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Marina - 07 Dec 2005 17:29 GMT
I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

I'm not absolutely sure that it is the right time yet, but I'd rather he
go now, when he still isn't feeling too bad, than let him suffer a
single day too long. His eyes have been weary for such a long time
already, and though I didn't want to see it myself, he has been wasting
away for some time now. Anyone who came to visit, who hadn't seen him in
a while, commented on how thin he's become.

If you want to remember him as he used to be, please google for his
chronicles on rpca. They are called 'The Chronicles of Frank' + Roman
number. I thought about taking a last picture of him, but I don't want
to remember him the way he is now, so thin and so tired. This is how I
want to remember him:

http://tinyurl.com/5ac43

I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
rosebush with Nikki's.

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Marina

CatNipped - 07 Dec 2005 17:43 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

<*SOBBING*>

{{{{{{{{{{Marina and Frank}}}}}}}}}}

I'm so sorry to hear this.  But I am glad that the vet will come to the
house - this will make it so much easier for him and for you.  Please give
him extra scritches from me from now until he makes his final journey.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Karen - 07 Dec 2005 17:45 GMT
Oh Marina I will be thinking of you both.
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Enfilade - 07 Dec 2005 17:46 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call.

Purrs and bright blessings for a safe passage for Frank.

My inlaws had a dog named Bailey who had, I think, a stroke or some
kind of brain damage when he got hit by a car.  (He ran in front of
their car as they came in their driveway, I believe).  He got really
thin, and walked compulsively in circles.  It hurt me to look at him
and I wish they'd had him PTS.  In the end, he somehow got out of the
house and onto the road where another car hit him, fatally.  DP and I
suspect that Bailey went onto the road on purpose, basically an act of
suicide/self-release.

Similarly, when I was a child I had a dog who had a stroke.  Two weeks
later, Amber threw herself down the hay chute.  Sadly the fall did not
kill her (she landed on fallen hay) and she lingered another week,
through a series of strokes before she died.

If Frank is hurting so badly, so tired and thin, then a calm passage at
home is far preferable than the last days of Bailey and Amber.

--Fil
Caroline S. - 07 Dec 2005 17:49 GMT
Oh, Marina,
My heart aches for you, but I hope you can find peace with your
decision.  Frank will be fondly remembered by so many around the world.
We will light a candle for him. And send cyber hugs to you.

-Caroline S.
Caroline S. - 07 Dec 2005 17:51 GMT
And I forgot to add,  May we all have as rich a life and as dignified
an end.

Hugs and purrs,
Caroline S.
Marie Lawrence - 08 Dec 2005 02:16 GMT
\\\\

So sorry Marina,  Marie from OZ
> Oh, Marina,
> My heart aches for you, but I hope you can find peace with your
> decision.  Frank will be fondly remembered by so many around the world.
> We will light a candle for him. And send cyber hugs to you.
>
> -Caroline S.
lewe - 07 Dec 2005 17:54 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

So sorry. But happy for both of you that the vet comes and you don't have to
suffer the extra stress of that journey.

You have the most gentle headbutts from Thea and comforting, but drooly
purrs from Bono.

We will miss Frank with you, but will always remember him playing on the
island, that is a lovely picture.

Purrs for you all and for everything going as smooth as possible.

"Paja Frank" softly one last time for me.
We will be ligthing a candle for his journey.
Hugs
Lena

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Exocat - 07 Dec 2005 17:56 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey.

SO sorry that the time has had to come, but I do think you're doing the
right thing for Frank.
Cats are so good at hiding their ailments (I didn't catch Peri's fatal
illness until it was truly well advanced) that they're inevitably more
poorly than we think they are. I inhabit the FIP yahoo board which is
crowded with literally hundreds of tales of people who now regret
hanging on to their beloveds (for their own emotional sakes) for too
long.

I for one will be with you at 4PM GMT tomorrow, blurred screen and all,
as your extra special boy joins mine, and Nikki, at the RB, where he
will be free of all ills.

