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CatNipped - 27 Aug 2005 23:21 GMT
I have a new one.

Maybe it's just because I have those "Trading Spaces" type shows on in the
"background" in my office a lot lately (I don't normally watch TV, but it
seems less lonely than silence lately).

When did the word "awesome" become the only descriptor left in the English
language?  Each "reveal" is "awesome", each redecorated bedroom is "awesome"
every design is "awesome".

I heard a commercial the other day (on radio - it had nothing to do with
TLC) and the announcer said "awesome" three times in two sentences!!!!

This phenomenon is totally awesome.

Hugs,

CatNipped
sriddles@aol.com - 27 Aug 2005 23:32 GMT
> I have a new one.
>
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>
> CatNipped

Either Jeff Foxworthy or Bill Engvill has a comedy routine about that
phenomenon. The one that makes me shake my head is how they also have
this lilt at the end of every sentence? You know? Like they're asking a
question but they're really not? Like, we're going do do this room in a
chartruese theme, following the focal point which we found in the
dumpster behind the studio? And I know it will be totally awesome?

Sherry
CatNipped - 27 Aug 2005 23:55 GMT
> > I have a new one.
> >
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>
> Sherry

Yep!  Here in Houston we have a morning radio show called Walton and Johnson
(they're risqué and sexist, but they're hilarious) and they have a policy
that they'll cut off any caller who says "you know" more than four times
during a call.  I can't tell you how many times they had to hang up on a
caller.

"You know", "like", "totally", "I mean", "actually" are essential
communication tools for American's under 30 - I don't think they could
convey a thought without those words.  It drives me up a wall to listen to
someone whose every 3rd word is "filler"!  If I were an English teacher I'd
fail every kid in class who couldn't speak without using those
words/phrases.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Aug 2005 00:13 GMT
> "You know", "like", "totally", "I mean", "actually" are essential
> communication tools for American's under 30 - I don't think they
> could convey a thought without those words.  It drives me up a wall
> to listen to someone whose every 3rd word is "filler"!  If I were an
> English teacher I'd fail every kid in class who couldn't speak
> without using those words/phrases.

[delurk]

Ahem.

No, not every American under 30.

And as long as we're generalizing about illiteracy, the plural of
American doesn't have an apostrophe.  Shall I tell you about *my*
literacy pet peeve?

Sorry my first post here in a while is kinda mean =/  But come on,
now!  People in glass houses and all that.  CN, gotta proofread your
rants first =)

[/delurk]

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hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 01:27 GMT
>> "You know", "like", "totally", "I mean", "actually" are essential
>> communication tools for American's under 30 - I don't think they
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>
> [/delurk]

ROFL. Glad to see you're feelin' better, 'Nipped, and posting again. You
know, like, I haven't had access to the cyberworld of ngs in about a month,
actually, and I mean
I missed it totally killer! (Assume you meant "killer" and not "filler"??)
If you're like, "up the wall" now, don't fall off when I lay it on you that
I'm old enough to be YO MAMA, kid, LOL. Did I "convey" anything here? Like,
a thought? Such as, if you don't wanna appear....SO last
decade.......or even worse, OLD, find another, different pet peeve to post,
kid. A last conveyance: *If it's TOO LOUD, you're too old*.(80's mantra).
What to do in Denver when you're dead: turn up the volume!
CatNipped - 28 Aug 2005 03:06 GMT
> > "You know", "like", "totally", "I mean", "actually" are essential
> > communication tools for American's under 30 - I don't think they
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>
> [/delurk]

Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my MIL is
coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the storm here.
Were you in the group last year at about this time when I described what
that was like (hint, I was cleaning up dog p*ss for weeks afterwards)???
Gawd help me, I can't take it again right now - I'm too depressed and I'm in
too much pain to deal.

Hugs,

CatNipped
hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 03:26 GMT
Yeah, I'm bummed too had to spend $ to get PC back online w/OE working
right. Hey, 'Nipped, I recently UNinvited some folks who invited themselves
here w/o any notice to me (would they have been *amazed* when they got here
to find us *gone*! - we're moving) of course they were not my MIL though.
Can't you tell them or better yet have your DH get in their face and inform
them you're like *sick* these days?! It depresses *me* to think about
visitors like you're describing here. That pack can just as well check in @
a pet-friendly *motel* for Katrina's visit. Another thing bumming me: my
pals & relatives in s. FL are w/o power since K. slogged through and will
not have power (if they're lucky!) till Tuesday,
Florida Plunder & Loot promises them. (that's Florida Power & Light's local
nick there)....to conclude: UNinvite
this group before it's too late.

>> > "You know", "like", "totally", "I mean", "actually" are essential
>> > communication tools for American's under 30 - I don't think they
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>
> CatNipped
sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 04:20 GMT
> Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my MIL is
> coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the storm here.
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>
> CatNipped

Yuck. Can't you find them a motel, rent an RV, anything?
I"m having terrible flashbacks to February, when the homeless couple,
their two dogs and three puppies moved in on top of us for three weeks.
At least they weren't relatives.
Lesson I learned: No house, on this earth, is built big enough for two
families.

Sherry
Annie Wxill - 28 Aug 2005 18:37 GMT
>> ...>> Were you in the group last year at about this time when I described
>> what
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>
> Yuck. Can't you find them a motel, rent an RV, anything?
Sherry

CatNipped,
I remember well what an awful time it was for you.

Even somebody who was not depressed would get depressed just thinking of
going through that again.

I hope you can get your husband to stand up to his relatives and let them
know that they need to find other accommodations.

Or at least make arrangements to board the animals (referring their pets, of
course) (grin) (sorry).

Good luck,
Annie
Victor Martinez - 28 Aug 2005 04:47 GMT
> Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my MIL is
> coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the storm here.

Well, from what I just saw in the news, looks like it will take them
over 24 hours to drive to Houston from NOLA. At least it gives you time
to prepare! :)

> Were you in the group last year at about this time when I described what
> that was like (hint, I was cleaning up dog p*ss for weeks afterwards)???

You know what? You have a fenced yard. It's nice and warm outside. Let
the dogs outside. It's your house, you make the rules. Period.

> Gawd help me, I can't take it again right now - I'm too depressed and I'm in
> too much pain to deal.

Wanna come to Austin to ride out the storm? You and the cats are
welcome, DH is too, but I'd assume he'd stay home and deal with his mom. :)

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polonca12000 - 28 Aug 2005 13:56 GMT
You really should not the one cleaning up after your MIL's dogs.
Lots of purrs and best wishes for this stay to be much better than the last
one,
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> Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my MIL is
> coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the storm here.
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>
> CatNipped
Wayne Mitchell - 28 Aug 2005 14:19 GMT
> I just found out that my MIL is
>coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the storm here.
>Were you in the group last year at about this time when I described what
>that was like (hint, I was cleaning up dog p*ss for weeks afterwards)???
>Gawd help me, I can't take it again right now - I'm too depressed and I'm in
>too much pain to deal.

