I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
the notes were beautiful.
I read Pam's first letter, and her last. And I also have the services on
tape. If anyone would like to hear the letters to Eve being read, I can rip
that to an MP3 in the next few days.
I have hesitated to mention this because it's been a very private thing. But
we do have a lurker in our midst folks, one who has been with us for a
couple years. And as far as I know, she's never made a single post to our
group. But Tuesday night, the family was notified Eve's funeral has been
paid in full, to the last penny by this person.
Our decision (when we find her address) is to visit this lady in person and
give her a hug. That's been Jody's wish. Mine, one that I requested during
the services as I read Pam's welcome letter, is to match this donation in
Eve's name to an animal shelter/SPCA/organization. Roughly Eve's costs were
$2800, I know we're putting at least half towards a pet charity. I haven't
set it up, I haven't even researched the groups and organizations I'd
consider but in time, I will.
Secondly, Jody's message board has picked up the cost of her memorial stone.
When we decide what we want, it's been settled up. All we have to do is pick
it out. I'm just.... overwhelmed by the support. There were additional
rooms opened just to contain the flowers. So many that they flooded the
cemetary and half of my living room is full of live plants and floral
arrangements. They're surrounding my baby, and placed on top as deep as I am
tall. Our local florists ran out, shipments running all night from two and
three hours away just to get new roses in.
*shakes head*
In time, I'll share what happened. I need to share that. From what I know at
least.
Love all of you dearly.
Grace and family
Kreisleriana - 17 Sep 2004 22:23 GMT
>I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
>the notes were beautiful.
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>Love all of you dearly.
>Grace and family
Continued prayers, purrs and blessings. It's a cliche, but one day at
a time.
Theresa
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Victor Martinez - 17 Sep 2004 22:35 GMT
Grace,
I hesitated between sending flowers and donating to a cat shelter in
Eve's name. I'll be happy to contribute to the matching fund and I'm
glad to have contributed to the overflowing flowers.
Take care of yourself and let me know if there is anything you need.
*hugs*
Victor

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CatNipped - 17 Sep 2004 22:54 GMT
> Grace,
>
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>
> Victor
Yes, I forgot to add that to my post, I too would like to contribute to the
matching fund in Eve's name.
Hugs,
CatNipped
Singh - 18 Sep 2004 13:52 GMT
> > Grace,
> >
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> Yes, I forgot to add that to my post, I too would like to contribute to the
> matching fund in Eve's name.
Me too. Please let us know how.
Blessed be,
Baha
Yowie - 19 Sep 2004 00:27 GMT
> > > Grace,
> > >
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>
> Me too. Please let us know how.
Me three.
Yowie
Annie Wxill - 19 Sep 2004 23:02 GMT
> Me three.
> Yowie
Me four. Please let us know where to send the donation.
Annie
CatNipped - 17 Sep 2004 22:52 GMT
>I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
> the notes were beautiful.
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> Love all of you dearly.
> Grace and family
I couldn't help it - I'm sitting at my desk crying to the point that I'm
sobbing. People have stopped by to ask what was wrong and I read them this
note and there were more tears shed. This is absolutely amazing. We all
hear about the evil done in this world, the lies, the cheating, and the
hurt - so when we read about something like this it is hard to believe that
such goodness, kindness, generosity, and *LOVE* can exist in that same
world.
I think I know who your "lurker" is, but I'll keep her anonymity. However,
she will be added to every prayer I say from now till I die and she will be
in every good thought I have for the rest of my life. She will have my
eternal gratitude for showing me that there are people like her who share my
world with me - that will be my defense against the times of depression I
feel when I hear of cruelty or evil.
Thank you for sharing this Grace. Purrs are still coming for your family's
healing.
Hugs,
CatNipped
Singh - 18 Sep 2004 13:56 GMT
Purrs, many hugs and blessings to you and your family Grace. and to Friend
Lurker, who has just proven to me that there is good to be found, despite what
you hear from news channels, pulpits and watercooler gossips. This anonymous
saint has earned a star in the heavens for this.
Blessed be.
Baha
> >I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
> > the notes were beautiful.
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>
> CatNipped
Yowie - 17 Sep 2004 23:39 GMT
> I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
> the notes were beautiful.
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> Love all of you dearly.
> Grace and family
Had to laugh at the image of you drowning in flowers, I know its not funny,
but every petal, every leaf, every stalk & every stem of those flowers &
plants says "love". Never doubt that you & you family are loved.
Yowie
Cheryl - 18 Sep 2004 01:44 GMT
In the fine newsgroup "rec.pets.cats.anecdotes", "gracecat"
> In time, I'll share what happened. I need to share that. From
> what I know at least.
You share whatever you need to share, either with us, or with a
counselor, or with friends, but just talk about it. I wrote a whole
lot just now, and I backed it all out. One day I might rewrite it for
you but not now.