Purrs to the max

Gordon & the FF
Christina Websell - 07 Dec 2005 18:25 GMT
>> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> Gordon & the FF

My most beloved of whippets, Mink, is also waiting at the RB.  She likes
cats and will welcome him I am sure.
Tweed
Nanny - 07 Dec 2005 17:58 GMT
And the end of an era, or at least it feels like that.
With some older pets you can just see their battery run lower and lower, and
there comes a moment that you decide it's time to end it. You have a great
vet, and if she's prepared to come to your house she'll be there for you all
the way, and you'll grieve together.
Wishing you strength, also for the time in between now and tomorrow, spoil
Frank as much as you can, he'll be grateful to you for your last gift to
him.

Nanny

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Jane - 07 Dec 2005 18:43 GMT
>> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
>> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
>> coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
>> to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

Oh Marina, I'm sorry to hear this. Frank was a lovely boy, and will be
missed.  I'll be thinking of you tomorrow, blurred monitor and all.

Hugs

Jane
- owned and operated by Princess Rita
Magic Mood Jeep© - 07 Dec 2005 18:00 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> --
> Marina

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Marina & Frank}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I am crying right now as if Frank were one of my own kitties!

And it was 3 years ago today that we helped Ivy, who suffered with CRF,
across the bridge!

December is a sucky month!
jmcquown - 07 Dec 2005 18:13 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

Big hugs, Marina.  I'm so sorry.

Jill
Christina Websell - 07 Dec 2005 18:13 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

You have made the right decision by Frank.  I know how hard it is, I've had
to do it myself and sobbed afterwards, in one case for two days.
My thoughts are with you in your hard decision and will be with you when the
vet comes.
Love
Tweed  <holding your hand>
Kreisleriana - 07 Dec 2005 18:22 GMT
>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>rosebush with Nikki's.

I am so glad you are having it done at home.  Frank is dear to all of
us, and we will be sending all of you our most powerful purrs.

Theresa
Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com

Make Levees, Not War
Julie Cook - 07 Dec 2005 18:29 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
> coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
> to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

{{{{{Marina and Frank}}}} I cried when I read this even though I've been
expecting it all week (from an earlier post you made).  4 p.m. GMT is
11:00 a.m. EST. I'll log onto Yahoo at 11:00 and if you feel like you
need a friend any time after that give me a "shout". I'll be thinking of
you and will light a candle
(http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm)to help guide Frank on
his journey to the Bridge.

Love you and Frank,
Julie
Christina Websell - 07 Dec 2005 19:21 GMT
>> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> Love you and Frank,
> Julie

I will be driving home from work at 3.30pm GMT tomorrow and will arrive home
about 10 past 4.  I will light a rose scented candle immediately, I've been
saving it for him.  My heart will go out to yours also at that time, Marina.
Been there, it's so awful.
Tweed
Adrian - 07 Dec 2005 18:35 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

I'm so very sorry, Marina. :-( I will light a candle for Frank, tomorrow, I
know I'll be looking at it through tears. December is such a difficult
month.

Hugs and purrs,
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Adrian (Owned by Snoopy and Bagheera)
A House is not a home, without a cat.
http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk

Debbie Wilson - 07 Dec 2005 18:35 GMT
We will be thinking of you and purring from you and for Frank tomorrow.
It is a very hard decision you have made, but it is the kindest one, and
the alternative is so much worse. I'm also very glad your vet will come
to you, to save all the trauma of the journey.

((((((((((((Marina))))))))))))))

Deb.
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"He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would;
He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

mlbriggs - 07 Dec 2005 18:41 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

">>>Rise up slowly, Angel.  It's hard to let you go..."
I waited too long when it was Princess's time to venture forth and have
regretted it ever since.  MLB
Dan M - 07 Dec 2005 18:44 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
> coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
> to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

Oh no! I'm so very sorry. You will have our best healing purrs.

Dan
Shiral - 07 Dec 2005 18:51 GMT
(((((((Marina and Frank))))))))

Frank will be sorely missed by us all, but I'm sure by you, most of
all.  We will be thinking of you both with love, tomorrow. May Frank's
journey over the Rainbow Bridge be a gentle journey and a release from
his physical pain.  And may he find Nikki waiting for him on the far
side.