Oh heck, Lori.  That's the last thing you need right now.  You
say you can't deal -- Are you listening to yourself?  Have you
said that in so many words to your husband and/or your in-laws?
Have they heard you?

I know it can be hard to take pre-emptive action when you're
depressed, but I would urge you and your husband to consider
almost any alternative.  I don't know what area of NOLA your
in-laws are bugging out from, but if it's a low-lying area, and
if the storm hits at all directly, it could be weeks before they
can move back.

Maybe you need to bug out yourself.  Seriously.  Consider it.

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CatNipped - 28 Aug 2005 14:46 GMT
> > I just found out that my MIL is
> >coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the storm here.
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>
> Maybe you need to bug out yourself.  Seriously.  Consider it.

Yeah, I know.  Katrina is now a category 5 hurricane, with sustained winds
of 160MPH, gusts over 200MPH, and a storm surge of 18 - 25 feet.  This storm
could completely wipe out New Orleans and *destroy* their homes.

I feel like a huge sh*t for being so selfish worrying about my house and my
cats' peace-of-mind when my family's lives and homes are on the line.  Even
the pain and depression I have right now can't compare on the scale of
importance with that.

A lot of the pressure I'm feeling is because of the part of the country
we're from (family is *EVERYTHING* and no invitations are expected - it's
just drop in when you feel like for however long you feel like) and the
economic situation we grew up with (dirt poor - there is *NO* money for
hotels, kennels, etc. and family is *expected* to help out with no questions
asked and no excuses made).

And when I even try to broach the subject to DH I get, "OK I'll call my
mother and tell her to turn around and just go home!"  [Don't jump on him
yet - I know he doesn't really understand what I'm going through right now
and he is also under pressure to take in our family in their time of need
and *he* doesn't know what else to do.]  He has said he'll talk to her about
keeping the dogs either in the garage or in the yard, but he's not going to
be here when she gets here or most of the time she'll be here (he's working
today, Sunday, and with the job he has he'll get fired if he takes off any
from work).  I'm almost jealous about this.  Working from home, I can't even
get away from the situation for a few hours a day!

The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot, cook,
wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on my carpet (she
literally stands there and watches as her dogs pee on the carpet and moans
"Oh dear" and then looks at me to go clean it up).  She stands by and
watches as her dogs attack my cats without even trying to hold them back
(last time my cats had diarrhea for a week afterwards just from stress!)

Sorry, I know you guys are sick and tired of hearing me whine (and where is
my "I whimpered on RPCA t-shirt? ;>).  It's time for me to suck it up and
deal however I can!

Hugs,

CatNipped
sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 15:00 GMT
> The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot, cook,
> wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on my carpet (she
> literally stands there and watches as her dogs pee on the carpet and moans
> "Oh dear" and then looks at me to go clean it up).  She stands by and
> watches as her dogs attack my cats without even trying to hold them back
> (last time my cats had diarrhea for a week afterwards just from stress!)
snipped

If you can be a gracious hostess under those conditions, you are a
bigger woman than me.  CN, you may have to set firm boundaries for
self-preservation's sake. Your home is also your workplace. They are
going to have to respect that. In retrospect, if I had set boundaries
myself, I would not have ended up blowing my top when I reached the
saturation point.
Arrggh. Just thinking about it makes my stomache hurt. Purrs for you.

Sherry
Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Aug 2005 15:42 GMT
>> Maybe you need to bug out yourself.  Seriously.  Consider it.

This isn't a bad idea.  Take a few days at a seriously posh spa and
let your husband clean up after dog piss.  Who made you the dog piss
cleaner-upper?

> I feel like a huge sh*t for being so selfish worrying about my house
> and my cats' peace-of-mind when my family's lives and homes are on
> the line.  Even the pain and depression I have right now can't
> compare on the scale of importance with that.

Last time I saw a therapist, I said something about feeling
stupid/selfish for being depressed when people in other countries,
heck, even our country, have "real" problems, like shelter and food.
But she straightened me out about that.  Being depressed isn't
something you choose; it's something that happens to you, just like
your other illness that I am afraid to try to spell right now =P  And
comparing your suffering or needs to others' also doesn't make sense.
You are who you are; you feel what you feel; you need what you need.

> A lot of the pressure I'm feeling is because of the part of the
> country we're from (family is *EVERYTHING* and no invitations are
> expected - it's just drop in when you feel like for however long you
> feel like) and the economic situation we grew up with (dirt poor -
> there is *NO* money for hotels, kennels, etc. and family is
> *expected* to help out with no questions asked and no excuses made).

Ugh.  I'm a big fan of family, but I like borders, too.

> I'm almost jealous about this.  Working from home, I can't even get
> away from the situation for a few hours a day!

Maybe it's too late for this time, but with your new job, could you
afford a laptop w/wireless?  You could go to a coffee shop and work
from there.  I have a laptop now for my new business (too bad I've
been so overwhelmed with my "real" job that I haven't even finished
the website!)

> The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot,
> cook, wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on my
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> trying to hold them back (last time my cats had diarrhea for a week
> afterwards just from stress!)

You're depressed, I know, and you're in pain, I know, and that makes
it soooo difficult to stand up for yourself.  But still: the problem
isn't that your MIL expects all this; it's that you fulfill her
expectations, and your husband doesn't back you up.  I know you said
not to blame him, but if he knows how much you resent your MIL's
expectations and he doesn't speak up or at least help out, he IS part
of the problem.  It's hard to stand up to someone else's family.  It's
his job to defend you when you're not in a position to defend
yourself.  If being married isn't about being there for each other,
then what's the point?

Don't make excuses for him.  And don't do all the housework!  You have
a more than full time job; why are you doing everything in the
house???

> Sorry, I know you guys are sick and tired of hearing me whine (and
> where is my "I whimpered on RPCA t-shirt? ;>).  It's time for me to
> suck it up and deal however I can!

Oooh, I want one of those tees!

No.  It's not time to suck it up.  It's time to say "NO."  In your
stage voice, that reaches to the balcony.

"No, I won't clean up after your incontinent dogs."

"No, I won't let your dogs stay in the house.  They can stay in the
back yard, or they can stay in a shelter.  I'm sick and tired of
having my carpets ruined and having my cats spew diarrhea because
they're stressed out by the dogs you don't bother to discipline."

"No, husband, I won't clean up your mom's messes.  Either tell her to
clean them up, or do it yourself when you get home."

"I am f'ing depressed, don't you get it?  I can barely manage to get
out of bed or get my work done, I'm in serious pain, and now you want
me to wait on your mom hand and foot?  Abso-f'in-lutely NO WAY."

*hug* CN, I wish I could make this all go away for you, but I can't.
So unless putting up is easier than speaking up, you need to say NO.
Because you don't need this sh*t right now.

