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Purrs for Hoomins' Tragedy

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Hopitus2 - 09 Mar 2004 16:18 GMT
Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
woke me from a close pal; her DH's only child, a daughter, 21, went to RB
today 3 days after driving headon into a large concrete pole late at night
during one of the intricate turns in poorly lighted section of our I-95
Interchange (locally nicknamed "the spaghetti bowl" so you can imagine what
I mean by "hairpin turns" here). Her BF died at the scene; neither wore
seatbelts, and her car was a rebuilt Mercury with airbags not reinstalled
upon renovation. I had occasion to ride as passenger with her dad, my
friend, about 2 months ago, and at the time bitched at him to fasten his
belt; he speeds and we were stopped by a local cop, scolded, but no ticket
given as he mentioned we had our seatbelts on (!). What irony.This is my
same friend who has the 3 Himmies in her *no pets* condo; she and DH have
now adopted his daughter's half-grown kitten; the Himmies are having cows
over the kid's
intrusion, but at least one of them is playing with it already.
Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
(his girl) once.
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Karen - 09 Mar 2004 16:45 GMT
How sad. Many purrs to the family and furfamily.

Karen

> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
> (his girl) once.
Julie Snowshoe - 09 Mar 2004 16:45 GMT
Purrrs, meatloaf meditations and candles lit for your friend, his
daughter and boyfriend and her cat.  Such a sad situation all around.
Purrs for you as well, Hopitus as these are your friends and I'm sure
you share in their grief.

Julie, Hobbes, Selena and Lacey

>Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
>needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
>(his girl) once.
Marina - 09 Mar 2004 17:04 GMT
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
> (his girl) once.

What a tragedy, and what makes it even more tragic is that it could so
easily have been avoided. Many purrs for your friends.

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Lois Reay - 09 Mar 2004 18:30 GMT
Comforting purrs go out to your friends (and you)

Lois

> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
> (his girl) once.
polonca12000 - 09 Mar 2004 20:36 GMT
What a tragedy! Our most sincere condolences.
We are sending purrs and hugs for the grieving family,
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Polonca & Soncek

> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> seatbelts, and her car was a rebuilt Mercury with airbags not reinstalled
> upon renovation. <snip
Steve Touchstone - 09 Mar 2004 21:15 GMT
>Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
>needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
>woke me from a close pal; her DH's only child, a daughter, 21, went to RB
>today 3 days after driving headon into a large concrete pole late at night
<snip tragic story>

Please pass along condolences to your friends. Purrs and prayers for
them, and all who knew the young couple.
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Tanada - 09 Mar 2004 22:31 GMT
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> seatbelts, and her car was a rebuilt Mercury with airbags not reinstalled
> upon renovation.

Major purrs, healing thoughts and sympathy for your friends' loss.

Pam, Rob, and the NC nine
GraceCat - 10 Mar 2004 00:03 GMT
Oh no, how awful! Sympathies and prayers from this side as well.

Grace

> > Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> > needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> Pam, Rob, and the NC nine
Victor Martinez - 10 Mar 2004 02:25 GMT
Purrs on the way.

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Christine Burel - 10 Mar 2004 02:41 GMT
Many, many heartfelt purrs for your friends; I am so sad to read this story.
Please let them know we are sending our condolences and thoughts their way.
And comforting purrs to you, too, Hopitus.
Christine
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
> (his girl) once.
badwilson - 10 Mar 2004 02:49 GMT
Oh, how sad!  Many purrs coming up.
--
Britta (still shuddering at the concept of speeding in the spaghetti bowl
with no seatbelts on and no airbags)
Check out pictures of Vino at:
http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album

> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> --
> If there's no cats in heaven, I don't wanna go!
Sam Nash - 10 Mar 2004 04:30 GMT
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
> (his girl) once.
Mega-purrs for your pal's DH.  I can so relate to his loss.  No words can
adequately express the grief this causes.
Sam
LOL - 10 Mar 2004 06:22 GMT
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
> (his girl) once.

What a terrible shame.  We send heartache-easing purrs to your
friends, and will light a candle for Claudia.  Please pass along our
condolences.

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Krista
Yowie - 10 Mar 2004 07:02 GMT
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
> (his girl) once.

Thats so sad. Purrs flying across the miles to all those who are grieving
for their loss, furry or otherwise.

Yowie
Sherry - 10 Mar 2004 09:29 GMT
>Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
>needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
>(his girl) once.

Oh Hop, that's so sad. Purrs for the family. The powers that be around here
have just made improvements to a dangerous stretch of road *after* a woman and
both children died on it.
Sherry
Charleen Welton - 10 Mar 2004 13:45 GMT
> >Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> >needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> >intrusion, but at least one of them is playing with it already.
> >Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met
Claudia (his girl) once.

Many purrs and heart-felt thoughts of understanding to the families.  And to
you, Hopitus for the loss of your friend's daughter.