I know it will be hard, he's been your beloved companion for so many
years. But it's the final loving act of a responsible slave. Bless the
vet for being willing to come to your home so that Frank's passing will
be as free of stress as possible for you both. One of the hardest parts
of saying farewell to Isadora was walking out of the vet's office with
her empty carrier.

Many hugs, and I reach right through the computer screen to give Frank
a farewell scritch.  He is a great cat.

(((((Marina)))))

Melissa
pistor - 07 Dec 2005 18:54 GMT
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for

Dearest Marina,

I'm sitting in my cube, quietly crying after reading your post. It's
not fair that our little ones live shorter lives than we do. Frank
knows you love him deeply and I'm sure he will be happy to see his
beloved Nikki again.

*hugs*

Victor
billn - 07 Dec 2005 18:58 GMT
I'm so sorry, Marina.  Frank is so special to us all.  Our thoughts will be
with you and Smoochie & Mooch will be purring.  That's so nice of the vet to
come to your house.

Peace.

bill n & Smoochie & Mooch

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Monique Y. Mudama - 07 Dec 2005 19:09 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make
> a home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm
> Greenwich Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so
> grateful to her for coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus,
> and especially don't have to come home on the bus with the empty
> carrier.

*hug* Marina

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monique, who spoils Oscar unmercifully

pictures: http://www.bounceswoosh.org/rpca

mlabofski@yahoo.co.uk - 07 Dec 2005 19:35 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> --
> Marina

Marina, best wishes, I'm so sorry, but you are doing the best by Frank.
He's lucky to be at home with you and I'm sure it will be a lot less
stressful, bless him.

Marcia
Lesley - 08 Dec 2005 10:09 GMT
Marina

I really don't have words for how I feel right this second.  I'm
sitting here with tears streaming down my face because I really wanted
Frank to be okay. I'm sure Nikki's waiting for him over the Bridge

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Lucy's Mom - 07 Dec 2005 19:38 GMT
Oh Marina, I'm so very sorry...It's so damn hard...We'll be thinking
and purraying for all of you...

Kim and the Crew

>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>rosebush with Nikki's.
Nan - 07 Dec 2005 19:41 GMT
>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>rosebush with Nikki's.

The furkids are sending purrs that Frank's trip to the Bridge will be
a peaceful one and comforting purrs and headbutts for you.  Even
though you know that you are doing the right thing and letting him go
before he is feeling miserable it will still be hard.  You have the
comfort of knowing that Frank had a good life with you and that Nikki
will meet him at the Bridge.

{{{{{{{{{{Marina}}}}}}}}}}

Purrs and Hugs,

Nan and the furkids

A wise man talks because he has something to say;
a fool talks because he has to say something.
Fi - 07 Dec 2005 19:49 GMT
I'm so sorry Marina. Love and Purrs from our place. He looks like he is a
wonderful cat.

Fi

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Yowie - 07 Dec 2005 19:51 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

<tears>

Thankyou for sharing your Frank with us. I tmust be the toughest decision
any of us face. I'm sure he'll be happy out there on "his" island with his
sisfur Nikki, although he will always be missed here.

{{{Marina}}}

Yowie
Irulan - 07 Dec 2005 20:26 GMT
Marina, your decision is completely understood. Our candle for Frank will
stay lit all day tomorrow. He is a special baby in our hearts. Special hugs
for you. Frank will be fine, his journey to the RB to join Nikki and Jazz
and all the others will be a joyous and safe one.

Lily & her mama, Lydia

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Irulan
from the stars we come
to the stars we return
from now until the end of time

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
cybercat - 07 Dec 2005 20:30 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
> coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
> to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

Marina, my heart is so heavy for you. I am so sorry. I'll send my best
good wishes tomorrow that Frank's passage is easy.

