> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
> have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
[quoted text clipped - 47 lines]
>
> MaryL

A handsome young man, to be sure.  Here's to many more years together.

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polonca12000 - 01 Feb 2006 22:41 GMT
> Today is the 3rd anniversary of Duffy's adoption, and what happy years they
> have been! Duffy is a true delight, a wonderful, bright, active, loving
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> MaryL

I can hardly believe that the kitty at the shelter is the same kitty as
the one at your home - Duffy! What you've accomplished is a miracle and
Duffy could not have anyone take better care of him than you. Thank you
so much!
Best wishes,
Polonca and Soncek
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 06 Feb 2006 20:49 GMT
> Duffy at the shelter - before adoption:
> http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/4688654/103462732.jpg
> Duffy at the desk - one year after adoption:
> http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/4688654/103457221.jpg

WOW! What a transformation! He's really gorgeous.

> Follow the Leader - Holly and Duffy explore:
> http://pic13.picturetrail.com/VOL464/2364916/9165042/127799745.jpg

You've allowed him to become one happy, healthy kitty. Congratulations
on 3 years!

Joyce

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