Charleen
Mr. Pumpkin
AggieMarble
Victor Velcro
LOL - 11 Mar 2004 04:45 GMT
> Oh Hop, that's so sad. Purrs for the family. The powers that be around here
> have just made improvements to a dangerous stretch of road *after* a woman and
> both children died on it.
> Sherry

Sadly enough, that's often what it takes.

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Krista
Adrian - 10 Mar 2004 14:39 GMT
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but
> multiple purrs needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown.
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia (his
> girl) once.

How very sad, lighting a candle and sending purrs to family and friends.
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Takayuki - 10 Mar 2004 21:09 GMT
>Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
>needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>seatbelts, and her car was a rebuilt Mercury with airbags not reinstalled
>upon renovation.

Purrs for you and your friend's family!  I know kind of what you mean
about sharp turns.  Ironically, I was in an accident on I-95 when I
was around 21.  There's a section that's sort of a forced exit where
the highway basically ends and changes directions.  I didn't know
about it, because it was my first time on that stretch of road, and it
was at night.  My car was a flaming wreck, but I was unhurt because of
the seatbelt.  They've since put big flashing lighted arrows there,
fortunately.  Seatbelts are so important.
Helen Miles - 11 Mar 2004 11:45 GMT
Purrs and prayers coming.

Helen M

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CATherine - 11 Mar 2004 17:34 GMT
>Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
>needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>Thank you for your recovery and comfort purrs for my friends; I met Claudia
>(his girl) once.

Purrs and prayers are being sent for the family and friends.

CATherine
Hopitus2 - 11 Mar 2004 20:19 GMT
My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of purrs
is great. The female of the couple does the same work I do (xray) but not in
ER's (she is exclusively a mammo tech). She joins me in requesting our rpca
friends all over the world to honor Claudia's memory by "buckling up" 100%
of your driving time.

: >Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
: >needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
:
: CATherine
Seanette Blaylock - 12 Mar 2004 01:53 GMT
"Hopitus2" <Hopitus2@comcast.net> had some very interesting things to
say about Re: Purrs for Hoomins' Tragedy:

>My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
>concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of purrs
>is great. The female of the couple does the same work I do (xray) but not in
>ER's (she is exclusively a mammo tech). She joins me in requesting our rpca
>friends all over the world to honor Claudia's memory by "buckling up" 100%
>of your driving time.

Always do [so does DH]. I once had a car that didn't have a shoulder
belt [it did have a lap belt, always used]. I have a scar from an
11-stitch injury caused by a steering wheel taste test at about 35mph
[some ditz pulled out WAY too close in front of me].
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badwilson - 12 Mar 2004 02:58 GMT
> My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
> concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of purrs
> is great. The female of the couple does the same work I do (xray) but not in
> ER's (she is exclusively a mammo tech). She joins me in requesting our rpca
> friends all over the world to honor Claudia's memory by "buckling up" 100%
> of your driving time.

No adjustment to current habits needed there.  Putting the seatbelt on is so
automatic for me, I even wear it when moving the car from one side of the
street to the other (following the shady spot!).
It is really aggravating here in Thailand 'cause none of them wear seatbelts
and they even make fun of us westerners for wearing them.  Of course this is
in a country where cars don't have daytime running lights and if you
manually turn the lights on during the day you can get ticketed because only
the royal family is allowed to drive during the day with lights on.  Lovely.
All the rest of the peons can just be unsafe...grrrr!
--
Britta
Check out pictures of Vino at:
http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album
Hopitus2 - 12 Mar 2004 03:19 GMT
Huh. Royal family there drives. I had never pictured anything but them
riding in sedan chairs atop elephants, camels, llamas, or something similar.
Been watching too many cartoons or commercials I guess. Duh.

: > My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
: > concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
: Check out pictures of Vino at:
: http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album
badwilson - 12 Mar 2004 03:52 GMT
> Huh. Royal family there drives. I had never pictured anything but them
> riding in sedan chairs atop elephants, camels, llamas, or something similar.
> Been watching too many cartoons or commercials I guess. Duh.

Well, I doubt the King, Queen, Princesses or Prince actually drive
themselves.  But they get driven around in stretch limos in huge motorcades
with many leading and trailing vehicles.  All traffic comes to a halt.
Overpasses must be closed off to traffic because it is not allowed for
anyone to be above the King, so cars going over an overpass while the King's
car passes below is a big huge no-no.
I'm sure they had the sedan chairs on the elephants back in the day, but
hey, it's the 21st century...even in Thailand!  Actually, we're a bit ahead
of you guys over here, it's the year 2547 now.
--
Britta...livin' in the future ;-)
Check out pictures of Vino at:
http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album
Steve Touchstone - 12 Mar 2004 05:42 GMT
<snip>
>It is really aggravating here in Thailand 'cause none of them wear seatbelts
>and they even make fun of us westerners for wearing them.  Of course this is
>in a country where cars don't have daytime running lights and if you
>manually turn the lights on during the day you can get ticketed because only
>the royal family is allowed to drive during the day with lights on.  Lovely.
>All the rest of the peons can just be unsafe...grrrr!