Please don't beat yourself up over waiting a little too long--I experienced
the denial that causes this when I lost my girl in 2001. I honestly did not
see her as she was. It is a powerful emotional mechanism, meant, I think,
to protect us. I just really did not want to let her go.
Sandra - 07 Dec 2005 21:04 GMT
So sorry to hear you are having to make this sad decision. Take comfort in
that you are doing an unselfish act for your beloved Frank. Thinking of you
and Memphis and Phoenix send purrs to you both.

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Sandra

Shirley - 07 Dec 2005 21:15 GMT
{{{{{{{Marina}}}}}}}

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

Gentle scritches for Frank.
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Shirley
http://community.webshots.com/user/shirleycatuk

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make
> a home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm
[quoted text clipped - 20 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
NMR - 07 Dec 2005 21:21 GMT
My sorrows for your loss and having to make the decision

> {{{{{{{Marina}}}}}}}
>
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>> rosebush with Nikki's.
glsummer@neptunelink.com - 07 Dec 2005 21:19 GMT
{{{{Marina}}}}

I am so sorry, and my heart is with you. I know how difficult this
decision is to make.

We're here for you, okay?

Sending purrs for your heavy heart and for Frank's journey to the
Bridge.

Blessings,

Ginger-lyn

>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>rosebush with Nikki's.

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 http://www.angelfire.com/folk/glsummer (homepage & cats)
 http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~summer/index.htm (genealogy)
 http://www.movieanimals.bravehost.com/ (The Violence Against
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Gennie - 07 Dec 2005 21:23 GMT
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Marina}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Typing through a blur of tears...

I will always picture Frank with Nikki, together on top of a bookcase
like in the photo you posted in Catslaves. Two very special tuxedo
cats.

Hugs and purrs,
Gennie and Marietta
Helen Miles - 07 Dec 2005 21:32 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey.///

I find it slightly bizare that I'm sitting here in floods of tears,
grieving for a cat and friend that I've never met or spoken to in
person, but consider as family.

Please know that you will all be in our thoughts tomorrow as Frank takes
his final journey and you give him the ultimate gift of love - a gentle
passing.

Sir William, Daisy and Polly will be at the bridge to meet him and help
guide him.

{{{{{HUGS Marina and Frank}}}}}}

Helen M  
Lisa Katt - 07 Dec 2005 21:50 GMT
Hugs Marina, for you and for Frank!
I can't even send you purrs as I had to let my purr provider Hugo Katt go to
the bridge a week ago.
Hugs again! I know how it feels.
Elisabet

>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>--
>Marina
Gabey8 - 07 Dec 2005 22:01 GMT
My most heartfelt prayers go up for you and for Frank. Strength and comfort
and peace to you both.

We will all be virtually "with" you tomorrow. If there's one thing I know,
it's that I trust your judgement regarding when it's time to let go vs.
when it's time to hang on. God bless you for loving Frank enough to
consider what's best for him, including granting the Final Act of Mercy.

It's only this chapter of the chronicles that's ending. I honestly believe
that there'll be another chapter starting in the next life, where Nikki
and a long list of RPCAers kitties are waiting for us to arrive. He'll
certainly be in good company up there, and profoundly missed down here.

With MMS,

Donna
polonca12000 - 07 Dec 2005 22:38 GMT
<in tears> I'm so very sorry to hear this, Marina. You gave Frank the
very best life anybody could give him. And now you are again thinking of
him first. Please hug him very gently for me. We will be thinking of you
both tomorrow. It is just so terribly hard.
We are with you,
Polonca and Soncek

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Jeanne Hedge - 07 Dec 2005 22:45 GMT
Oh Marina, I'm so sorry.

I'll be thinking of you and Frank tomorrow afternoon, and the rest of
your family too. ;_;

Jeanne Hedge, as directed by Natasha

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Cheryl - 07 Dec 2005 23:04 GMT
((((((((((((MARINA AND KITTY CREW))))))))))))
I'm so sad to read that Frank will go to the bridge sooner rather
than later.  I know you know you're giving him a huge gift, the end
of suffering. We are sending purrs and peaceful thoughts for you
all for tomorrow and will be thinking of you at that hour, and
before and after.