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MaryL - 28 Aug 2005 16:22 GMT
> The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot, cook,
> wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on my carpet
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>
> CatNipped

I suggest you use your computer skills to create a "Rules of the House"
list, similar to the lists that were posted in boarding houses in colonial
America.  You could add some cute graphic images, and post them in various
locations around your house.  However, the important thing is, that you must
hand a copy to everyone *as soon as they arrive* and make it clear that you
are serious about sticking to the list.  Let thm know that you realize the
difficult position they are in, but this is *your* home, and they must abide
by your rules.  Expect some negative reactions from all this, resentment,
and probably threats to go elsewhere -- but if you stick to your guns, it
will out better for all involved (and I doubt if they really will seek other
accomodations, but that would actually be to your advantage).  If you
provide the food, then you also need to include a fund that everyone pays
into as their share; it wouldn't hurt to include utilities, but I'm not sure
how far you would really want to carry this.

MaryL
badwilson - 29 Aug 2005 03:20 GMT
>> The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot,
>> cook, wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on
>> my carpet (she
>> literally stands there and watches as her dogs pee on the carpet and
>> moans "Oh dear" and then looks at me to go clean it up).  She
stands
>> by and watches as her dogs attack my cats without even trying to
>> hold them back (last time my cats had diarrhea for a week
afterwards
>> just from stress!)
>>
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> I suggest you use your computer skills to create a "Rules of the
> House" list, similar to the lists that were posted in boarding
houses
> in colonial America.  You could add some cute graphic images, and
> post them in various locations around your house.  However, the
> important thing is, that you must hand a copy to everyone *as soon
as
> they arrive* and make it clear that you are serious about sticking
to
> the list.  Let thm know that you realize the difficult position they
> are in, but this is *your* home, and they must abide by your rules.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> seek other accomodations, but that would actually be to your
> advantage).  If you provide the food, then you also need to include
a
> fund that everyone pays into as their share; it wouldn't hurt to
> include utilities, but I'm not sure how far you would really want to
> carry this.
>
> MaryL

This is a great idea.  You could make up some sort of book of rules,
like in that show "Wife Swap".  In it, you could outline your health
circumstances and the fact that you now work from home and need to be
able to get your work done undisturbed.  And you could tell about what
your cats went through after the last visit.  So you could say you
expect the dogs to be outside or wherever and for her to clean up
after herself and her pets.  You should also demand money to chip in
for food and bills, etc.  And if she can't or won't clean up, then get
extra money and hire a cleaning service like Molly Maid every few of
days.
--
Britta
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Pamela  Shirk - 28 Aug 2005 22:16 GMT
> The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot, cook,
> wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on my carpet
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> my "I whimpered on RPCA t-shirt? ;>).  It's time for me to suck it up and
> deal however I can!

Ok, I'm working on the RPCA Whimpered shirt.  Or at least thinking about it.

First of all, YOU have a job.  Actually you have several jobs, and one of
them is not waitress for lame MILs.  I think I'd be heading into the office
if I had to deal with this.  Put a BIG sign up that reads NO D*GS allowed
indoors, and stick to it, no matter how much the old bat whimpers and moans.
No matter how much DH whimpers and moans.

You're a big girl, but so are MIL and SIL, and I'm sure they have to do
housekeeping and cooking back at their houses.  Please make sure that you do
what YOU have to.  You are the kitty servant here and you have to do what is
right for your family, and that, in this case, means THE CATS.

Good luck, I know where you're coming from, as family is one of those
stressful must deal with things here as well.  We'll ask the cats to purr
that Katrina, or any other hurricane doesn't bring down the MIL and SIL's
houses.

Pam S.
polonca12000 - 28 Aug 2005 22:19 GMT
CN, even in a hotel nobody would do for MIL what you do for her (and you
have to pay to stay at a hotel). So please stop, listen to yourself and try
to set some boundaries. I know this is really hard, but you have to do
something.
Please take care of yourself, CN, and get friends to support you when you
start setting boundaries,
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> The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot, cook,
> wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on my carpet (she
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>
> CatNipped
Pamela  Shirk - 28 Aug 2005 22:26 GMT
> The problem is that my MIL expects me to wait on her hand and foot, cook,
> wash dishes, wash her clothes, clean up after her dogs pee on my carpet
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> watches as her dogs attack my cats without even trying to hold them back
> (last time my cats had diarrhea for a week afterwards just from stress!)

A thought I had, ok this is sneaky, and could cause problems, but you could
tell them that the cats have ringworm or some other highly contagious
disease that the d-things could catch from them, and use that as an excuse
to keep them out of the house.  Barring that, you could prominently post the
phone number for Merry Maids in whatever room(s) you're having the in-laws
stay in and make sure that MIL and SIL know to pay for them their selves.

Pam S. who REALLY needs to get that whimpering shirt made up.
Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Aug 2005 15:25 GMT
> Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my
> MIL is coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the
> storm here.  Were you in the group last year at about this time when
> I described what that was like (hint, I was cleaning up dog p*ss for
> weeks afterwards)???  Gawd help me, I can't take it again right now
> - I'm too depressed and I'm in too much pain to deal.

I don't recall the story last year ... wait, maybe it's a vague
memory.  But ugh =/  I also haven't been able to keep up with the
group, so I don't know what storm they're riding out.

Victor's idea of keeping the dogs in the back yard sounds good.  You
guys don't have any predators nearby, right?

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CatNipped - 28 Aug 2005 16:02 GMT
> > Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my
> > MIL is coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the
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> Victor's idea of keeping the dogs in the back yard sounds good.  You
> guys don't have any predators nearby, right?

Katrina is now a category 5 hurricane, with sustained winds of 160MPH, gusts
over 200MPH, and a storm surge of 18 - 25 feet.  It's heading for New
Orleans like New Orleans has a bullseye painted onThis storm could
completely wipe out New Orleans and *destroy* their homes.

My MIL is the house-guest-from-hell.  She is avery sweet and kind hearted
and loving woman, but her home is *filthy* and she doesn't even know that
she *should* clean much less do it.  Her three dogs are completely wild and
untrained, bark constantly, pee all over my house, attack my cats.  MIL
doesn't clean her own house, so she doesn't even know enough to offer to
help clean up after herself and her dogs when she's in my house - so I end
up doing her laundry and cooking and *everything* and ohmygawd, I just can't
deal with this right now!!!!!!

Hugs,

CatNipped
Helen Miles - 28 Aug 2005 16:40 GMT
now.  I just found out that my MIL is
> coming with her three dogs and cat and my SIL to ride out the storm here.
> Were you in the group last year at about this time when I described what
> that was like (hint, I was cleaning up dog p*ss for weeks afterwards)???
> Gawd help me, I can't take it again right now - I'm too depressed and I'm in
> too much pain to deal.///

Here's what you do. Go out and buy a child stair gate (or two). Put it
across the kitchen and the bottom of the stairs. Take a bar out of the
one at the bottom of the stairs so that the cats can get through it but
the dogs can't. *Then* move all the cats feed bowls and litter pans
upstairs away from the dogs. Tell the MIL that the dogs DO NOT under any
circumstances go upstairs period. (Say Bandit is sick or on meds or
something).