That bit about the lights seems awfully strange, since here more and
more of the vehicles are coming from the factory with lights that are
on automatically. Also, though I confess I don't really know much
about Thailand, but aren't there lots of scooter/motorcycles? Far as I
know all ours have lights that on always on.
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badwilson - 12 Mar 2004 11:25 GMT
> <snip>
> >It is really aggravating here in Thailand 'cause none of them wear seatbelts
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> about Thailand, but aren't there lots of scooter/motorcycles? Far as I
> know all ours have lights that on always on.

The cars here do not have lights that are always on.  There are a ton of
scooters and motorcycles, but their lights are not always on either.  I
guess they make them differently for different market areas at the factory.
--
Britta
Check out pictures of Vino at:
http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album
Charleen Welton - 12 Mar 2004 17:11 GMT
> My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
> concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of purrs
> is great. The female of the couple does the same work I do (xray) but not in
> ER's (she is exclusively a mammo tech). She joins me in requesting our rpca
> friends all over the world to honor Claudia's memory by "buckling up" 100%
> of your driving time.

I will be pleased to honor Claudia's memory by buckling up 100% of the
time.  Presently an honest evalation of myself shows that I use the seat
belt about 80% of the time.  For she and I seat belt use is a 100% promise.

Charleen, who always wants to come home to David,
Mr. Pumpkin,
Aggie Marble,
Victor Velcro.
Hopitus2 - 12 Mar 2004 22:08 GMT
Do you have any online pics of Victor Velcro or Mr. Pumpkin?

: > My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
: > concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
: Aggie Marble,
: Victor Velcro.
Charleen Welton - 12 Mar 2004 22:54 GMT
> Do you have any online pics of Victor Velcro or Mr. Pumpkin?

No, not yet.  But will have soon.  Glad you want to see them.  Have been
asked by others also.  When Tak and Suz and I met I met Spicey in person and
Betty by picture.  I had to make myself bring only six pictures of my cats.
And when thinking of personality Mr. Pumpkin is very much like Britta and
Dennis's Vino.  Victor is a Brat Cat and Aggie Marble came out from under
the bed just a year ago.  She spent 9.5, yes nine and a half years under the
bed coming out only at night to eat and use the littler box.  I love them
all.

Charleen

> : > My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
> : > concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> : Aggie Marble,
> : Victor Velcro.
polonca12000 - 12 Mar 2004 20:52 GMT
I also join you in requesting that everyone wears a seatbelt at all times.
Purrs,
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> My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
> concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of purrs
> is great. The female of the couple does the same work I do (xray) but not in
> ER's (she is exclusively a mammo tech). She joins me in requesting our rpca
> friends all over the world to honor Claudia's memory by "buckling up" 100%
> of your driving time.
Tanada - 12 Mar 2004 22:28 GMT
> My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your kind
> concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The power of purrs
> is great. The female of the couple does the same work I do (xray) but not in
> ER's (she is exclusively a mammo tech). She joins me in requesting our rpca
> friends all over the world to honor Claudia's memory by "buckling up" 100%
> of your driving time.

Purrs and hugs for you and your friend.  Seat belts are a must in the
Shirk vehicles.  Especially since the kids saw what happened to the
woman in the car that rear ended us.  She was lucky to have only a mild
concussion, but that starred window made a bigger impression than in
just the window.

Pam S.
John F. Eldredge - 13 Mar 2004 01:29 GMT
>> My friends and I are so very grateful for all of you sending your
>> kind concern and support for the mental anguish of this loss. The
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>only a mild  concussion, but that starred window made a bigger
>impression than in  just the window.

I have been a firm believer in seatbelts ever since, as a child, I
saw the aftermath of an accident where a car had gone off the road at
high speed and run into a vertically-walled drainage ditch at right
angles to the road.  The driver had gone through the windshield and
headfirst into the concrete drainage-ditch wall.  The body had been
removed, but, judging from the wall, there wasn't much left of the
driver's head.

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Hopitus2 - 13 Mar 2004 02:21 GMT
Gruesome topic, yes, John, but what you said is what happens to most
non-bucklers; the forward force of impact sends them through the windshield,
headfirst. What happened to poor Claudia is the likely alternative to the
above: she was thrown out when the doors popped open (frequent occurence),
landing like a rag doll near the car. Cat ng here; no more details....I
believe we have enlightened some.

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Brenda - 12 Mar 2004 00:43 GMT
> Don't often share my heartaches with cat ng cyberfriends, but multiple purrs
> needed for a couple friends in Miami, my hometown. Early a.m. today, a call
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> --
> If there's no cats in heaven, I don't wanna go!

sending comforting purrs.
Brenda
 
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