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LOL - 18 Sep 2004 05:25 GMT
> I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
> the notes were beautiful.
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> Love all of you dearly.
> Grace and family
((((((((((Grace))))))))))
You're in my prayers every day, and I wish I could be there to hug you
in person. I'm glad you have help and support; I think I know who
your lurker is, and she will be in my prayers too.
Please let us know when you're ready for the contributions for Eve,
and if there is anything at all we can do for you.
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Krista
Kajikit - 18 Sep 2004 12:42 GMT
gracecat had something important to tell us on Fri, 17 Sep 2004
16:09:39 -0500:
>I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
>the notes were beautiful.
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>set it up, I haven't even researched the groups and organizations I'd
>consider but in time, I will.
Grace, when you decide who you want to give the money to, let us
know... I want to give you some for it.
(gentle huggles)

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Christine Burel - 18 Sep 2004 15:44 GMT
Dear Grace and family,
When you determine the organization please post it as I would like to make a
donation in Eve's name.
How kind of this "lurker" to do this for you all. Purrs and hugs from us,
Christine
> I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
> the notes were beautiful.
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> Love all of you dearly.
> Grace and family
Irulan - 18 Sep 2004 18:23 GMT
Grace, yes, please let us know what organization you decide on so I can also
make a donation in Eve's name.
Jazz & his mama

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> Dear Grace and family,
> When you determine the organization please post it as I would like to make
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>> Love all of you dearly.
>> Grace and family
Tanada - 18 Sep 2004 18:02 GMT
> *shakes head*
> In time, I'll share what happened. I need to share that. From what I know at
> least.
>
> Love all of you dearly.
> Grace and family
Purrs and healing thoughts and wishes continuing. Let us know when
you're ready to talk.
Pam, Rob, and the Fayetteville Seven
polonca12000 - 18 Sep 2004 22:40 GMT
These last few days I have thought of you and your family often, Grace. I
was devastated and so were my (real life) friends I told about you. I'm
sending lots of hugs and Soncek sends his purrs to help you in these sad sad
times. Even though we are far apart, I feel very close to you and your
family. We are thinking of you and if there's anything we can do, please let
us know.

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> I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
> the notes were beautiful.
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Debra Berry - 20 Sep 2004 19:02 GMT
Dear Grace,
We continue to direct comforting and supporting thoughts and purrs
to you and your family. I would like to join those donating to
your chosen animal charity in Eve's name. Please post and let us
know.
Debbie
dberry@mitre.org
> I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
> the notes were beautiful.
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> Love all of you dearly.
> Grace and family
Ginger-lyn Summer - 20 Sep 2004 19:13 GMT
>I haven't much to say, other than thank you. The flowers were overwhelming,
>the notes were beautiful.
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>Love all of you dearly.
>Grace and family
{{{{{{Grace}}}}}}}
My best blessings to our anonymous friend here -- such a kindness is a
miracle.
Please know we are thinking of you, and let us know if there is
anything we can do for you.
Blessings,
Ginger-lyn
and family