That way at least *your* cats can get away from the intruders.

Then, tell your MIL that the dogs are to be confined to the kitchen
because they mess everywhere and you are not prepared to clear up after
her hellions.

Good luck and hugs.

Helen M
Susan M - 28 Aug 2005 18:59 GMT
I'm sorry that they're headed your way.  It's obviously an untenable
situation so I hope that you can find a way to deal with it right from the
beginning.  It's easier to set limits at the outset than try to recover them
over time.  I've also found that, once people get over the initial shock of
boundary setting, they tend to be just fine with it and then life is ever so
much better - very marginal discomfort for the other people and peacefulness
for you.   If you try to suck it up, your body and mind will make sure that
you still get the message and you risk a messy blowout and more physical
symptoms.  Knowing that they risk losing their homes does in no way erase
the fact that you find this stressful - you can't ignore that.

Can you blame it on a third party?  Talk about the big deadline at your new
job and the fact that your job is out of your home?  Talk about
recommendations from the vet about stress to your cats and mention all kinds
of terrible things that the vet warned about for the cats.  "It's really
about the cats, dear MIL, the *vet* said that they can't take the stress".
She has to be aware that you've got a new job that's very important to you.

What I hate about situations like you're in is that its totally up to you to
be strong and keep the lines in the sand.  People will test you - just one
interruption here, just one visit with the dog inside there.  You have to be
so strong and then you feel as if you're rude if you stand up for yourself
against other people's inconsideration!  Your husband has to be on side too.
He has to support your job and your cats.

Good luck Lori - I'm rooting for you.

Susan M
Otis and Chester

"CatNipped" <lcrews@houston.rr.com> wrote in message >
> Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my MIL
> is
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> in
> too much pain to deal.
Pamela  Shirk - 28 Aug 2005 22:05 GMT
> Sorry, I am feeling very b*tchy right now.  I just found out that my MIL
> is
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Hugs,

Girl, you gotta either uninvite them, or lay down the law (or make poor
hubby do it) ASAP.  The d*gs stay outside, the cat is confined to a small
area of your house, and your cats have ownership.  She does all her own
work, including cleaning up after the d*gs, and cat.  The SIL better behave
herself or find herself living outside with the d*gs or in the room with
MIL's cat.  We're here for you and will send them our own brands of kitty
litter after they get back home, if they don't behave their sorry little
arses this time.

Pam S. feeling militant for Lori and her DH's sake
W. Leong - 28 Aug 2005 01:20 GMT
>> > I have a new one.
>> >
[quoted text clipped - 47 lines]
>
> CatNipped

How about 'unbelievable' and 'amazing'? Seems like they are the favourite
words of a lot of  interviewees.

Winnie
Cheryl Perkins - 28 Aug 2005 01:40 GMT
> "You know", "like", "totally", "I mean", "actually" are essential
> communication tools for American's under 30 - I don't think they could
> convey a thought without those words.  It drives me up a wall to listen to
> someone whose every 3rd word is "filler"!  If I were an English teacher I'd
> fail every kid in class who couldn't speak without using those
> words/phrases.

Not only Americans, and not only under-30s. My high school English teacher
complained loudly and often about our over-use of 'you know', and I'm well
over 30. It's a constant problem of people who are nervous or sloppy with
their speech.

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EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 28 Aug 2005 01:06 GMT
>>I have a new one.
>>
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> chartruese theme, following the focal point which we found in the
> dumpster behind the studio? And I know it will be totally awesome?

In my youth, I briefly dated a guy from Georgia who ended
all his sentences with a question mark - I just assumed it
must be a regional trait.
W. Leong - 28 Aug 2005 02:46 GMT
>>>I have a new one.
>>>
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> sentences with a question mark - I just assumed it must be a regional
> trait.

When I was a student in U.S., my friends teased me on ending a
lot of sentences with 'eh?'. Didn't realize I picked up a Canadian
thing after only a few years in Canada.

Winnie
Trish - 28 Aug 2005 03:31 GMT
> >>>I have a new one.
> >>>
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Winnie

The "eh?" is not a "Canadian" thing, it's basically found in Ontario.
Kreisleriana - 28 Aug 2005 04:26 GMT
>> I have a new one.
>>
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>
>Sherry

Uh oh, if you don't like that, don't go to Australia?  The world
capital of Terminal Rising Tones? ;)

Theresa
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sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 04:32 GMT
> Uh oh, if you don't like that, don't go to Australia?  The world
> capital of Terminal Rising Tones? ;)
>
> Theresa

Well, yeah, but it's cool when the Australians do it. Americans just
sound stupid.
Any Australian is invited to call me, day or night, and read me the
phone book or something.

Sherry
Kreisleriana - 28 Aug 2005 07:29 GMT
>> Uh oh, if you don't like that, don't go to Australia?  The world
>> capital of Terminal Rising Tones? ;)
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>
>Sherry

LOL.  That's how I used to feel.   After my split, I missed the sound
of an Aussie voice, so the first guy I dated was another Aussie. :P

Dumb thing to do, BTW. ;)

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Gabey8 - 28 Aug 2005 08:34 GMT
[[>Well, yeah, but it's cool when the Australians do it. Americans just
>sound stupid.
>Any Australian is invited to call me, day or night, and read me the
>phone book or something.
>
>Sherry

LOL.  That's how I used to feel.   After my split, I missed the sound
of an Aussie voice, so the first guy I dated was another Aussie. :P

Dumb thing to do, BTW. ;) ]]

LOL -- if you have Animal Planet, it might be safer to just watch some
Croc Hunter episodes. Then you get to listen to an Aussie accent, and as
an added bonus, said accent is talking about animals with enthusiasm. This
is never a bad thing. :o)

Donna, Captain, and Stanley
jmcquown - 28 Aug 2005 09:50 GMT
> [[>Well, yeah, but it's cool when the Australians do it. Americans
> just
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> Donna, Captain, and Stanley

Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there is no
such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever eaten there one
time, when John and I got tired of driving around trying to find a place to
eat.  It was there or nowhere.  Not bad, mind you, but nothing to rave
about, either.  And no, we didn't have a bloomin' onion.

Jill
Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Aug 2005 15:21 GMT
> Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
> is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
> eaten there one time, when John and I got tired of driving around
> trying to find a place to eat.  It was there or nowhere.  Not bad,
> mind you, but nothing to rave about, either.  And no, we didn't have
> a bloomin' onion.

I've also heard that Australians in general think Foster's beer is
awful ... any confirmation from our Aussies?