Be good to yourself, and give Frank some pets from us.

love,
Cheryl

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to
> make a home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at
> the rosebush with Nikki's.

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Cheryl

Kalynnda Berens - 07 Dec 2005 23:24 GMT
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ Marina and Frank }}}}}}}}}}}}}}

May the spirits of all the beloved cats who have crossed over (and the
beloved people you care about) be there to comfort you, and to guide
Frank across the bridge. Frank is a special soul.

Hugs,
    Kalynnda

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
> coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
> to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.
Susan M - 07 Dec 2005 23:28 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
> coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
> to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

{{Marina}}   I'm so so sorry - he is such a special cat and loyal friend to
you.  I just looked at his lovely pictures again - thank you for the link.
Please give him scritches for me and I send you strength for allowing him to
go on his final journey.  I will be thinking about you and Frank in the
morning.  Nikki will be so glad to see him at the bridge.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Crying
Inge Grotjahn - 08 Dec 2005 00:05 GMT
Dear Marina,

Am 07.12.2005 schrieb Marina:

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
> Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey.

I'm so sorry to read this :-(( What a decision to make... What great love
behind your words...

Frank had a good life with you. There is nothing more to say.

He will not be forgotten here and live through the stories, you wrote about
him and the beautiful pictures you made of him.

When his time comes, Volker, the cats and I will be with you in our
thoughts and of course we will light a candle for Franks safe trip to the
bridge, where Nikki already waits for him.

Tons of comforting purrs and hugs are coming over from us to you and please
give Frank a careful scritch from us.

{{{{{{{{{{Marina}}}}}}}}}}

Purrs to you
Volker & Inge and the catgang
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Takayuki - 08 Dec 2005 01:12 GMT
This makes me cry, Marina.  It's torture knowing when it's going to
happen!  I wish they could all live forever with us, but you've always
been a wonderful meowmie to him, giving him his meds, and taking him
to the island.
Helen Wheels - 08 Dec 2005 02:14 GMT
Oh Marina, I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say.
Mischief - 08 Dec 2005 02:28 GMT
Oh dear.....

lots of hugs and purrs to you Marina......

Kristi, Imp and Mischief
Bill Stock - 08 Dec 2005 02:33 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

Damn, we're about to lose another one of the greats. I really was hoping for
a miracle.

Our thoughts will be with you at the appointed hour.

Mr. Bill
CATherine - 08 Dec 2005 02:52 GMT
>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call.
>
>I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>rosebush with Nikki's.

Gentle Hugs and Purrs, Marina. May that grand old gentleman, Frank,
have a great reunion with beloved Nikki. <tears>

--
CATherine
badwilson - 08 Dec 2005 03:43 GMT
<sigh>
I really didn't want to click on this message when I read the header.
I'm so sorry Marina.  But you know your boy and what is best for him
and the decision you are making has Franks best interests at heart.  I
was really hoping he would have another summer on the island or at
least the holidays.
But 18 is a very great age for a cat to achieve and you have done such
a wonderful job with all his medications, etc.  Maybe he just wants to
join Nikki at the RB.
Hugs and purrs,
--
Britta
"There is no snooze button on a cat who wants breakfast." -- Unknown
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> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> I'm not absolutely sure that it is the right time yet, but I'd rather
> he go now, when he still isn't feeling too bad, than let him suffer
a
> single day too long. His eyes have been weary for such a long time
> already, and though I didn't want to see it myself, he has been
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Sam Nash - 08 Dec 2005 03:47 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

{{{{{{{{{{{{ Marina and Frank }}}}}}}}}}}}}}
It's an almost inevitable fact that in return for all the joys (and worry)
they bring us, we'll all have to help our dear fur-children begin their
journey to the Rainbow Bridge.  When the time comes, as it has for Frank, it
never seems that our "partner" has been with us for long enough.

We'll grieve for Frank's passing with you and my crew will send you purrs of
comfort to help you through the ordeal of losing someone so dear.

