Cat Forum / Cat Anecdotes / October 2004
Uncle & aunt again
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Christina Websell - 24 Sep 2004 00:31 GMT They are going home tomorrow <sigh> They came to help me after my eye op, because I wasn't allowed to bend, lift, or stretch for two weeks. I have 50 odd pure breed poultry in 18 huts and a pair of geese. Plus the two cats.
So, to the rescue came Auntie Margaret and Uncle Bryan. They have no livestock experience except that many years ago they had a dog. Auntie is 78 and Uncle is nearly 80 and disabled by a stroke he had a couple of years ago.
They came to stay a few days before, for a bit of training. Auntie took to it like a duck to water. She said "I love it" particularly the geese. I had some chicks hatch the first weekend they were here, and it was all a bit of a rush (some under broody hen, some in incubator) but it all worked out ok and the broody has them to rear. Had to creep out in the dead of night to introduce the new incubator chicks under the hen.. All went well.
Kitty likes Uncle B more than he likes her. Boyfriend doesn't care which makes Uncle B want to make friends with him even more! BF isn't falling for any of the flattery. He says he only likes his meowmie. It drives Uncle Bryan wild!! He is so certain he can make friends with this cat. Cat says not. Let me out please, Uncle Bryan's trying to make friends with me...NOW please.. He has, however, allowed Uncle Bryan to stroke him which is a major achievement. If he touches his back, he sort of flattens on the floor and lets him. I'd like to see him get more enjoyment from it than passivity. It's a start though, for a stranger to touch him.
I get butt elevation, cheek hugs, run-hand-up-the-tail and see my tummy and stroke it without being scratched. from him up to now. It's progress from when he ran away every time I opened the door. He is starting to try with strangers, but as yet they can be a bit too scary, although tonight he was meatloafing on the end of the settee and Auntie M was on the other end. A first.
Tweed
CatNipped - 24 Sep 2004 14:11 GMT > They are going home tomorrow <sigh> I'll say it again, you are very lucky to have such kind and caring family. What dears they were to come and help you out when they could have easily pled age and infirmity as an excuse not to.
Hugs,
CatNipped
Christina Websell - 24 Sep 2004 16:05 GMT >> They are going home tomorrow <sigh> > [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > CatNipped Yes, I *am* very lucky, aren't I? They are devoutly religious, so it would never have occurred to them to say they wouldn't help, unless they really couldn't. They could, so they did :-)) In any case, they rarely pass up the opportunity to do something nice for someone else, family or not. They're an inspiration, really, I love them to bits.
Tweed
Steve Touchstone - 24 Sep 2004 19:46 GMT >Yes, I *am* very lucky, aren't I? They are devoutly religious, so it would >never have occurred to them to say they wouldn't help, unless they really >couldn't. They could, so they did :-)) >In any case, they rarely pass up the opportunity to do something nice for >someone else, family or not. >They're an inspiration, really, I love them to bits. I echo CN, they said like great people, and you're blessed to know them, family or not. Too bad they can't stay long enough for BF to accept Uncle, and it sounds like that could have happened within a couple more weeks. It seems to take forever for a cat to accept the first kind hoomin, but each one after that first seems to take a shorter time - at least that's my experience with Rocky. It took months for him to accept me, about a month for the next person, and now when someone visits only about half an hour. That's assuming we're outside where he feels he can escape if needed, inside he pulls a vanishing act and won't come out no matter how long the visitors are here.
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Bob M - 24 Sep 2004 19:17 GMT > They are going home tomorrow <sigh> > They came to help me after my eye op, because I wasn't allowed to bend, [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > > Tweed Tell your aunt and uncle I said hi and to have a safe trip home. They are wonderful people. I've read your other posts about them and I feel like I know them.
Bob
Christina Websell - 24 Sep 2004 19:59 GMT >> They are going home tomorrow <sigh> [..]
> Tell your aunt and uncle I said hi and to have a safe trip home. They > are wonderful people. I've read your other posts about them and I feel > like I know them. > > Bob I will, Bob. They have a computer and know how to use it, I'll forward your post. The house seems very quiet without them. They are indeed wonderful people. I feel proud to be related to them. I have a brother who lives only a mile away. Okay, he has three young children, and is very busy with his work. He hasn't visited me since my op. I had a phone call after a week, to ask if I wanted to be taken shopping. I said we would manage, thank you. I haven't heard since.
Tweed
Jean Hobbs - 11 Oct 2004 13:19 GMT Was bf born feral? because he sounds just like Wilson. My Son asked me a couple of weeks ago if I was sure I still had Wilson, and when I enquired why he should ask such a thing, he said because he hadn't seen him for at least a couple of months. lol Jean.P.
> > They are going home tomorrow <sigh> > > They came to help me after my eye op, because I wasn't allowed to bend, [quoted text clipped - 38 lines] > > Bob Steve Touchstone - 11 Oct 2004 22:01 GMT >Was bf born feral? because he sounds just like Wilson. My Son asked me a >couple of weeks ago if I was sure I still had Wilson, and when I enquired >why he should ask such a thing, he said because he hadn't seen him for at >least a couple of months. lol Jean.P. My youngest brother has a cat that sounds very much like Wilson. When someone comes to visit he hides out in my younger niece's room. My parents have been known to visit for a week and never catch a sight of him.
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Dan M - 11 Oct 2004 22:44 GMT > My youngest brother has a cat that sounds very much like Wilson. When > someone comes to visit he hides out in my younger niece's room. My > parents have been known to visit for a week and never catch a sight of > him. Some non-feral cats are exceedingly shy too. Nancy and I went on vacation a couple years ago and had my brother and mom take turns coming over to feed, water, and sit with the kitties. After a couple days they called to say that they were afraid Cleo was missing - neither of them ever caught sight of her. I told them to go into the bedroom and push the ball in the TurboScratcher with their fingers. Sure enough, when she heard the ball rolling, Cleo poked her head out from under the bed to see who was playing with her toy.
Steve Touchstone - 12 Oct 2004 03:05 GMT >> My youngest brother has a cat that sounds very much like Wilson. When >> someone comes to visit he hides out in my younger niece's room. My [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] >heard the ball rolling, Cleo poked her head out from under the bed to >see who was playing with her toy. My brother's cat actually belonged to his wife when they married, and at first he thought the cat hated him - which really bugged him since he's a big time animal lover (though more a d*g person). He says it took months before the cat accepted him. When I visited a few years ago, it was about the third night when I woke to find that the cat on the bed with me, of he took off as soon as he realized I was awake.
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Christina Websell - 11 Oct 2004 23:29 GMT >>Was bf born feral? because he sounds just like Wilson. My Son asked me a >>couple of weeks ago if I was sure I still had Wilson, and when I enquired [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > parents have been known to visit for a week and never catch a sight of > him. Sorry, Jean, missed this one somehow. I am basing my assumption that Boyfriend wasn't born feral on the fact that he had an extremely expensive collar on when he arrived here, which made me think a) he was once tame enough to let someone put a collar on him and b) only an owner who cared (and could afford it, of course) would buy their cat the best. If only they'd gone to the extra expense of having him microchipped.
Tweed
Adrian - 25 Sep 2004 13:52 GMT > They are going home tomorrow <sigh> > They came to help me after my eye op, because I wasn't allowed to > bend, lift, or stretch for two weeks. I have 50 odd pure breed > poultry in 18 huts and a pair of geese. Plus the two cats. <SNIP>
> Tweed Your uncle and aunt are obviously very special people. Given time I'm sure BF would grow to love them. Purrs.
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