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Kreisleriana - 28 Aug 2005 15:45 GMT
>> Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
>> is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>I've also heard that Australians in general think Foster's beer is
>awful ... any confirmation from our Aussies?

Second hand from the ex of one.  He drank Vics Bitter himself. :P

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Howard C. Berkowitz - 28 Aug 2005 15:54 GMT
> > Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
> > is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> I've also heard that Australians in general think Foster's beer is
> awful ... any confirmation from our Aussies?

It has been suggested that beer is the national soup of Australia. I
simply don't know the correct flavor.
Kreisleriana - 28 Aug 2005 16:10 GMT
>> > Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
>> > is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>It has been suggested that beer is the national soup of Australia. I
>simply don't know the correct flavor.

Studies show that Aussies are drinking more wine these days.   Ex
introduced me to Aussie wine many years ago-- one of good things I
took away from relationship. ;)

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jmcquown - 28 Aug 2005 18:50 GMT
>>>> Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
>>>> is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
> My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com

I love Lindeman's Australian chardonnay :)  Not expensive, either.

Jill
Tish Silberbauer - 29 Aug 2005 01:26 GMT
>> Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
>> is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>I've also heard that Australians in general think Foster's beer is
>awful ... any confirmation from our Aussies?

No-one I know drinks it - last time I had a Fosters was more than 20
years ago and it was foul then, so I haven't bothered to try it since.
DH now brews his own beer, which is really tasty, so I have become
very spoilt.  There are no Outback Steakhouses in Australia either.  

Tish - Sydney, Australia
Kreisleriana - 29 Aug 2005 01:38 GMT
>>> Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
>>> is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
>Tish - Sydney, Australia

Whenever people asked my ex about Australian beer, he cheerfully said
"Oh, we send you the crap, and keep the good stuff."  ;)

Theresa
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Magic Mood Jeep© - 29 Aug 2005 03:04 GMT
>>>> Or just listen to Outback Steakhouse commercials ;)  I'm told there
>>>> is no such thing as a bloomin' onion in Australia.  I've only ever
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> Whenever people asked my ex about Australian beer, he cheerfully said
> "Oh, we send you the crap, and keep the good stuff."  ;)

Ever heard those commercials "Foster's... Australian for beer"???  Maybe
they messed up the translation and it should really be
"Foster's...Austrailian for p!$$"  ROFL
Victor Martinez - 29 Aug 2005 03:18 GMT
> Whenever people asked my ex about Australian beer, he cheerfully said
> "Oh, we send you the crap, and keep the good stuff."  ;)

Same with mexican beer. Until recently, it was impossible to find any
good mexican beers in the US, all they sold was Corona and Dos Equis,
both of which are crap. Mexican Bud if you will. Gimme Indio and Bohemia
any day!

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hopitus - 30 Aug 2005 04:51 GMT
I can't drink, Victor, but since we landed in CO I've been able to enjoy the
Mexican soft drinks they sell cheap @
Big Lots here. They sell other Mexican goodies (cookies, candy, fruit joices
in 2-liter paper cartons (one of my faves is brand 'del Valle" mango
nectar.) There is a large Hispanic presence here and I'm sure enjoying it!
Who knew MileHigh wasn't all cowboys?

>> Whenever people asked my ex about Australian beer, he cheerfully said
>> "Oh, we send you the crap, and keep the good stuff."  ;)
>
> Same with mexican beer. Until recently, it was impossible to find any good
> mexican beers in the US, all they sold was Corona and Dos Equis, both of
> which are crap. Mexican Bud if you will. Gimme Indio and Bohemia any day!
Monique Y. Mudama - 30 Aug 2005 06:32 GMT
> I can't drink, Victor, but since we landed in CO I've been able to
> enjoy the Mexican soft drinks they sell cheap @ Big Lots here. They
> sell other Mexican goodies (cookies, candy, fruit joices in 2-liter
> paper cartons (one of my faves is brand 'del Valle" mango nectar.)
> There is a large Hispanic presence here and I'm sure enjoying it!
> Who knew MileHigh wasn't all cowboys?

What weirds me out here is the lack of black people (compared to the
DC metro area).

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Jo Firey - 30 Aug 2005 07:37 GMT
>> I can't drink, Victor, but since we landed in CO I've been able to
>> enjoy the Mexican soft drinks they sell cheap @ Big Lots here. They
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> What weirds me out here is the lack of black people (compared to the
> DC metro area).

My Mom thought it was funny when I complained when we moved to Anchorage in
1968.  Virtually no blacks, jews, asians, hispanics, or anything else that
gives vilality to a neighborhood.  I missed my Italian neighbors who yelled
across the back fences at their kids.  I missed the color and the noise and
the smell of good food.  Felt like I was sentenced to three years without a
deli.,

Jo
Jo Firey - 30 Aug 2005 07:33 GMT
>I can't drink, Victor, but since we landed in CO I've been able to enjoy
>the Mexican soft drinks they sell cheap @
> Big Lots here. They sell other Mexican goodies (cookies, candy, fruit
> joices in 2-liter paper cartons (one of my faves is brand 'del Valle"
> mango nectar.) There is a large Hispanic presence here and I'm sure
> enjoying it! Who knew MileHigh wasn't all cowboys?

That was a big eyeopener for me when we went thru Colorado 36 years ago.
I'd never tasted any food or derivation of mexican food in my life.  After
Denver, Albequrqe, Tuscon, Phoenix LA and Central California I was hooked
for life.  I've also thoroughly enjoyed visits to Baha California and a
friend who did his best to cook Tex Mex in Anchorage years ago.  When we
landed in Yuba City there were two families that ran very good Mexican
restaurants.  We know one family well.  And know some of the other family
too.

Then in the last few years several very good Taquerias have opened.  Far
better than some small ones that have come and gone over time.

Life is a banquet.

Jo

>>> Whenever people asked my ex about Australian beer, he cheerfully said
>>> "Oh, we send you the crap, and keep the good stuff."  ;)
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>> both of which are crap. Mexican Bud if you will. Gimme Indio and Bohemia
>> any day!
Kreisleriana - 28 Aug 2005 15:44 GMT
>> [[>Well, yeah, but it's cool when the Australians do it. Americans
>> just
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>eat.  It was there or nowhere.  Not bad, mind you, but nothing to rave
>about, either.  And no, we didn't have a bloomin' onion.

