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jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 15:40 GMT I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and already I'm worrying over what to do with her.
Persia hates other cats. She gets all puffy and bristly tailed just seeing one on our patio. So I'm concerned about boarding her at the vet. They said just bring her favorite blanket and a toy or something she's familiar with and she'll be fine. But she'll be right next cage with other cats! Will she be okay? Or maybe she'll learn to get along with others? (ha!)
I think possibly my brother would take care of her, but he's sort of careless... I can see him leaving the door open to tend the grill and her running out the door, only to be lost in a strange neighborhood.
Any words of encouragement?
Jill (fretting already)
Sherry - 15 Feb 2004 15:46 GMT >I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia >demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > >Jill (fretting already) One thing you might consider is, Persia probably behaves differently when you aren't around. She sounds like my old Cherokee. He was also a terror at the vet's. Once the vet asked me to step out of the room where he couldn't see me, and he settled down *a lot*. I think sort of like a child, they know what kind of behavior they can get away with the owner, but maybe they aren't so sure when you're gone. What about a "trial run" and leave her at the boarders for an afternoon to see how she does?
Sherry
jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 16:08 GMT >> Will she be okay? Or maybe she'll learn to get along with others? >> (ha!) [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > a terror at the vet's. Once the vet asked me to step out of the room > where he couldn't see me, and he settled down *a lot*. She's fine at the vet when I'm there. She tries to 'hide' under my arm. But she will crash into furniture and knock over the plant stand if she sees another cat near our windows at home.
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> of like a child, they know what kind of behavior they can get away > with the owner, but maybe they aren't so sure when you're gone. > What about a "trial run" and leave her at the boarders for an > afternoon to see how she does? > > Sherry Good idea, except that trial idea costs $5 a day. Okay, I can afford it, but could I stand it knowing she's away and I'm still at home? I'll admit it, I'm a slave :)
Jill
Sherry - 16 Feb 2004 05:26 GMT >She's fine at the vet when I'm there. She tries to 'hide' under my arm. >But she will crash into furniture and knock over the plant stand if she sees >another cat near our windows at home. That's probably the key word-home. The other cats are invading *her* territory. She may react totally differently when she's at the boarders.
>I think sort >> of like a child, they know what kind of behavior they can get away >> with the owner, but maybe they aren't so sure when you're gone. >> What about a "trial run" and leave her at the boarders for an >> afternoon to see how she does?
>Good idea, except that trial idea costs $5 a day. Okay, I can afford it, >but could I stand it knowing she's away and I'm still at home? I'll admit >it, I'm a slave :) > >Jill Maybe just one afternoon would give you an idea how really freaked out (or not!) she is. Good luck Jill.
Sherry
John F. Eldredge - 16 Feb 2004 06:12 GMT >>She's fine at the vet when I'm there. She tries to 'hide' under my >>arm. But she will crash into furniture and knock over the plant [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] >territory. She may react totally differently when she's at the >boarders. I once dog-sat for someone. When the dog and I first met, inside his home, he barked and growled at me. I retreated outside, and they brought the dog outside on a leash. Outside, on neutral ground, he was ready to make friends with a stranger. We then went back inside the house, and he was still friendly towards me, since I was now in the category "friend" rather than "stranger in my house".
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jmcquown - 16 Feb 2004 10:59 GMT > -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE----- > Hash: SHA1 [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > the house, and he was still friendly towards me, since I was now in > the category "friend" rather than "stranger in my house". My mom offered to dog-sit for a neighbor once. The dog would not get off the chair, wouldn't eat, wouldn't to out back to pee. She (the dog, not my mom!) just piddled on the chair. Mom felt awful. Brought me over to see if I could get the dog off the chair; no go. That was the last time she ever offered to pet-sit.
Jill
Victor Martinez - 15 Feb 2004 15:46 GMT > Any words of encouragement? Why not hire a pet sitter? We have a wonderful sitter that comes twice a day to feed and play with the cats and clean the boxes. She also brings in mail and newspapers and turns lights on and off. In the summer we've asked her to water plants as well. She's really good and the kids love her. Oh, she also feeds the fish.
