My cat, a very distinctive looking and large one, ran into the woods
about three weeks ago. Ever since I've set live traps where I last saw
him, only to trap one unsuspecting raccoon after another.
Well today I get a response to one of my placards. A college co-ed in
an apartment complex a few blocks from here has been feeding him for a
few days. I'm pretty sure from her description that it's my cat, but
she has to go to work and can't get him to me till 10:00 that night.
Fine. Just call me when you get in, I say.
She calls me, insists on delivering the cat TO me. I guess that's
understandable what with me being male and all. She finally drives up
into my parking lot in a big SUV around 11:00 and GETS OUT WITH MY
20-POUND CAT IN HER ARMS WHILE THE DAMN ENGINE IS STILL GOING. And of
course my cat freaks out, runs around my building and disappears into
the woods exactly where he'd disappeared three weeks ago.
She's sooooo sorry. She's never handled a cat before, she said. First
off, you put him IN something, I tell her. Barring that, you grab the
scruff of his neck and you hold on for dear life. What you DON'T do is
get out of the SUV while it's still running with a 20-POUND CAT in your
arms. But thanks for trying, I said.
So now I'm back to square one. Back setting traps. Back having all the
rednecks around here confront me as a potential looter when they see me
walking around with a flashlight shining it into the woods. Yeah, you
neanderthal, I'm gonna loot your neighbor's pine trees and brush and
snakes.
Life is great.
Kerry - 15 Oct 2005 08:32 GMT
> So now I'm back to square one. Back setting traps. Back having all the
> rednecks around here confront me as a potential looter when they see me
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>
> Life is great.
That's awful, I hope you get him back. Maybe he'll go back to her
place and maybe she's learned her lesson in cat behavior.
Kerry
plus Amy Sue and Bootleg, too
meee - 15 Oct 2005 11:03 GMT
> > So now I'm back to square one. Back setting traps. Back having all the
> > rednecks around here confront me as a potential looter when they see me
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> Kerry
> plus Amy Sue and Bootleg, too
did he scratch her? Hopefully next time he'll bite her. she was obviously
hoping to get lots of praise and didn't expect to have to use her brain in
the process.
MaryL - 15 Oct 2005 12:45 GMT
>> > So now I'm back to square one. Back setting traps. Back having all
>> > the
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> hoping to get lots of praise and didn't expect to have to use her brain in
> the process.
Give her a *little* bit of credit. What she did was stupid, but she the OP
said she had never handled a cat before. On the other hand, she did feed
the cat and she was trying to return him. My guess is that rather than
looking for praise, she may have been fearful of telling a stranger where
she lived and therefore wanted to deliver the cat in person.
MaryL
MaryL
meee - 15 Oct 2005 12:51 GMT
> >> > So now I'm back to square one. Back setting traps. Back having all
> >> > the
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> MaryL
that's true...but I know how frustrating that would feel...it's bad enough
losing your cat, but to 'nearly' get it back like that....gives me
shivers...i was a bit harsh though...comments withdrawn, we've all been
young and well intentioned
Dr Smithpeters - 16 Oct 2005 00:06 GMT
She said no, that he had been declawed. That adds to the mystery since
The General had never been declawed under my stewardship of him. But
that was clearly The General I saw running and I heard meowing. He's
long gone now though.
> did he scratch her? Hopefully next time he'll bite her. she was obviously
> hoping to get lots of praise and didn't expect to have to use her brain in
> the process.
meee - 17 Oct 2005 02:17 GMT
> She said no, that he had been declawed. That adds to the mystery since
> The General had never been declawed under my stewardship of him. But
> that was clearly The General I saw running and I heard meowing. He's
> long gone now though.
maybe she just assumed he'd been declawed as he had manners and didn't claw
her. I really hope he comes back to you.
kilikini - 15 Oct 2005 16:28 GMT
> > So now I'm back to square one. Back setting traps. Back having all the
> > rednecks around here confront me as a potential looter when they see me
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> Kerry
> plus Amy Sue and Bootleg, too
That's what I'm hoping!
kili
whayface - 15 Oct 2005 14:27 GMT
>She calls me, insists on delivering the cat TO me. I guess that's
>understandable what with me being male and all. She finally drives up
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>get out of the SUV while it's still running with a 20-POUND CAT in your
>arms. But thanks for trying, I said.
Why did you not tell her to put him in something!?!? I would say it is as much your fault
as hers. Besides what was he doing out anyways?? If you let him out or let him slip out
the whole thing is your fault to begin with. She was just trying to help out!!
kilikini - 15 Oct 2005 16:30 GMT
> >She calls me, insists on delivering the cat TO me. I guess that's
> >understandable what with me being male and all. She finally drives up
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> as hers. Besides what was he doing out anyways?? If you let him out or let him slip out
> the whole thing is your fault to begin with. She was just trying to help out!!
Cats easily slip out the door, though. There's been so many times I've had
to just barely squeak out the door with my foot blocking to prevent my kids
from running out. Plus, if you have your hands full of groceries and you
walk in, it's just too easy for them to get out. I've had to chase mine
down before. It happens. It's not necessarily the fault of the poster.
kili
Dr Smithpeters - 16 Oct 2005 00:08 GMT
This is where *I'm* the idiot. I foolishly assumed she'd not just leave
the car running and try to bring him out through the driver's side door,
this cat who's INCREDIBLY strong physically. But I won't assume that
anymore.
He ran out the door when a neighbor visited to use my phone.
> Why did you not tell her to put him in something!?!? I would say it is as much your fault
> as hers. Besides what was he doing out anyways?? If you let him out or let him slip out
> the whole thing is your fault to begin with. She was just trying to help out!!
223rem - 15 Oct 2005 17:22 GMT
> She's sooooo sorry. She's never handled a cat before, she said. First
> off, you put him IN something, I tell her. Barring that, you grab the
> scruff of his neck and you hold on for dear life. What you DON'T do is
> get out of the SUV while it's still running with a 20-POUND CAT in your
> arms. But thanks for trying, I said.
She was nice enough to take care of your cat and bring it to your
house in the middle of the night. And you gave her a hard time because
she didnt go purchase a cat carrier and didnt 'hold on the cat for dear
life'? And of course she didnt turn off the engine, she was probably nervous
and ready to bolt.
As to your attitude...did you think that that girl owed you anything?!
If I had been her, I would have told you to go f.ck yourself.
And why is your cat so nervous? Why does he try to run away?
My cats are free to go out anytime, and they're neither nervous
nor inclined to run off.
Dr Smithpeters - 16 Oct 2005 00:05 GMT
> As to your attitude...did you think that that girl owed you anything?!
> If I had been her, I would have told you to go f.ck yourself.
And you would have been told the same in turn. The General was feral
when I adopted him, but I think ANY cat would be skittish among
strangers and a running SUV. You're obviously a troll.
Pamela Shirk - 16 Oct 2005 00:55 GMT
> So now I'm back to square one. Back setting traps. Back having all the
> rednecks around here confront me as a potential looter when they see me
> walking around with a flashlight shining it into the woods. Yeah, you
> neanderthal, I'm gonna loot your neighbor's pine trees and brush and
> snakes.
I'm so sorry. I hope that you get the General back safely. I'll ask my
cats to purr and send get home vibes to him and soothing purrs for you to
get him home soon.
Pam S. and the Fayetteville seven