>Cats do learn from experience, so if they have been moved before they may
>react.
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>they haven't been moved before),..I think that is expecting too much from
>them,
This cat has been moved before that's why I was asking the question,
and I'm pretty sure that a lot of the bushes that were chopped back in
the garden, near where he used to lie in wait for birds etc also had
an effect.
>If your fellow is finding the changes you've mentioned distressing, a bit
>more attention and "kitty dialogue" should calm him down IMHE. It's similar,
>but more intense, when they are taken to the Vet-hospital, they need
>constant stroking and soothing talk to allay their fears and reinforce their
>trust in you.
Unfortunately our little fellow has been AWOL for quite a while. We
have had the odd sighting of him, but not recently, and because a lot
of furniture had been moved out I believe this may also have unsettled
him. It was a lot of my sisters furniture that was moved out (she is
the owner of the cat by the way). What has happened is she has bought
another place with her boyfriend quite a long distance away. She is
living their at the weekends between Friday and Sunday. Monday to
Thursday she is back here.
What I have been thinking is that he may have tried making his way
back to the house he lived in previously with my sister and her ex-bf
who she split with. He might have assumed that because the furniture
was being moved out he was being moved back there?
That is quite a complicated assumption though, and usually it is the
simplest explanation that is the right one.
I am thinking perhaps he has just decided to move elsewhere in area we
are of his own free will, especially if there are more cats in other
streets? It could be possible that he has been taken in by someone
else.
Incidentally before anyone jumps down my throat, we live in the UK and
we don't keep cats indoors here, it is a completely different scenario
to the US. Cats here are generally indoor/outdoor cats, they are
allowed out during the day.
I have read a number of reports on the internet of missing cats
especially tomcats that have gone missing in the middle of Winter and
turned back up again in Spring, so this gives us some hope.
So far I have been helping my sister with the search and have dropped
flyers in hundreds of letter boxes. I have been quite surprised by the
number of kind neighbours in the area keeping an eye out for us and
helping. There are a lot of cat lovers out there.
I think I am going to take a look around the old area where he used to
live just to see if he has ventured over there. He may have wanted to
visit his old friends in that area.
If only we knew what was going on inside the mind of cats! I'm sure
it's not always, sleep, food, get birdie etc. I think a lot of them
are more intelligent than we give them credit for.
John
Jason James - 15 Feb 2006 16:43 GMT
> >Cats do learn from experience, so if they have been moved before they may
> >react.
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> of furniture had been moved out I believe this may also have unsettled
> him.
It's possible. Was he previously a cat whcih had an established feeding
routines et al?
It was a lot of my sisters furniture that was moved out (she is
> the owner of the cat by the way). What has happened is she has bought
> another place with her boyfriend quite a long distance away. She is
> living their at the weekends between Friday and Sunday. Monday to
> Thursday she is back here.
He could find that confusing.
> What I have been thinking is that he may have tried making his way
> back to the house he lived in previously with my sister and her ex-bf
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> streets? It could be possible that he has been taken in by someone
> else.
It's entirely possible if his bonds to your sister were not consistant due
to her life-circumstances.
> Incidentally before anyone jumps down my throat, we live in the UK and
> we don't keep cats indoors here, it is a completely different scenario
> to the US. Cats here are generally indoor/outdoor cats, they are
> allowed out during the day.
Same here (Australia) and I bet the US.
> I have read a number of reports on the internet of missing cats
> especially tomcats that have gone missing in the middle of Winter and
> turned back up again in Spring, so this gives us some hope.
Absolutely, especially if he is confused or put off by the changes you speak
of. Cats are very good at surviving and especially if a neigbour is
providing things which he finds to his liking. This is not a statement about
his former relationship,..rather a reaction to that which neither you or him
has any control over.
> So far I have been helping my sister with the search and have dropped
> flyers in hundreds of letter boxes. I have been quite surprised by the
> number of kind neighbours in the area keeping an eye out for us and
> helping. There are a lot of cat lovers out there.
That's great. I hasten to add, we had a similar experience with our present
stray. He would disappear for a longtime, then suddenly appear. We were able
to get him to stay by allowing him inside. He was very impressed by that,
and thus far he has stayed with us.
> I think I am going to take a look around the old area where he used to
> live just to see if he has ventured over there. He may have wanted to
> visit his old friends in that area.
Could be.
> If only we knew what was going on inside the mind of cats! I'm sure
> it's not always, sleep, food, get birdie etc. I think a lot of them
> are more intelligent than we give them credit for.
It sounds to me the whole thing has come about through a series of events
which have been beyond your control. Cats which spend time outside will
always be tempted by other cat-lovers who feed them.
I hope that you or your sister locate him and can aquaint him successfully
with the new arrangements you speak of.
Jason
morgenmarshall@hotmail.com - 15 Feb 2006 17:29 GMT
You might try a hav-a-heart trap, too. Once you trap the baby and
reunite him with his person, he may be very happy about the situation.
Conversely, he may not want to move and is making it hard for that
possibility.
Every time I go away for a weekend, my cats know ahead of time, and
sulk or get clingy. When I move, I watch them closely to be sure that
they don't run off so they make it to the new place with me.
Sounds like the furniture was familiar and removing it unsettled the
cat. He may actually like where he is living and the people who serve
him. Remember that cats choose their people, not the other way around.
If a cat is happy with the people he is living with, he will let you
know. As long as you see him around, keep putting food out.
Eventually, he may come home. Also, add some tidbits that you know he
favors (chicken or fish bits). Don't lose hope.
Morgen the Cat Whisperer
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NanCe - 15 Feb 2006 17:11 GMT
>What I have been thinking is that he may have tried making his way
>back to the house he lived in previously with my sister and her ex-bf
Yes, *definitely* go and check out the old house and let the owner know -
give her/him a flyer.
>I am thinking perhaps he has just decided to move elsewhere in area we
>are of his own free will, especially if there are more cats in other
>streets?
Is he neutered? Unneutered males will want to roam and meet up with females.
Would be more of a homebody if he were fixed.
The flyers are an excellent idea; don't know much about the UK, but is there
a local Animal Control or Humane Society that you can also contact in case
someone brings him there?
NanCe