Sam, Mistletoe and Smokey
Hans Schrøder - 08 Dec 2005 03:50 GMT
Nothing much to say, Marina, only that I feel very sorry for you having to
make this decision. I will remember the stories and pictures you gave us
about Frank, they will make him live forever in our hearts...

Purrs from
Tinùviel and Teti
Big hug from
Hans
Wayne Mitchell - 08 Dec 2005 04:52 GMT
>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
>Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
>coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
>to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

Ah, Marina.  No words.  Just tears for someone I've never met
and the sorrow of whose loss I will share with you.

Farewell, sweet Frank.

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Wayne

cajunprincess - 08 Dec 2005 05:08 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> --
> Marina

I'm so sorry to read this.  It shows how much you love him that you are
easing his journey to the Bridge as much as you can even though it
hurts so much to let him go.  I think you've made the right decision
and I'm glad that you were able to find a vet who will come out to your
home to help Frank begin his journey.
W. Leong - 08 Dec 2005 06:11 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

I dreaded reading this message and I got tears in my eyes.
I am so sorry Marina.  It is especially hard at this time of the year.
But remember Franks has a wonderful long life with you under your care.
Not many cats have that.

I am glad you have a vet that can come to your home.  I remember clearly
how I felt that snowy winter night I came home on the bus with an empty
carrier after  Rusty was hospitalized at the emergency clinic for his
blockage.

Purrs,
Winnie and Rusty
sriddles@aol.com - 08 Dec 2005 06:14 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> --
> Marina

Marina, heartfelt purrs to you. I *know* how hard the next 24 hours is
going to be. My Cherokee was 17. I felt exactly the way you do. I did
not want to see him go downhill any longer, and certainly did not want
to wait until he was in a crisis situation and suffering, and maybe not
be able to get him to a vet immediately.  If it means anything to you,
I think you are doing the right thing by your old friend. Purrs to you,
and to Frank. We are grieving with you.

Sherry
Yoj - 08 Dec 2005 08:27 GMT
(((((((((((((((Marina)))))))))))))))

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> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Steve Touchstone - 08 Dec 2005 09:59 GMT
(((((((((((Marina))))))))))))

I'm so sorry to hear that the time has come. Lighting a candle for his
journey.
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Richard Miller - 08 Dec 2005 11:41 GMT
Like so many others, I'm sitting her with a suddenly misty monitor.

((((Hugs)))) for you all.
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Lorraine - 08 Dec 2005 11:47 GMT
>I've made an appointment with the vet,

Marina,

I'm so sorry.  You are doing the right thing, but I know that really
doesn't make it easy.  I'll keep Frank in my thoughts as he makes his
journey.

Lorraine
Bridget - 08 Dec 2005 12:04 GMT
My mom died a year ago today.  I will never forget Frank because he is
linked in this way.  I am crying today for her and I can't read the
messages for you because they make me cry too much.  I wish for you all
the strength today as you go through this (if it hasn't already
happened).  This is a very non-selfish decision you are making on
Frank's part and very brave of you.  I hope Miranda and Caliban are
great strengths as you go through your grieving for Frank and I am so
very happy you have them.

With tears and great caring,
Bridget

> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.
Bridget - 08 Dec 2005 12:08 GMT
Your picture of Frank playing with a stick is now my current wall paper.
 It looks a lot better all blown up on my desk top!

Thanks for the pic.
Bridget

> My mom died a year ago today.  I will never forget Frank because he is
> linked in this way.  I am crying today for her and I can't read the
[quoted text clipped - 31 lines]
>> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>> rosebush with Nikki's.
JBHajos - 08 Dec 2005 14:19 GMT
>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
>Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey.

 Though you've given us plenty of warning in your past few posts, it
is still excruciatingly painful to read this one.  We all love Frank
and purr and pray for his gentle journey to the RB.  We love you, too,
Marina, and our hearts go out to you.

 I'm glad the vet can come to your home.  When my beloved 19-year-old

Custard was fading, I did not want her to endure the stressful trip to
the vet and to leave on a cold, metal table among "strangers" at a
place she hated.  Her passing was gentle and easy in her own home
among those who loved her.  