That's a pretty fake-sounding accent, too. :P

Theresa
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badwilson - 28 Aug 2005 16:18 GMT
>> [[>Well, yeah, but it's cool when the Australians do it. Americans
>> just
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>
> Jill

Bloomin' onion, LOL!  The only place I've ever had that was in
Bangkok!  And not at the Outback Steakhouse either.
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Kreisleriana - 28 Aug 2005 15:43 GMT
>[[>Well, yeah, but it's cool when the Australians do it. Americans just
>>sound stupid.
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
>Donna, Captain, and Stanley

Oh no, not that guy!! I can't stand him-- and neither can most of the
Aussies I know.  ;)  Did you ever notice his thighs?  I can't believe
a croc hasn't already taken a big juicy chunk out of them! ;)

Theresa
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Pamela  Shirk - 28 Aug 2005 22:31 GMT
>>[[>Well, yeah, but it's cool when the Australians do it. Americans just
>>>sound stupid.
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> Aussies I know.  ;)  Did you ever notice his thighs?  I can't believe
> a croc hasn't already taken a big juicy chunk out of them! ;)

Professional courtesy?

Pam S. who wants to point out that this is also the reason that lawyers are
safe swimming in the ocean <BG>
wafflycat - 30 Aug 2005 18:14 GMT
> Oh no, not that guy!! I can't stand him-- and neither can most of the
> Aussies I know.  ;)  Did you ever notice his thighs?  I can't believe
> a croc hasn't already taken a big juicy chunk out of them! ;)

Ah yes, that Irwin chappie: "The Croc Botherer" as Nathan refers to him ;-)

Cheers, helen s

> Theresa
> Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
> My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com 
Magic Mood Jeep© - 30 Aug 2005 20:42 GMT
>> Oh no, not that guy!! I can't stand him-- and neither can most of the
>> Aussies I know.  ;)  Did you ever notice his thighs?  I can't believe
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> him ;-)
> Cheers, helen s

I still giggle when I think of South Park's version of him "I'm gonna stick
my thumb up this croc's bum... By Crikey - I've really pissed 'im of now!"
or something to that effect... :D
John F. Eldredge - 31 Aug 2005 01:59 GMT
>>> Oh no, not that guy!! I can't stand him-- and neither can most of the
>>> Aussies I know.  ;)  Did you ever notice his thighs?  I can't believe
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>my thumb up this croc's bum... By Crikey - I've really pissed 'im of now!"
>or something to that effect... :D

I liked the advertisement that Steve Irwin made for the Federal
Express package-delivery service, where he is handling a poisonous
snake, gets bitten, and discovers too late that his assistant had used
some other package delivery service, and thus doesn't have the
antivenom on hand.  Irwin says "Crikey!", and falls over.

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SuzQ - 01 Sep 2005 12:08 GMT


> Oh no, not that guy!! I can't stand him-- and neither can most of the
> Aussies I know.  ;)  Did you ever notice his thighs?  I can't believe
> a croc hasn't already taken a big juicy chunk out of them! ;)

Ah yes, that Irwin chappie: "The Croc Botherer" as Nathan refers to him
;-)

Cheers, helen s

===========================================
Nathan is very intelligent. I suspect you know that already.
Suz
Kreisleriana - 01 Sep 2005 18:19 GMT
>> Oh no, not that guy!! I can't stand him-- and neither can most of the
>> Aussies I know.  ;)  Did you ever notice his thighs?  I can't believe
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
>Cheers, helen s

BWAHAHAHAHAHA!  

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Howard C. Berkowitz - 28 Aug 2005 15:35 GMT
> > Uh oh, if you don't like that, don't go to Australia?  The world
> > capital of Terminal Rising Tones? ;)
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Sherry

Citizens of any nation that has platypuses has to have a flexible
approach to reality.
Kreisleriana - 28 Aug 2005 15:50 GMT
>> > Uh oh, if you don't like that, don't go to Australia?  The world
>> > capital of Terminal Rising Tones? ;)
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>Citizens of any nation that has platypuses has to have a flexible
>approach to reality.

I've only seen one, myself. :(

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EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 28 Aug 2005 01:03 GMT
> I have a new one.
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> This phenomenon is totally awesome.

I think it's an outgrowth of the schools no longer bothering
to teach such esoteric items as "vocabulary building" in
English classes.  Spelling seems to have fallen by the
wayside, too - I saw a commercial the other day involving a
gigantic cob of corn, bearing a sign calling it "amazeing".
 It occurred to me afterward that perhaps it was intended
as a play on words, but in that case, it would have been
spelled "a-MAIZE-ing"
Takayuki - 29 Aug 2005 04:03 GMT
>I think it's an outgrowth of the schools no longer bothering
>to teach such esoteric items as "vocabulary building" in
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>as a play on words, but in that case, it would have been
>spelled "a-MAIZE-ing"

Oh, that's pretty neat, finding a misspelling in a misspelling. :)
Enfilade - 28 Aug 2005 01:27 GMT
> This phenomenon is totally awesome.

I love the word awesome, but I know a few other descriptors too, like
radical and gnarly.

--Fil
sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 01:46 GMT
> > This phenomenon is totally awesome.
>
> I love the word awesome, but I know a few other descriptors too, like
> radical and gnarly.
>
> --Fil

I don't like gnarly. It makes me think of an old witch's hands. (a bad
witch).

Sherry
Enfilade - 28 Aug 2005 02:00 GMT
> > I love the word awesome, but I know a few other descriptors too, like
> > radical and gnarly.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> I don't like gnarly. It makes me think of an old witch's hands. (a bad
> witch).

Someday I will be an old witch; right now I'm a 20-something Wiccan O:)

I guess I will be "gnarly" in my old age!!

--Fil
hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 02:40 GMT
>> > I love the word awesome, but I know a few other descriptors too, like
>> > radical and gnarly.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> --Fil
I'm not gnarly, neither nervous nor sloppy. Not a Wiccan either, though the
Deadly Duo could qualify as "familiars",
I think. Let's all beware of casual finger-pointing (when TSA does it they
call it "profiling")....lest thee be pointed @ for "whatever" (hee hee:
another pop
cult saying of the day).......LOL.
sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 04:43 GMT
> I'm not gnarly, neither nervous nor sloppy. Not a Wiccan either, though the
> Deadly Duo could qualify as "familiars",
> I think. Let's all beware of casual finger-pointing (when TSA does it they
> call it "profiling")....lest thee be pointed @ for "whatever" (hee hee:
> another pop
> cult saying of the day).......LOL.

You're eckshully pretty hip, Hop. In the old days I used to to think
you were a young male poster. You write young.
I am not hip. DH is less hip than me, if that is at all possible.
Remember our fishing trip. We decided to stop on the way and buy some
kind of beach-suitable shoes. He asked the sales clerk for "thongs". I
kid you not.

Sherry
sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 04:35 GMT
> > I don't like gnarly. It makes me think of an old witch's hands. (a bad
> > witch).
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> --Fil

ROFL!! That's why I added "a bad witch". You're not a bad witch, and
I'm sure "gnarly" would never describe you!

