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neutered cat and kneading...have questions..

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J - 19 Sep 2004 08:07 GMT
I recently adopted a 2 year old tabby mix from the local Animal Rescue
League.  He is a great little guy and is fitting in well with my four
year old tabby male.

I noticed the other night as he was getting ready to bed down that he
was kneading an area around my calf, which to me wasn't unusual, but
then the little fella started to strangely move his back legs...  It
only took a nano-second to realize what he was doing (humping) and I
gently pushed him away.

He has done this another one or two times and this brings about some
questions:

He's neutered...I have never seen this behavior in a neutered cat in all
my years of owning cats..has anyone here?

How can I modify his behavior so that this stops, without alienating
him?  I don't want him to think I don't want him around...

meaningful appropriate suggestions are welcome...

Thanks...
O J - 19 Sep 2004 08:46 GMT
>I recently adopted a 2 year old tabby mix from the local Animal Rescue
>League.  He is a great little guy and is fitting in well with my four
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>How can I modify his behavior so that this stops, without alienating
>him?  I don't want him to think I don't want him around...

My boy Sumo will do this to two of his step-sisters, but not the other
two.  He will grab them by the scruff, hold them down, and fumble
around behind them.  One of the two was his cage mate at the shelter
where I adopted them and one came to our home as a kitten and Sumo
'adopted' her as his kitten, would wash her, and came running if she
cried.

He only does this every few days or so, and I suspect it's because
there are feline pheromones in the air from one of the ferals in the
neighborhood.

My suggestion is to pick him up with both arms, just a little tightly.
Then give him head skritches and tell him what a good boy he is.  Do
this till a minute or so has passed or he lets you know that he really
wants down.

Regards and Aarrrgggg's,
O J
Karen Chuplis - 19 Sep 2004 11:23 GMT
> I recently adopted a 2 year old tabby mix from the local Animal Rescue
> League.  He is a great little guy and is fitting in well with my four
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Thanks...

Grant does this and he is neutered (although it seems to have stopped in
recent months). He gets a very intense glazed eye. I just gently move him
away and he seems to "snap out of it".  I don't scold him. He can't help it
and gently moving him away does it. It started out of the blue when he was
about 6 and he has very occasionally done it since then. I know a few people
who just give their cat a special blankie of their own of super soft
material.
Adrian - 19 Sep 2004 14:25 GMT
> I recently adopted a 2 year old tabby mix from the local Animal Rescue
> League.  He is a great little guy and is fitting in well with my four
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Thanks...

Smokey (RB) used to do this even though he was neutered. I could never
stop him but it nerver hurt anyone.
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Adrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera)
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Ted Davis - 19 Sep 2004 17:21 GMT
>I recently adopted a 2 year old tabby mix from the local Animal Rescue
>League.  He is a great little guy and is fitting in well with my four
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
>
>meaningful appropriate suggestions are welcome...

The occasional neutered tom will masturbate using some variation of
kneading.  Since the cat does not subscribe to any belief system that
considers this sinful or harmful, and it give much pleasure to the
cat, I don't see any reason to stop it unless he is biting or clawing
someone.  Blocking this behavior might even have negative effects on
the cat's behavior - after all that would be preventing the cat from
experiencing intense pleasure from being affectionate toward you.

Many years ago, I had such a cat - he did it in my lap.  I just
started keeping a towel handy to put under him when he started to
catch the ejaculate.

--
T.E.D. (tdavis@gearbox.maem.umr.edu)
CatNipped - 19 Sep 2004 19:47 GMT
> Many years ago, I had such a cat - he did it in my lap.  I just
> started keeping a towel handy to put under him when he started to
> catch the ejaculate.
>
> --
> T.E.D. (tdavis@gearbox.maem.umr.edu)

OK, now that needs to be put on the "You know you're an ailurophile when..."
thread!!!  LOL

Hugs,

CatNipped
Takayuki - 20 Sep 2004 02:14 GMT
>Many years ago, I had such a cat - he did it in my lap.  I just
>started keeping a towel handy to put under him when he started to
>catch the ejaculate.

...

You win.  You're the ultimate cat slave! ;)
Howard Berkowitz - 20 Sep 2004 04:13 GMT
> >I recently adopted a 2 year old tabby mix from the local Animal Rescue
> >League.  He is a great little guy and is fitting in well with my four
[quoted text clipped - 28 lines]
> started keeping a towel handy to put under him when he started to
> catch the ejaculate.

Theo (RB), my first wife's most charming cat, had a
long-term...ahem...intimate friendship with a stuffed camel. The most
disturbing part was when he would complete the act, roll over onto his
back, and look like he wanted a cigarette.
Takayuki - 20 Sep 2004 04:28 GMT
>Theo (RB), my first wife's most charming cat, had a
>long-term...ahem...intimate friendship with a stuffed camel. The most
>disturbing part was when he would complete the act, roll over onto his
>back, and look like he wanted a cigarette.

Not a camel, but did he look anything like this?

http://www.ratemykitten.com/ratemy/kitten?image=30516
Howard Berkowitz - 21 Sep 2004 00:37 GMT
> >Theo (RB), my first wife's most charming cat, had a
> >long-term...ahem...intimate friendship with a stuffed camel. The most
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> http://www.ratemykitten.com/ratemy/kitten?image=30516

Close. Theo would be flat on his back, legs sprawled, showing off his
manly non-parts.
Kreisleriana - 21 Sep 2004 00:54 GMT
>Not a camel, but did he look anything like this?
>
>http://www.ratemykitten.com/ratemy/kitten?image=30516

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!  <snort!>

Theresa
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Tanada - 19 Sep 2004 20:04 GMT
> He's neutered...I have never seen this behavior in a neutered cat in all
> my years of owning cats..has anyone here?
>
> How can I modify his behavior so that this stops, without alienating
> him?  I don't want him to think I don't want him around...

Hi J.  Welcome to the wonderful world of strange cat behavior.  My son's
cat, Berfert, does this on a near daily basis.  I, personally, think
this is a comfort thing, like having a stuffed animal, or sucking one's
thumb.  We finally got Berfert to use a towel or blanket rather than one
of our legs, but it took some doing.  I don't think you can ever get
them to stop humping something, just transfer it to some other object to
adoration.  At least you know that he loves and trusts you, or he
wouldn't do it to you.  Purrs for your distress and giggles that it
isn't just us dealing with this behavior.

Pam S.
 
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