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jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 15:57 GMT >> Any words of encouragement? > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > the summer we've asked her to water plants as well. She's really good > and the kids love her. Oh, she also feeds the fish. Victor, I am very hestitant to give someone else a key to my apartment. I'm not rich, but I do have some rather expensive heirlooms which could easily walk out the door... How do you know who to trust?
Jill
jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 16:05 GMT >>> Any words of encouragement? >> [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > Jill Oh, and I actually entrusted my oldest brother to take care of my dog once when I was going to be gone for a 3 day weekend.... came home to find he'd not been there, the dog was not walked and the food/water was not replenished. The poor mutt was crossing his legs when I got home going "can I pee now?!" ROFL
I've never trusted this brother with anything I cared for since.
Jill
Christine Burel - 15 Feb 2004 16:43 GMT > >> Any words of encouragement? > > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Jill Ask for recommendations from your vet, rescue groups, vet techs (several vet techs at my vet pet sit) friends and get references and check them. Purrs for a good solution. Christine
MaryL - 15 Feb 2004 16:53 GMT > >> Any words of encouragement? > > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Jill As you suggest, it very important to hire someone who is absolutely reliable -- trustworthy both in the sense of taking good care of Persia and in the sense of honesty. That is why I recommended in my other post that you get a number of references. In addition, I took steps several years ago that have given me great peace of mind whenever I had to give a key to someone (such as the cleaning service for my house). I now have two deadbolts on my front door. One is a double-cylinder deadbolt, and the key to it also fits every lock in the house (including the second lock which I am about to describe). The other lock has a key that fits *only* that lock. I thought I was being "original" when I asked for this system, but then learned that others do the same thing and second lock is known as a "maid's lock." This way, I can leave the key to the maid's lock for those who clean my house (being careful to leave the other lock unlocked that day because the maid's key will not fit the second lock). I leave this key any time I feel an absolutely necessity to give someone else a key, and this is the key I gave to the pet sitter. You still need to take lots of precautions for security because your home will be open to anyone with a key while you are gone, but you do have the safety of knowing that people cannot enter your house after you return even if duplicates were made because now you can lock the other lock. Incidentally, all of my locks are double-cylinder locks, and that provides still more security -- remove all of the keys to the other locks when you leave.
MaryL
Victor Martinez - 15 Feb 2004 17:09 GMT > Victor, I am very hestitant to give someone else a key to my apartment. I'm > not rich, but I do have some rather expensive heirlooms which could easily > walk out the door... How do you know who to trust? Make sure to ask for references and that your sitter is an established professional. Ours is bonded and insured and has been doing this for years now. Ask your vet for references and don't hesitate to ask a lot of questions.
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Lucy's Mom - 15 Feb 2004 17:46 GMT >> Victor, I am very hestitant to give someone else a key to my apartment. I'm >> not rich, but I do have some rather expensive heirlooms which could easily [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] >years now. Ask your vet for references and don't hesitate to ask a lot >of questions. Ours is also bonded and insured and I've never had any problems. What I did the first time, however, was leave another key with someone I trusted and asked them to "just check on things" a few times while we were away. Just to see that the food and water bowls were full, mail in and so forth. I made sure to tell the pet sitter that someone would be "coming to play with Lucy" while we were gone so if they happened to meet, there would be no problems. This arrangement worked fine, Lucy was well cared for and I've had no problems going out of town since....Good luck!
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Karen Chuplis - 15 Feb 2004 17:42 GMT >>> Any words of encouragement? >> [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Jill Pet sitters are bonded and insured. You can also ask for references. That's another great thing about hiring a pet sitter.
Karen
Annie Wxill - 15 Feb 2004 19:35 GMT ...> Victor, I am very hestitant to give someone else a key to my apartment. I'm
> not rich, but I do have some rather expensive heirlooms which could easily > walk out the door... How do you know who to trust? > > Jill Jill, Our pet sitter is licensed and bonded. I asked her for references and she provided them and I called the people. She came over for an interview and I could tell she was good with cats. Both Cinder and Rosie said hello to her. She has a key to our house and is available if we make a last minute trip or if we should have an emergency and need someone to look after the cats without having to get them a key. When she comes, she leaves us a log of what she did and how the cats were. I got her from an ad in the paper, but you could check with the vet to see if he/she could recommend someone. Annie
Karen Chuplis - 15 Feb 2004 17:42 GMT >> Any words of encouragement? > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > asked her to water plants as well. She's really good and the kids love > her. Oh, she also feeds the fish. This is what I do and it helps my peace of mind a LOT. The cats seem to do fine and I know that they are taken care of. It's usually about 15 dollars a day. With one cat it might be less.