Sherry
hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 05:19 GMT
ROFL - my mood improved 99% as the Broncos have got revenge on the Indy
Colts tonight, 37-24! (regretfully,
Magic Mood Jeep, in Colts' state!) Preseason, but our orange & blue were in
top form tonight, in spite of Mr. P.
Manning playing his usual excelent QB game. Something to be glad about
there.....my relatives/friends who have functioning phones in s.FL have been
bewailing their various states of post-Katrina hell down there: food is
beyond spoiled, in short supply now, no ice (free ice being distributed here
& there) no power, those w/gas stoves have no gas (all lines off for
safety's sake) and in
spite of low damage rates to homes, lotsa messes to clean up (if you weren't
tired & hungry). I'll not turn a deaf ear now to those I love who listened
to *me* griping & moaning all long winter here re the unpleasant weather I
was not used to at *all*! Plus cleaning up snow.....
As for your DH, Sherry......"thongs" where I come from
are little strippy swimsuit bottoms that expose both butt-cheeks....BUT in
many parts of our country they do indeed mean those cheap floppy beach
shoes! I've heard that term for the shoes before, but not in s.FL. Probably
parts of country where they are no more used to this type swimsuit as a
common sight than I was used to CO winters, LOL. And *thank you* for calling
me a HipHop,
Sherry. Am I now DiddyHop? Or 50centHop? R.I.P., ODB.......LOL....you *do*
know who ODB was, right?

>> > I don't like gnarly. It makes me think of an old witch's hands. (a bad
>> > witch).
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>
> Sherry
sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 05:26 GMT
for calling
> me a HipHop,
> Sherry. Am I now DiddyHop? Or 50centHop? R.I.P., ODB.......LOL....you *do*
> know who ODB was, right?

ROFL! No! I know who 2LiveCrew is, though. Somewhere on I-35 lies a
casette tape that I ejected from the tape player, and flung out the car
window.
Told you I was un-hip. Just ask the eight-grade girls who wailed all
the way to school from the back seat.

Sherry
hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 05:39 GMT
That's hilarious; yes, very un-hip.
Type in "Ol' Dirty Bastard" on your browser & see sad
story of ODB's leaving for the RB...some say he got ahold of some bad drugs
here in Denver the day before to cause his fatal heart attack in NYC just
before a WuTang]Clan (his group) concert there. Very sad.

> for calling
>> me a HipHop,
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> Sherry
Magic Mood Jeep© - 28 Aug 2005 13:09 GMT
> ROFL - my mood improved 99% as the Broncos have got revenge on the
> Indy Colts tonight, 37-24! (regretfully,
> Magic Mood Jeep, in Colts' state!) Preseason, but our orange & blue
> were in top form tonight, in spite of Mr. P.
> Manning playing his usual excelent QB game. Something to be glad about

No Prob.  I'm pretty pissed at the colts right now (send 'em back to
Baltimore, I say... oh, wait - Baltimore has another team now, don't they?).
</rant>  See, they wanted a new stadium (and attached convention center) -
so they threatened to leave town if they didn't get one, so of course
Indianapolis & the surrounding area are now swallowing a 1% restaurant tax
(an additional tax on anything bought at restaurants on top of the 6% sales
tax) in order to buy them a new stadium.  Why can't the millionaire owners &
players buy their own damn stadium???  Why do they even need a "bigger
better" stadium when they don't even fill the one they have (attendance is
poor, what with all the TV coverage - usually blacked out on local TV, but
with the availability of Satellite TV, more people stay home & invite
friends over to watch the game than they do attend, mess with the hassle of
parking, deal with the drunks around you.... get the drift?)?  Why did the
idjits in all but one of the counties surrounding Indianapolis approve of
this restaurant tax in the first place?????  Fortunately, that's the county
between Us & Indianapolis.  And now *our* county is trying to decide whether
or not to impose it's own restaurant tax in order to enlarge *our*
convention center - why?!?!?!?!  It's not like the one we have is ever used
for anything other than corporate Xmas parties anyway!  If that ever passes,
DH & I will not eat in restaurants in this county any more.... </endrant>

> there.....my relatives/friends who have functioning phones in s.FL
> have been bewailing their various states of post-Katrina hell down
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>> Sherry
Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Aug 2005 15:21 GMT
> Sherry. Am I now DiddyHop? Or 50centHop? R.I.P., ODB.......LOL....you *do*
> know who ODB was, right?

Have you seen that car commercial with snoop golfing, and he's using
all the 'fo shizzle' terms?  I really don't get that.

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hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 19:40 GMT
I understand about half of what Snoop Dog says in that commercial....it's
all Chrysler vehicle hype! @ the end, just before Snoop tees off, he says,
"If the car is mo' fly...you must buy". Iococca (spelling?) brightens, what
he's just heard (translated) is what his hype saying is:
if you can find a better car....buy it!
Note: to MMJeep: your cap city is where Miami was a long time ago AFA the
stadium taxations...so hungry for an NFL team in your state the natives sold
you out w/taxes. It's happened, and taxes ain't never gonna go down again.
So enjoy your team's having - in IMHO and
many others - the #2 QB in USA! Colts will, as usual, place high in playoffs
this season. Of course you realize that #1 is Brady, but Jake the Snake is
*way* down on the list, sadly. Bronc's defense is the reason we get to
playoffs year after year, even as wild-card status. Big hug to Mike
Anderson......

>> Sherry. Am I now DiddyHop? Or 50centHop? R.I.P., ODB.......LOL....you
>> *do*
>> know who ODB was, right?
>
> Have you seen that car commercial with snoop golfing, and he's using
> all the 'fo shizzle' terms?  I really don't get that.
Victor Martinez - 28 Aug 2005 20:06 GMT
> I understand about half of what Snoop Dog says in that commercial....it's

That's about twice as much as I undersand... that commercial needs
subtitles!!! :)

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hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 20:22 GMT
Actually (sorry, 'Nipped), I'm a Snoop fan though not of his ethnicity. I'd
guess this commercial is targeted to fans of his, who might not even know
who the white-haired old dude he's teeing for is, nor his history in auto
world! Snoop also mentions trucks while @ wheel of golf-cart
so maybe it's mainly a commercial for trucks, I dunno.
I for one am glad to see Snoop as a spokesman instead of some vacuum-brain
bimbo such as our current pop divas, who are hawking stuff on tv they can't
even spell.

>> I understand about half of what Snoop Dog says in that commercial....it's
>
> That's about twice as much as I undersand... that commercial needs
> subtitles!!! :)
sriddles@aol.com - 28 Aug 2005 22:00 GMT
> Actually (sorry, 'Nipped), I'm a Snoop fan though not of his ethnicity. I'd
> guess this commercial is targeted to fans of his, who might not even know
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> bimbo such as our current pop divas, who are hawking stuff on tv they can't
> even spell.

I don't think anybody ever topped Madonna for PR bimbo-ness. Not that
she's a bimbo in the true sense; I imagine she is a very shrewd
businesswoman. BUT she led the pack in the "Rock the Vote" commercials
for MTV, urging young people to vote. She wasn't even registered
herself.

