Well I finally made the move. Before Christmas we had spent about $2000.00
on our beloved cat with a urinary problem. He was back and forth to the vets
and finally having sampled blood in the urine and were told it was probably
a tumor we regretfully had him put to sleep. I cried for quite a while but
this afternoon I deceided I couldn't live without a cat. I went to the SPA
and adopted a 2 yr old tabby. When we got home though discovered he is quite
shy. Went to hide under one bed. Then another. We just let him roam around
so he can get used to the house. There is only my husband and myself here.
After not seeing him for about an hour we started looking around and found
him in our bed under the bed spread. We talked to him petted him. He came in
the kitchen, drank only water, used the litter box and back under the
covers, We've always loved lap cats who purr and can't wait to come to us.
Guess it will take a little time with this one. Any suggestions?
Java
Lynn - 19 Mar 2005 02:27 GMT
So sorry for your loss. I'm glad you decided to adopt another furbaby in
need of a good home. As for your new shy cat, it may take some time for him
to adjust. I adopted a new kitty about a year and a half ago and it took
her a long time to fully relax. The best thing for you to do is to be warm
and welcoming for your new kitty but don't force the issue. Let her come to
you when she is ready. Some things you can do to ease the transition are
provide a Feliway dispenser (releases a sythetic cat phermone that puts
them at ease), give him a room where he can feel safe and alone when he
needs to, sleep in a t-shirt to put your scent on it and place it where he
sleeps to allow him to get used to you, and speak softly or sing quietly to
him. These are only a few tips to ease the transition when adopting a new
kitty. I'm sure other posters will respond with more. Best of luck!
David Sisson - 09 Apr 2005 01:49 GMT
Anytime I get a new cat, I was always anxious to make friends and be
'the one' the cat chose. But the harder I tried, the further the cat
would move. So I starting doing the opposite, I ignored the cat
totally. I would, of course, make sure they wanted for nothing. If
they walked by, I would not make eye contact. Slowly, I would start
reacting in different ways and slowing win the cat over.