 Our sincerest good wishes always.            

    Jeanne
 
Kathryn - 08 Dec 2005 14:42 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

I'm so sorry Marina. RPCA feels like such a family after reading about each
other for years. Hugs and purrs

Kathryn
Katiri - 08 Dec 2005 15:15 GMT
Frank and Nikki will always be there for me because of your beautiful
writings of them.  A candle is ready and will be lit to light his way.
Lesley - 08 Dec 2005 16:01 GMT
Marina

It's 4pm GMT and I'm thinking of you and Frank and sobbing my heart
out. I know right now you're not reading emails but when you come to
this know that I'm with you right now

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Jane - 08 Dec 2005 16:06 GMT
R.I.P Frank. You were a good old boy.  Go play with Nikki now.
I[A'm going to the bathroom to have a good cry now.

Jand

>Marina
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
>Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Lesley - 08 Dec 2005 16:23 GMT
> I[A'm going to the bathroom to have a good cry now.

I wish I could but I'm at work and surrounded by people who probably
wouldn't understand (actually I know they don't) but it hasn't stopped
my eyes streaming (They've been on and off all day, more on as the day
has gone on) I'm going home soon to hug my Furballs and cry a lot more

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Lesley - 08 Dec 2005 16:01 GMT
Marina

It's 4pm GMT and I'm thinking of you and Frank and sobbing my heart
out. I know right now you're not reading emails but when you come to
this know that I'm with you right now

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Takayuki - 08 Dec 2005 16:01 GMT
I'm just dropping in.  I hope you didn't have to go to work today.  It
would be very hard to get through the day!  We'll be sending purrs for
the Fabulous Finn.
Jemfur - 08 Dec 2005 16:42 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Marina

Purrs from Simba, Pepper and I.  Frank will be missed.

~Jemifur
Pat - 08 Dec 2005 18:44 GMT
Whoa... I missed this yesterday. I hope you read it in time to wish him
farewell from me and all his furry friends at the Davis household. I know
you will miss him unimaginably.

{{{{{Marina, Frankie}}}}}
Gandalf - 08 Dec 2005 19:13 GMT
>I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
>home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
>Mean Time) to send Frank on his last journey. I'm so grateful to her for
>coming here, so I don't have to go on the bus, and especially don't have
>to come home on the bus with the empty carrier.

<SNIP>

>http://tinyurl.com/5ac43
>
>I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
>rosebush with Nikki's.

I am so very, very sad to hear this. So soon after Nikki....

I remember when I first discovered this group; the Frank 'n Nikki stories were
always among my favorites.

But, both Frank 'n Nikki lived very full lives, and will be at the Bridge
together, waiting for you to come to them.

Purrs for your sorrow to be lightened at this difficult time.

~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life without cats would be only marginally worth living."
-TC, and the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie.

How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
- Robert Heinlein

Life is very difficult. Once you understand that, life becomes easier.
-Buddha
SuzQ - 09 Dec 2005 12:25 GMT
Marina, I'm so sorry. You're doing the right thing for Frank, but your
heart must be breaking. I'm sure Nikki is waiting to greet him at the
Rainbow Bridge. Purrs for your heart.
Suz&Spicey
Kate - 09 Dec 2005 12:51 GMT
I've been sick the last couple of days so haven't been logged on.

So, so sorry to hear the news when I logged in today.  My heart goes
out to you.

Hugs & purrs to you.  May Frank's passage across the bridge be
peaceful.

{{{{Marina}}}}

Kate.
Dave Gerecke - 10 Dec 2005 13:36 GMT
> I've made an appointment with the vet, and she kindly agreed to make a
> home call. She will come tomorrow at 6 pm Finnish time (4 pm Greenwich
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I will have him cremated and scatter his ashes on the island, at the
> rosebush with Nikki's.

I am very sorry to learn this.
Hope you are able to cope.
You and he will be in our prayers tonight
dave
 
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