Sherry
Magic Mood Jeep© - 28 Aug 2005 22:54 GMT
>> I understand about half of what Snoop Dog says in that
>> commercial....it's
>
> That's about twice as much as I undersand... that commercial needs
> subtitles!!! :)

I don't think they wanted people to understand the languange, as they wanted
people to understand that old & new *can* go together.  Ever watch an old
episode of "Married, with children"?  What kind of car did Al Bundy own (and
never really drove because it was a pile of junk)?  a *Dodge*.  for a period
there, Dodge cars/trucks = cr@p... that was after Lee Iacocca left.  Now
that he's "back", things are better again.

Also - did you know that Lee was the original designer of the Ford Mustang?
He took the idea to his bosses at Chrysler, and they more or less booed him
out of the room, so he took it to Ford.  What was it???  A success!!!!
Years later, he comes back and takes over Chrysler.
hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 23:21 GMT
That is exactly what I meant by "his history in auto world!
Old white-haired dude is a "big cheese" there! He's aged pretty well,
considering what tv cams can do to one's appearance.

>>> I understand about half of what Snoop Dog says in that
>>> commercial....it's
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> booed him out of the room, so he took it to Ford.  What was it???  A
> success!!!! Years later, he comes back and takes over Chrysler.
Pamela  Shirk - 28 Aug 2005 22:38 GMT
>> Sherry. Am I now DiddyHop? Or 50centHop? R.I.P., ODB.......LOL....you
>> *do*
>> know who ODB was, right?
>
> Have you seen that car commercial with snoop golfing, and he's using
> all the 'fo shizzle' terms?  I really don't get that.

I really hate all those Chrysler commercials, especially that one.  If I
were looking for a car or truck right now, a Chrysler would be about the
LAST thing I'd buy.

Pam S. who finds car commercials disgusting and the Chrysler commercials
beyond hateful
hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 01:49 GMT
>> This phenomenon is totally awesome.
>
> I love the word awesome, but I know a few other descriptors too, like
> radical and gnarly.
Kewl....did you, as I, live in the land of the laid-back for awhile? I never
recovered from a bad case of Valley-speak/surfer lingo.
mlbriggs - 28 Aug 2005 01:29 GMT
> I have a new one.
>
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>
> CatNipped

And my pet peeve:  stupid commercials    Why do advertisers think that
stupidity will sell their product?  MLB

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hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 06:33 GMT
>> I have a new one.
>>
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>have no interest/motivation at all in what Viagra is used to treat get
>multiple repeated spam emails re its virtues!
Even though it'll be bigtime appealed in court by the co's attornies, I
loved the multimillion $ award recently to widow of Vioxx user.....one small
step for mankind's victims of drug companies' greed for all to see. Jury was
not swayed by corp. attornies long technical explanations
re causes of victim's demise....they were an unsophisticated bunch who
concluded....he's dead, period.
> 1
Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Aug 2005 15:20 GMT
> Even though it'll be bigtime appealed in court by the co's
> attornies, I loved the multimillion $ award recently to widow of
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> demise....they were an unsophisticated bunch who concluded....he's
> dead, period.

But aren't the chances of Vioxx actually causing fatal complications
almost nil?  I haven't had much reason to keep up with this stuff, but
that's been my impression.

Any medicine has a chance of being a problem.  A friend of mine can't
take birth control pills because her body doesn't process it properly
-- she almost had kidney failure within a day.  This is a drug that
bazillions of women take every day.

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hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 19:48 GMT
Your friend is unfortunately *in the NIL*,Monique. So was, argueably, the
Vioxx dead dude. None of this statistic crap matters a rat's a** unless one
is "in the NIL"
- your word for chances of death (almost nil) due to one or another med, Rx
or not.
I am allergic to iodides (mainly the reason contrast exams show docs what's
up in radiology procedures)...to a degree, not life-threatening status.
Now: someday I will have angina again due to a blocked coronary artery or
tributary thereof: Iodide allergy can kill you, very quickly, right on the
exam table. Do you think I will hesitate to have a cardiac cath because of
my allergy to iodides, and just wait to see if my heart will dig in its
heels (LOL) and bug out like it did once before? Right.

>> Even though it'll be bigtime appealed in court by the co's
>> attornies, I loved the multimillion $ award recently to widow of
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> -- she almost had kidney failure within a day.  This is a drug that
> bazillions of women take every day.
Howard C. Berkowitz - 28 Aug 2005 23:49 GMT
> Your friend is unfortunately *in the NIL*,Monique. So was, argueably, the
> Vioxx dead dude. None of this statistic crap matters a rat's a** unless
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> my allergy to iodides, and just wait to see if my heart will dig in its
> heels (LOL) and bug out like it did once before? Right.

There may be good news, in that cardiac MRI is constantly improving as a
viable alternative to angiography.

> >> Even though it'll be bigtime appealed in court by the co's
> >> attornies, I loved the multimillion $ award recently to widow of
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> > -- she almost had kidney failure within a day.  This is a drug that
> > bazillions of women take every day.
hopitus - 28 Aug 2005 23:58 GMT
Wow! That IS good news for me, Howard...I've had one MRI (brain) -
unpleasant but I considered it like a mind-invading noisy video game sound,
LOL, and much more fun than either of my cardiac caths later. Tell me more
when you learn more. I barely understand MRI principles but many of my rad
pals crossed over to that mode; urging me to do so as well. My reply to them
was if I look like this running around in an ER what would I look like
sitting on my a.s twirling a ball on a console all shift? LOL.

>> Your friend is unfortunately *in the NIL*,Monique. So was, argueably, the
>> Vioxx dead dude. None of this statistic crap matters a rat's a** unless
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>> > -- she almost had kidney failure within a day.  This is a drug that
>> > bazillions of women take every day.
Pamela  Shirk - 28 Aug 2005 22:42 GMT
> But aren't the chances of Vioxx actually causing fatal complications
> almost nil?  I haven't had much reason to keep up with this stuff, but
> that's been my impression.

I was given Vioxx for a swollen arm and it put me into a state of heart
failure.  Had I not realized what was happening and threw away the pills
even before seeing the doctor, I probably wouldn't have made it.  I had a
heart rate of 35 beats per minute, after having two days without the
medicine.

Pam S. who doesn't think Vioxx is implicated nearly as much as it should be
Howard C. Berkowitz - 28 Aug 2005 15:52 GMT
> >> I have a new one.
> >>
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> concluded....he's dead, period.
> > 1

I don't see that lack of sophistication as any more desirable than the
assumption of stupidity of most commercials. Mind you, many of the
direct-to-consumer drug advertising, both for over-the-counter and
prescription products, is often misleading rather than stupid.

The case with Vioxx and related COX-2 inhibitors is not simple. It does
appear that Merck, shockingly as it had been regarded as extremely
concerned with ethics, may have suppressed some negative test results.

In reality, no drug is completely safe, and the reas