Karen
MaryL - 15 Feb 2004 16:44 GMT > I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia > demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Jill (fretting already) I used a petsitter when I went on vacation last summer, and I am going to use the same person this summer. I first talked to my vet and to a number of people who have pets, and she received a number of *fantastic* references. After I met her, I could see why. She was wonderful -- in fact, she became a "second me." She came twice a day, maintained their feeding schedule, gave one cat medication that was required at that time, cleaned their litter boxes, spent time playing with them, wrote a daily memo to let me know what happened that day, and even spent some time (at my suggestion) having her coffee at my kitchen table while watching the birds -- all of which provided my two with a sense of normalcy. She even thanked *me* when I returned for letting her care for my furbabies because she said it was such a nice, peaceful environment that she really enjoyed doing it. I also used two plug-in Feliway diffusers "just in case," but that probably would not have been necessary.
If you can do this, I think it is far superior to boarding. Your cats will be in their own environment with their own toys, have their normal amount of space for play, sleep in their favorite places, etc. -- and there will be no problems with picking up fleas or disease from another location. Do be sure to get references, though!! Also, my pet sitter came over a couple of days in advance to get to know my cats, and she took detailed notes concerning feeding and other routine. She even asked if she could fill my bird feeders -- an offer which, of course, I happily accepted.
I called the sitter every couple of days to check on how things were going, but there was never any problem. I also left numbers where she could reach me and some emergency numbers. Finally, I made arrangements with my veterinarian so that they would know to provide any medical treatment that might be needed, and I also gave them my cell phone number so that I could be reached at any time.
MaryL (take out the litter to reply)
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dirtylitterboxofferingstospammers - 15 Feb 2004 17:52 GMT If I'm off for any length of time, my three go into a boarding cattery. Francis & Marble share an enclosure - Waffles has her own, but next to the boys.
My tips for deciding on a boarding cattery - call in unannounced and see how the owners/managers react when you say you want to have a look around. - check with friends, rescue groups, vets etc who they'd recommend & who they've used for their own animals. - check the establishment will feed your cat what *it* gets at home. - when wandering about, see how the animals staying there at the time react to the people at the cattery.
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lrulan - 15 Feb 2004 18:10 GMT If you cannot find someone reliable and whom you can trust to come to your house and take care of Persia, suggest you take her to the vet's boarding place. She will be fine there, in spite of the other cats, she will be around people who are paid to do this kind of thing, and if she needs anything they will have it there. It's always nicer if she can stay in her own home, but I can understand your hesitation when it comes to letting strangers into your house. Believe me, Persia will be fine at the vet's. You will still worry, but don't we all. :) Jazz's mama
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> I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia > demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Jill (fretting already) jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 18:29 GMT > If you cannot find someone reliable and whom you can trust to come to > your house and take care of Persia, suggest you take her to the vet's [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > your house. Believe me, Persia will be fine at the vet's. You will > still worry, but don't we all. :) Jazz's mama Thanks... I don't think having someone come into my house is the right answer; licensed, bonded, whatever, I do not like that idea. Locks, change the locks, who knows who they will bring in with them? Maybe I'm paranoid but some of you haven't lived in some of the neighborhoods I have LOL
It would be ideal if I could trust my brother to take care of her and I might still be able to drop her off along with the bird.
And yes, she'd be happier in her own home, but I think the vet's boarding place will take good care of her, play with her, make sure she's eating, etc. The assistants there love her!
Jill (fretting is going to give me frown lines)
>> I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before >> Persia demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] >> >> Jill (fretting already) Jeanne Hedge - 15 Feb 2004 18:46 GMT >And yes, she'd be happier in her own home, but I think the vet's boarding >place will take good care of her, play with her, make sure she's eating, >etc. The assistants there love her! Jill,
Are there other boarding options in your area besides at the vet's? When I lived in New Jersey we used a boarding kennel and cattery that was just wonderful.
