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John Biltz - 21 Jan 2004 08:26 GMT
I've noticed I really treat Bruiser and Maya differently.  I got in the
habit easily since when Maya showed up she was a fully independent
functioning not quite adult stray cat and when Bruiser joined us he was a
tiny little kitten.  But Bruiser is now only a month or two younger than
Maya was when she informed me she was living here now and she was in
charge.  They are very different cats.  Maya vocal, small, beautiful,
elegant and a stone killer in a fight; Bruiser big, fuzzy, bumbling,
adolescent, pushy, goofy, friendly and oh so cute and cuddly.  An example
would be if I am trying to fix something to eat Bruiser will keep trying
to get to it, I can pick him up and put him on the floor a hundred times
and a hundred and one times he will jump right back up there.  What works
is to to take my hand and repeatedly shove him back to the edge of the
counter and then shove him off.  I have to let him know I am bigger and
stronger and its mine.  I would never attempt such a thing with Maya, I
would draw back a bloody stump.  But I wouldn't have to either.  If Maya
is laying somewhere I leave her alone.  If I need to make the bed and she
is on it, I just make it later.  Bruiser I move.  Maybe the difference is
Maya thinks she is in charge and when she means it we both believe her;
Bruiser acts like he is in charge and we never believe him.
polonca12000 - 21 Jan 2004 10:34 GMT
Very interesting! Thanks, John.
Best wishes,
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> I've noticed I really treat Bruiser and Maya differently.  <snip
Karen Chuplis - 21 Jan 2004 12:33 GMT
> I've noticed I really treat Bruiser and Maya differently.  I got in the
> habit easily since when Maya showed up she was a fully independent
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> Maya thinks she is in charge and when she means it we both believe her;
> Bruiser acts like he is in charge and we never believe him.

That is truly funny!
Marina - 22 Jan 2004 04:51 GMT
> I've noticed I really treat Bruiser and Maya differently.

I think it comes from them being so different in character. Your
descriptions are always so nice. It's always a treat to get to know a cat
and its character.

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John Biltz - 22 Jan 2004 08:01 GMT
>> I've noticed I really treat Bruiser and Maya differently.
>
> I think it comes from them being so different in character. Your
> descriptions are always so nice. It's always a treat to get to know a cat
> and its character.

I think it is respect and fear.  I have always respected Maya and her
time surviving out on the street and frankly she scares me.  She can be
one fierce kitty but never to me, at least not physically.  But she can
flay flesh vocally.  I don't know what she is saying, but it sounds
horrific and sends Bruiser running even if she is not talking to him,
probably best not to know.  Bruiser is the baby.  I don't care how big
the little monster is getting, I still think of him as the little kitten
who would climb back up on me because the grass scared him and he can't
do scary cat.  When he archs up his face just looks confused instead of
menacing and he hasn't figured out how to hiss.  He just looks cute when
he tries.  You want to say, "Ooohhh, who's the big scary cat".  I thought
he would have picked that up by now from Maya, she is really good at it
and she certainly has demonstrated it enough for him.  Soon though, I am
going to have to change the way I treat him.  They grow up so fast.
polonca12000 - 22 Jan 2004 17:17 GMT
I love reading about the differences in character, it's so very interesting!
Thanks.
Best wishes,
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<snip> Bruiser is the baby.  I don't care how big
> the little monster is getting, I still think of him as the little kitten
> who would climb back up on me because the grass scared him and he can't
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> and she certainly has demonstrated it enough for him.  Soon though, I am
> going to have to change the way I treat him.  They grow up so fast.
Steve Touchstone - 22 Jan 2004 21:09 GMT
>>> I've noticed I really treat Bruiser and Maya differently.
>>
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>and she certainly has demonstrated it enough for him.  Soon though, I am
>going to have to change the way I treat him.  They grow up so fast.

At least for mine, I think their early life really has had a profound
effect on their present personalities.

Sammy was born here, has only gone outside when supervised, and has
never spent a night outside. Like Brusier, she just can't put on an
effective "scary cat" act. She's always ready to play, and about the
only things that scare her are thunderstorms and the vacuum.

Little Bit is my resident coward. She was a stray, about ten months
old and very pregnant, when she adopted me. I know she had a previous
owner, since she had a flea collar the previous summer. She likes to
go outside, and I let her out unsupervised when I'm home, but she
spooks easily and comes running pawing at the door when she hears a
dog barking or a car driving by. Just about everything new or strange
scares her, although, unlike Sammy she doesn't mind the vacuum and
sits in the window and watching the light show during thunderstorms.

Rocky is ex-feral, and I really don't think he ever had hoomins in his
past. He was 6-8 years old when I first started feeding him, and it
was a long time before I saw more than the end of his tail - maybe as
long as a year before I could pet him. Actually, last fall was the
first time I heard him purr, and just recently was the first time he
jumped into my lap. He's decided that my side of the apartment complex
is a safe zone, and now he approaches people in the safe zone and
gives headbutts, asking for scritches. But, outside of the safe zone
he still runs from people, including me unless I call and he
recognises my voice. He still spends most of his time outside, though
lately he comes in for the night. He's a pretty big cat, and doesn't
seem to be afraid of anything up to the size of the german shepherds
next door. He wanders into the yard next door where there's a chow,
and just ignores the d*g when it barks at him. Even with the
shepherds, I don't know if it's the size, or the fact that there or
three of them.
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