Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come up to
me unafraid. And, quite often, the pet's owners comment that this is quite
unusual, that their dogs and/or cats are normally hesitant to approach
strangers. I'll admit to being an animal lover of the first order, but what
is it that the dogs and cats sense that makes them be so at ease with me?

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tension_on_the_wire - 08 Sep 2006 08:34 GMT
> Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come up to
> me unafraid. And, quite often, the pet's owners comment that this is quite
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> James Leo Ryan ..... Austin, Texas ..... taliesinsoft@mac.com
They know an animal lover when they see or smell one. I think it's
hormones, or even pheromones of a type. Certainly, they can smell
fear, on people who are not comfortable with animals. But perhaps
there is something else on animal lovers that they *can* smell, besides
the total absence of fear. Maybe they can smell love. Or cat
hormones, if you were a feline in your last life, as I apparently was.
According to my cats anyway.
I have the same thing happen to me. The most remarkable one was when I
entered the house of a friend once, for the first time, and he and his
wife were at the door, as was the big Garfield of a tabby, and even
before I said hello to the adults, I got down on my knees to greet the
ruler.....as they were putting their hands to their heads and saying
"Oh, I wouldn't do that if I were you"; apparently they were expecting
a full frontal attack on my hands and face....you could have knocked
them over with a feather when that big lump just rolled over and gave
me the belly, hah!!
---tension
Beth - 08 Sep 2006 11:56 GMT
>> Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come up
>> to
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> ---tension
I get the same thing! Most remarkably though was a couple months ago when I
was visiting a friend at her parent's house. This friend had moved 10 hours
away from home and so I hadn't been at her parent's house in at least a
year. While there the family's two dogs always came to me for petting.
But, they have a cat who is quite independent and usually would only let me
pat his head for a second before quietly going on his way. He's an outdoor
cat who has all of his claws and doesn't like it when things don't go his
way. He swats at the family members often, except for the dad because Ralph
(the cat) is really the dad's cat. So, imagine my shock and the shock of
everyone when, after not seeing me for a long time (he used to see me on a
weekly basis), King Ralph came up and started walking between my feet and
rubbing his head on my shoes and was pawing nicely at me. So, I got down on
the ground and was petting his head and he also flipped over and let me rub
his belly...which he apparently never does. Maybe he smelled my cat on me
or something, but I've had my cat for 2 1/2 years, so I'm sure he'd have
smelled her on me before.
Beth
Denise Clere - 08 Sep 2006 14:21 GMT
this same thing happens to me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
> Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come up
> to
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> what
> is it that the dogs and cats sense that makes them be so at ease with me?
wester@laway.net - 08 Sep 2006 21:39 GMT
>Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come up to
>me unafraid. And, quite often, the pet's owners comment that this is quite
>unusual, that their dogs and/or cats are normally hesitant to approach
>strangers. I'll admit to being an animal lover of the first order, but what
>is it that the dogs and cats sense that makes them be so at ease with me?
You smell like meat. Period. <just kidding>
TaliesinSoft - 08 Sep 2006 22:13 GMT
>> Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come up
>> to
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> You smell like meat. Period. <just kidding>
So why don't the human females crawl all over like the cats and dogs? :-)

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Paula2U - 13 May 2007 12:19 GMT
>>> Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come
>>> up
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> So why don't the human females crawl all over like the cats and dogs?
> :-)
Human females think first this is the difference between animals and humans
and human females have learned NOT TO TRUST!!!!! ;-)
Paula4u
MJKneiser@gmail.com - 10 Sep 2006 22:36 GMT
Animals can sense when a person is calm and unafraid. Dogs especially
can tell that and it sets them at ease immediately. Dog trainer Cesar
Milan talks about that all the time (Dog Whisperer).
> Whenever I go for the first time into a person's house their pets come up to
> me unafraid. And, quite often, the pet's owners comment that this is quite
> unusual, that their dogs and/or cats are normally hesitant to approach
> strangers. I'll admit to being an animal lover of the first order, but what
> is it that the dogs and cats sense that makes them be so at ease with me?