The cats were in a seperate building from the dogs, and it had both heating and air conditioning. The cages were large, and they had some double-size ones for if you wanted to put several of your cats into the same cage. Cage by cage, the cats were let into an enclosed play area (attached to the room were the cages were) twice/day. This play area was large enough for a person to stand in and you could stretch your arms out without touching the sides. It had both toys and a wood climbing tree that went all the way up to the top. Three sides of the play area were made of fencing and open to the outside (the open walls were closed up during cold weather). It was wonderful, my cats loved it.
OTOH, my current vet's boarding area is just a wall of cages. The cats are allowed out daily while the cages are being cleaned, but it's only to have the run of the room the cages are in - no toys or climbing area. The staff does come in and talk and play with them. All boarders are given an exam as part of their boarding fee, and it's a convenient time to have any pending TED visits taken care of then too.
Still, if I could find another place remotely similar to what I used in New Jersey, I wouldn't board with the vet again.
Just my 2 cents...
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jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 19:05 GMT >> And yes, she'd be happier in her own home, but I think the vet's >> boarding place will take good care of her, play with her, make sure [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > Are there other boarding options in your area besides at the vet's? Jeanne, Sounds ideal. I'll inquire but I don't think so.
Jill
> When I lived in New Jersey we used a boarding kennel and cattery that > was just wonderful. [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > http://www.jhedge.com Marina - 15 Feb 2004 19:06 GMT > I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia > demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and > already I'm worrying over what to do with her. If you do board Persia at the vet's, take into consideration that she will not consider it to be her territory, so might not get so upset with strange cats. I don't really have any useful advice to give, because my cats always stay at my Mum's if I'm going away, they know her and feel perfectly at home at her place. Many purrs for the problem to be solved in the best way possible for you both.
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jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 16 Feb 2004 01:02 GMT > If you do board Persia at the vet's, take into consideration that > she will not consider it to be her territory, so might not get so > upset with strange cats. Also, I would expect that each individual cage would have metal side walls and back wall, so that they can't actually *see* into neighboring cages. At least, that's how the cages are at the animal shelter where I used to volunteer. They might be able to hear and smell other cats, but if they can't actually see them, and can't put paws through bars to try to swat at each other, that would probably bring the stress level down quite a bit.
Joyce
Hopitus2 - 16 Feb 2004 04:08 GMT ROFL - so true, Joyce! Cats are *not* d-pets - imagine them fighting through the bars if they were in cages with bars at *sides* like they keep d-pets in! Good point....
: > If you do board Persia at the vet's, take into consideration that : > she will not consider it to be her territory, so might not get so [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] : : Joyce Nik Simpson - 15 Feb 2004 19:49 GMT > Any words of encouragement? I'd look into local pet sitters, when I travel on business I get a cat sitter to come in and feed my cats while I'm gone. They are much happier than when they have to spend time at a vet in a cage which they absolutely hate. It's also much cheaper than boarding.
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polonca12000 - 15 Feb 2004 20:53 GMT Could you get a pet-sitter that someone would recommend to you? Or someone to stay in the house while you are gone and also take care of Persia? Hoping you will find a good solution to your problem,
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> I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia > demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and > already I'm worrying over what to do with her. <snip
jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 21:25 GMT > Could you get a pet-sitter that someone would recommend to you? Or > someone to stay in the house while you are gone and also take care of > Persia? Hoping you will find a good solution to your problem, My "problem" is much larger than who will take care of Persia. I'm going to meet someone I haven't seen in 23 years... a former lover. Yikes!! But of course I want Persia to be well taken care of and my bird Peaches, too.
