Smokey appears cured of face-biting since the incidents in the Face
Biter thread, but the whole thing reminds me of this heartbreaking
memory:
Smokey, a former feral, was taken off CFB Trenton one evening by myself
and brought to the apartment that DP and I shared in a neighbouring
town. We didn't expect Smokey to have much appetite that night, what
with the capture, the new surroundings, the strange people, the car
trip, etc.
But the next day, we were cooking eggs and bacon for some guests and
Smokey started to shriek and cry at the garbage pail, pawing it,
wanting to get in to lick the bacon grease and eggshells. There were
full bowls of cat food in the kitchen, but he wasn't eating. I put him
in front of them, but he was back crying at the trash, so I tried
again...and he looked up at me, all nervous, quivering...
...he could not believe the food was for him. He was trying to eat
garbage because he didn't think he was allowed to eat the cat food.
So I stroked him, offering him food on my hand and he very nervously
started to nibble...then to wolf the food for fear I might change my
mind.
He did something similar with the couch...he'd sit at the foot of it
and meow softly, looking up at us, checking to make sure it was okay if
he came up to join us. (We were lifting him up and putting him on the
bed and the couch a lot that first week).
He liked it inside but he seemed always afraid that he would do
something that would bring down our wrath on him, or get him thrown out
the door or something.
I'm actually thankful he now considers breakfast a right.
--Fil
CatNipped - 21 Jan 2006 20:40 GMT
> Smokey appears cured of face-biting since the incidents in the Face
> Biter thread, but the whole thing reminds me of this heartbreaking
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>
> --Fil
My eyes always fill with tears when I think of cats like Smokie, Boyfriend,
Rocky, and so many others here who had to make it on their own before
finding their onetruehome. I hate thinking about all those poor kitties out
there who never do!

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Yoj - 21 Jan 2006 20:47 GMT
> Smokey appears cured of face-biting since the incidents in the Face
> Biter thread, but the whole thing reminds me of this heartbreaking
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>
> --Fil
Poor little guy! I'm so glad you rescued him and he's learned to trust you.
Joy
Marina - 21 Jan 2006 21:47 GMT
> He liked it inside but he seemed always afraid that he would do
> something that would bring down our wrath on him, or get him thrown out
> the door or something.
How heartbreaking. He was so lucky to find you. I'm glad you've been
able to instil him with some confidence.

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Cheryl Sellner - 22 Jan 2006 05:00 GMT
On Sat 21 Jan 2006 03:19:54p, Enfilade wrote in
rec.pets.cats.anecdotes (news:1137874793.934077.323910
@g47g2000cwa.googlegroups.com):
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> I'm actually thankful he now considers breakfast a right.
That reminds me of Bonnie. She had to wait to eat when the other
strays/ferals finished, and now she's very protective of food. I
don't think she ever ate out of trash cans, but my trash cans got
knocked over many times before I realized there were stray cats
around. Or dogs; I was never sure. I know I saw cat prints in the
snow that winter. That's why I put out bowls of dry food. The birds
got their share of it, too. I've always had to feed her separate
because she gets so stressed at meal time. Now, with Rhett, he seems
to tease her and stick his head in her bowl before letting her eat.
He doesn't really like her food, and goes to eat his own (also
separate) but has to get that first tease in.

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polonca12000 - 22 Jan 2006 11:43 GMT
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> ...he could not believe the food was for him. He was trying to eat
> garbage because he didn't think he was allowed to eat the cat food.
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>
> --Fil
Poor Smokey! Finding you was the very best thing that ever happened to
him. Thank you for taking him in and taking such good care of him.
Lots of hugs and purrs,
Polonca and Soncek
Helen Miles - 22 Jan 2006 20:57 GMT
> He did something similar with the couch...he'd sit at the foot of it
> and meow softly, looking up at us, checking to make sure it was okay if
> he came up to join us. (We were lifting him up and putting him on the
> bed and the couch a lot that first week).///
That story reminds me of an incident with Cleo. I walked into my bedroom
one day to find her asleep on my bed. Cleo spotted me, and lept off the
bed like greased lightening and straight under it. When I went to speak
with her, she was shaking so hard with fear, she wet herself. When I
spoke to the TED about it, he concluded that it was a likely reaction to
having been hit or yelled at for being on the bed in her previous home.
She's now learned that she is quite literally allowed to do what ever
she wants, but she is still very diffident and exceptionally polite.
Helen M
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 25 Jan 2006 15:14 GMT
> I walked into my bedroom
> one day to find her asleep on my bed. Cleo spotted me, and lept off the
> bed like greased lightening and straight under it. ... it was a likely
> reaction to having been hit or yelled at for being on the bed in her
> previous home.
Oh, what kind of idiot would do that? When I walk into the bedroom to
find one of the cats sleeping on the bed, it's usually the start of a
sweet kitty-bonding moment, as I can almost never resist joining them.
I'm glad Cleo has learned that she can do whatever she likes!
Joyce
Christina Websell - 22 Jan 2006 21:37 GMT
> But the next day, we were cooking eggs and bacon for some guests and
> Smokey started to shriek and cry at the garbage pail, pawing it,
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> ...he could not believe the food was for him. He was trying to eat
> garbage because he didn't think he was allowed to eat the cat food.
Poor lad. It makes me sad to read it.
> So I stroked him, offering him food on my hand and he very nervously
> started to nibble...then to wolf the food for fear I might change my
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> something that would bring down our wrath on him, or get him thrown out
> the door or something.
Boyfriend is also like this. I have to be very careful with him or he gets
really frightened. I am not sure whether he is just naturally a very timid
cat or whether something bad happened to him.
> I'm actually thankful he now considers breakfast a right.
So he's healing. Good news.
Tweed
Takayuki - 23 Jan 2006 02:57 GMT
>But the next day, we were cooking eggs and bacon for some guests and
>Smokey started to shriek and cry at the garbage pail, pawing it,
>wanting to get in to lick the bacon grease and eggshells. There were
>full bowls of cat food in the kitchen, but he wasn't eating. I put him
>in front of them, but he was back crying at the trash, so I tried
>again...and he looked up at me, all nervous, quivering...
That's very touching and sad. Although I imagine some cats might
actually prefer bacon and eggs to cat food. :)
(I've given some of my scrambled eggs to Betty before, but I don't
know if she likes bacon - she sure likes ham.)