Jill
>> I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before >> Persia demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a >> week in May and already I'm worrying over what to do with her. > <snip Hopitus2 - 15 Feb 2004 23:21 GMT Wow this plot is thickening into something *so* romantic, Jill. I have some 411 for you to consider: The Dog House near where I live (yes, dogs are boarded way over in the far building, away from the "cat hotel") has strange little "cubicles" consisting of a 3-story shelved (so cats can jump and climb in there) enclosure - solid on sides, so that cats cannot see their immediate neighbors, with bars only on front. The cubicles line both walls of a fair-sized narrow room, so that the cubicles do face each other only from front, but I don't believe it's aggravating to them because there is about an 8-foot aisle there and I believe they can basically only smell and hear each other. I pay for each of my Evil 3 to have their own cubicle as they are huge cats and would fight, guaranteed, if any combo were together (like the missionaries/cannibals puzzle, some hate each other, others would be safe together) in one cubicle. Why don't you go scout out some boarding places? You know your own criteria, probably a glance would tell you what you need to know, and I can't see anyone not permitting you to look their facility over. I collect stuff and would never hire a petsitter. No one who comes here to do anything is ever left alone. Boarding is not cheap but I don't think $9 a day with "group discount" which we get is bad at all.
: > Could you get a pet-sitter that someone would recommend to you? Or : > someone to stay in the house while you are gone and also take care of [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] : >> week in May and already I'm worrying over what to do with her. : > <snip> jmcquown - 15 Feb 2004 23:38 GMT > Wow this plot is thickening into something *so* romantic, Jill. Quarter of a century later, talking on the phone it's like we met for lunch just yesterday :)
> I have some 411 for you to consider: The Dog House near where I live > (yes, dogs are boarded way over in the far building, away from the > "cat hotel") has strange little "cubicles" > consisting of a 3-story shelved (so cats can jump and climb in there) > enclosure - solid on sides, so that cats cannot see their immediate > neighbors, with bars only on front. Sounds good! I'll be asking the vet and checking local newspapers. No one gets into my house unless they are related to me :)
> Why don't you go scout out some boarding places? Will do. Thanks.
Jill
> You know your own criteria, probably a glance would tell you what you > need to know, and I can't see anyone not permitting you to look their [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] >>>> with her. >>> <snip Jo Firey - 16 Feb 2004 00:57 GMT Our cats go to a vet across town who has a special "cat hotel" wing. Far enough away from and soundproof enough so they don't hear patients or the dog wing. What makes it special is that the large cages have solid sides to they don't see each other but they face a large picture window that has a view across the parking lot to a park and lake beyond. So they have lots to look at when its light out.
I don't leave our cats or dogs for family or friends to care for. Just too big a chance of something going wrong that would cause bad feelings for life.
Such as when the neighbors son left the rotweiler alone in the house for three days with a pizza to eat.
Jo
> Wow this plot is thickening into something *so* romantic, Jill. > I have some 411 for you to consider: The Dog House near where I live (yes, [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > : >> week in May and already I'm worrying over what to do with her. > : > <snip> jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 16 Feb 2004 03:03 GMT > Our cats go to a vet across town who has a special "cat hotel" wing. Far > enough away from and soundproof enough so they don't hear patients or the > dog wing. What makes it special is that the large cages have solid sides > to they don't see each other but they face a large picture window that > has a view across the parking lot to a park and lake beyond. And fun for people who are walking by, too, to look in at all the kitties!
> Such as when the neighbors son left the rotweiler alone in the house for > three days with a pizza to eat. Yeah, I don't think I'd want anyone to take care of my cats unless he or she had agreed to do it personally. Having friends promise to send their kid over to take care of my animals wouldn't make me feel very secure. The chance that the kid wouldn't feel like doing it, and would blow it off in just this way, would make me very nervous!
I must be lucky in that I have quite a few animal-loving friends who I know would not flake out. Well, I do a fair amount of freebie animal care for their pets, too.
Joyce
Jo Firey - 16 Feb 2004 05:42 GMT > > Our cats go to a vet across town who has a special "cat hotel" wing. Far > > enough away from and soundproof enough so they don't hear patients or the [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Joyce Better clear that one up. It was the neighbors house, the neighbors Rotweiler, and the neighbor's adult son. The dog in an angel but I guess it threw up and peed and pooped all over the house.
To say the son is now living in the doghouse is putting it mildly.
Jo
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 16 Feb 2004 10:17 GMT > Better clear that one up. It was the neighbors house, the neighbors > Rotweiler, and the neighbor's adult son. Adult in *body*, anyway...
> The dog in an angel but I guess it > threw up and peed and pooped all over the house. Poor thing. And I'll bet the dog felt miserable about it, too.
> To say the son is now living in the doghouse is putting it mildly. I should hope so!
Joyce
Annie Wxill - 16 Feb 2004 00:51 GMT ...> I'm going to
> meet someone I haven't seen in 23 years... a former lover. Yikes!! But of > course I want Persia to be well taken care of and my bird Peaches, too. > > Jill Hmmm, romance is in the RPCA air. I'll have the ladies rev up the purr motors for Persia and the bird to have good caretakers and for you to have a great visit. Of course, you have to let us know how it goes, right? Annie
jmcquown - 16 Feb 2004 01:53 GMT > ...> > I'm going to [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > Of course, you have to let us know how it goes, right? > Annie ROFL! Long lost love, my friend. Who knows what will happen? Of course I'll either let you guys know or simply die of embarrassment.
Jill
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 16 Feb 2004 00:57 GMT > I think possibly my brother would take care of her, but he's sort of > careless... I can see him leaving the door open to tend the grill and her > running out the door, only to be lost in a strange neighborhood. What about friends? When I go out of town, I line up between 2-4 people (depends on how long I'll be away) to come in, a couple of times each. That way, I'm not asking too much of any individiual person, but the cats get someone coming in once a day. I set up a schedule for everyone ahead of time - ie, who will be coming over on which day, and I give everyone each other's phone numbers, in case anyone wants to switch days with someone else.
Because they're my good friends, I trust them with the key to my place. (In fact, several people have keys to my apartment all the time, for various reasons, and I have keys to their place.)
This is also a very *affordable* option. :)
Joyce
jmcquown - 16 Feb 2004 01:54 GMT > > I think possibly my brother would take care of her, but he's sort > of > careless... I can see him leaving the door open to tend the [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > times each. That way, I'm not asking too much of any individiual > person, Heh, all my friends have moved away. Paula to Massachusetts, Diane to Ohio, Janet to Florida. I'm pretty much a solitary person these days.
Jill
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 16 Feb 2004 02:55 GMT > Heh, all my friends have moved away. Paula to Massachusetts, Diane > to Ohio, Janet to Florida. I'm pretty much a solitary person these > days. Bummer! I see the dilemma. It's tough to be without a lot of close friends when you live alone and don't have a partner. I'm also unpartnered and live by myself, but fortunately, I have a number of friends who live within a 5-mile radius. It's one of the reasons I moved to this area! But of course, that doesn't help you... sounds like your best bet is to find a good place to board Persia where you know she'll be treated well. I don't know if I'd want your brother to come back, after what he did last time!
I hope you can resolve it soon!
Joyce
Gizela - 16 Feb 2004 03:57 GMT Gizmo is the same....hates other cats....is a very moody cat and isn't all that affectionate....
At the vet they love her because she is so friendly and wants cuddles all the time. She also plays with other cats there (but hates them at home!!!)...
Funny animals!!
Angela
> I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia > demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Jill (fretting already) LOL - 16 Feb 2004 05:00 GMT > I have not travelled anywhere since well before 9/11 and well before Persia > demanded I take her in. I'm thinking of taking a trip for a week in May and [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > Jill (fretting already) Though it's far from ideal, we board Mike at the vet on the rare occasions we have to be out of town. We have left Mike home alone overnight, but wouldn't leave him any longer than 24 hours. We figure that's the max time he'd be okay by himself, and not have to be subjected to the stress of boarding.
Mike hates and is stressed by other cats, but he is also stressed by other people. Anyone besides DH and me who comes into our house will definitely be hissed at, and likely bitten and/or scratched. Familiarity with the person doesn't help; he does this to family members he sees fairly often, just as much as he does to new people. (Of course, I don't know how Mike would react to someone else in the house if DH and I weren't there.) But this has made me think that a pet sitter, while most likely better at handling him than a friend or family member, wouldn't be any less stressful for him.
In fact, Mike is stressed by an awful lot of things, and he is definitely hard to handle. I would trust family members to take care of him, but not to be able to block him if he made a determined rush for the outdoors. At the vet's he has to stay in a little cage, in the same room with other animals (both dogs and cats, afaik) but I know at the vet's he is at least perfectly safe, if not happy.
DH and I just do lots of abject kissing up to the cat to make up when we get home. :-P
------ Krista
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